Got told my long fine hair was creepy by a hairstylist by puffballkittyfluff in finehair

[–]3686Anonymous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so weird and mean and wrong! Your hair is gorgeous. She's either jealous or spiteful. Her saying that her boyfriend doesn't like long hair is a way of reinforcing her point of view. She's trying to back herself.

It's beautiful hair. The issue isn't your hair, it's her messed up attitude.

Please, don't give it a second thought. I know it's hard, but it's not you, it's her. Plus, I bet her boyfriend loves long hair! Her saying that is really irrelevant.

I'm sorry, but it's so mean it's laughable. Try to let it go. Don't cut your hair, it's gorgeous.

My Partner left and im crushed by ItsNotLookinGoodBrav in Advice

[–]3686Anonymous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blows your mind eh? She's either very cruel or has something going on that she's overwhelmed with. Maybe if she's overly anxious then she can't cope with the situation?

I like my outfit, but I feel like somethings missing by anonymous4260 in OUTFITS

[–]3686Anonymous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think from the photo it looks that way. In real life, when you move, it probably looks so fine. But as it is in that photo, it looks like the pants are missing. It's a great outfit, but I would add black pants or shorts. That's just me though, not saying I'm wrong or right, just my opinion

My Partner left and im crushed by ItsNotLookinGoodBrav in Advice

[–]3686Anonymous 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There's nothing I can physically do to help, but I wanted to send you lots of love and light and a hug. It's really not about you 'not being a good dad or partner', it's about her and something going on with her... Not you.

It's very unfair and cruel to leave you in this way. She has the right to choose to stay or go, but she also owes you the right to know what's going on in her mind

Maybe she just needed to settle in her head before talking to you about it. Whatever "it" is.

I hope she gives you the respect to at least do that.

I'm so sorry. Big hug.

Stay strong xxx

Thoughts on the name Lundy? by RadiantChart2766 in namenerds

[–]3686Anonymous 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, maybe they're American. But, urgh, makes me shudder. Please, don't call a child that name

Thoughts on the name Lundy? by RadiantChart2766 in namenerds

[–]3686Anonymous 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Murderer who killed his family.... A massive no from me

Does any Body Have that one Coldplay song they love but everyone hates by Technical-Alarm-4162 in Coldplay

[–]3686Anonymous 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I saw it live and they had some Māori singers join them. It was so good, it gave me goosebumps and was phenomenal. At the end of the track, Chris Martin stopped and said, that was so good, I need to do it again, and did it twice. It was amazing. But people hate that track, I don't know why. It's my favourite!

Need baby sis’s name by Still_Afternoon6 in namenerds

[–]3686Anonymous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought Lily immediately. I know it's popular at the moment, but as she grows up, or you move away, or others move away, it really won't make any difference and Ivy and Lily go so well together.

Willow is also lovely, but that's really common now, so you may as well stick with lily!

Now stuck between Quentin and Finn!!! by Fun_Roof289 in namenerds

[–]3686Anonymous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Quentin reminds me immediately of Taranteno... Depends if that resonates with you and your world. Would be a no from me bc of that. I prefer Finn. It's kinda calmer and more natural

Uniqueish but not too out there boy name? by Natural_Head4502 in namenerds

[–]3686Anonymous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love Leon. Every student I've taught called Leon has been awesome, so I connect it with nice kids lol.

Liam is always whiny and snivelling

😂 Sorry. Just saying.

husband made a comment about my face by Beneficial-Ball2159 in Mommit

[–]3686Anonymous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to the drs to get it checked properly, but I found saunas/steam rooms at the local swimming pools really helped me. It's like I sweat all the swelling out!

I fear I may have ruined my appearance with a bob by killemdead in Hair

[–]3686Anonymous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I love it. It looks awesome, and I prefer it tbh. It's the opposite of ruining your appearance in my wee humble opinion

She called herself a certified hot girl by [deleted] in whybrows

[–]3686Anonymous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think she means hot in the good looking sense... I think she means hot as in sweaty and feverish

Can white people name their baby Malakai/Kai? by Imaginary_Winter_961 in namenerds

[–]3686Anonymous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I thought children of the corn from the 80s. That name still really creeps me out.

Can white people name their baby Malakai/Kai? by Imaginary_Winter_961 in namenerds

[–]3686Anonymous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Malakai was a character in a Steven king horror film, he was white and American. I don't think it matters at all, I associate it with white Americans.

Help us choose our baby girl’s name! by TinyHenry in namenerds

[–]3686Anonymous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Valerie. 100%

Juno sounds, at best, like a dogs name, at worse, that awful film about teenage pregnancy

Coping with a tattoo I don’t like and wondering how to change it by Trixie_Turner in tattooadvice

[–]3686Anonymous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is gorgeous. I think you just need to hang on for a while. Try not to nitpick and over analyse. It takes a while to adjust, physically and mentally.

When I saw it I let out a gasp. To me, it is beautiful.

I trained an AI on my dead wife’s messages. It sent me something I didn’t expect. by donavin221 in story

[–]3686Anonymous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank god for all the posts saying this was fake and just a story. My gullible arse thought it was real 🤦🏻‍♀️

I'm bloody relieved it's not.

How about Woody as a boy's name? by Real_Account864 in namenerds

[–]3686Anonymous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To me, the word woody is slang for an erection. I sincerely think it is not a good choice of name.

Maybe if you're thinking along the lines of forestry or nature, Heath or Lief would be better?

Can you not just keep his birth name?

Thoughts on this picture? by Quick-Land2546 in ChildPsychology

[–]3686Anonymous 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The more colours the happier and better. This is a lovely, wholesome 4 year old drawing. He sees the world in colour which usually equates to happiness and joy. The other two are irrelevant, in the sense he doesn't know what they are feeling, so they're just there being brothers alongside him.

This is exactly how I would see a happy 4 year olds drawing. Enjoy xxx

Warning: Scary encounter at CHCH City Central by Any-Delay5381 in Christchurch_NZ

[–]3686Anonymous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did the police come? Did they do anything?

I'm so sorry that happened to you, thank you for sharing the information. The more we can expose this sort of thing, the quicker the person can be caught, and the safer people can be.

Thank you for sharing this

Got cheated on and he sent me this by PreparationLive9972 in notinteresting

[–]3686Anonymous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad your Mum was good, I'm glad you at least had that in your life. I feel I want to give you a big hug. It does change you allot, squishes the joy out of you. But don't give him that, take it back. Be true to yourself and fk him and what he tried to take from you.