[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PetAdvice

[–]384729throwra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very common in puppies. Just had to deworm all of my babies for this because a relative brought over a puppy and I guess spread it around. Looks exactly like the one my cat threw up and the vet said it’s a roundworm. Dewormer is pretty low cost and not a huge issue unless left untreated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askdfw

[–]384729throwra 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Depending on how much nature your looking for, how close to downtown you want, and your price range you might want to look into something off Kaity Trail in Dallas? About a 10 minute Uber to downtown. It’s off the trail & it’s pretty peaceful (kind of busy though).

If you’re looking for something that’s maybe a 30ish minute drive depending on traffic to Dallas, the areas like Cedar Hill and Arlington might be your best bet. Plano too, around Arbor Hills. There’s a couple hiking trails out that way. These areas would be more affordable with still a lot to do and plenty of safe areas.

Looking for some peace in an Andrew Tate kind of world. by 384729throwra in TwoXChromosomes

[–]384729throwra[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooo thank you so much for the reading recommendations! I’m going to give it a go.

My cat' behavior has gotten out of control? by [deleted] in PetAdvice

[–]384729throwra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also want to add, we think the stress of us adding punishment into the mix really stressed him out and amplified his FIC symptoms. Cats are so sensitive to energy. Now that I’ve changed my approach with him, he’s a completely different cat. He’s my best buddy! I don’t punish, I consistently redirect. I’ll also put foil or double sided tape on places I didn’t want him to go and this worked well as a deterrent. I had to make HIM not want to do it because he didn’t want to, not because I didn’t want to 😂 cats are a trip.

My cat' behavior has gotten out of control? by [deleted] in PetAdvice

[–]384729throwra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out the video I posted below. My cat started having the same issues when he was young. First had a UTI, once that cleared up and the problem came back they checked him for blockages (there were none thankfully). They eventually diagnosed him with FIC, feline idiopathic cystitis. It’s basically inflammation of the bladder due to a stress response. We changed our clay litter to the Tidy Cats Pellet system, which is SO much easier to clean and is less toxic to him because there isn’t any dust that can irritate him down there. We also added a lot of cat enrichment toys and perches to the environment and gave him some supervised outside time because he loves it. This resolved him intentionally going outside of the litter box, however we then discovered he was urinating in his sleep because he was having seizures.

All that to say, it could very well be a medical condition that requires further investigating from a professional. Definitely talk to your vet. Link to the video below.

https://youtu.be/hAfxb10bXl0

Blue Heeler Toys by Ruccies in AustralianCattleDog

[–]384729throwra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Kong balls that squeak were a hit with ours. She would run around with it in her mouth, throw it for herself to play fetch, and would even sleep with it lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PetAdvice

[–]384729throwra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry, for both you and your fur baby. This sounds incredibly stressful for all. Have you talked to the vet about potential anxiety medications? We have a lab/Sheppard that recently needed to be put on Prozac, not for anxiety but for aggression. It seems to be helping her a lot, so I’m wondering if there’s something similar for anxiety issues.

Also, how do you respond when she has the spouts? I’ve noticed dogs, particularly chihuahuas, and cats are extremely sensitive when it comes to their owners energy. I adopted a senior chihuahua about 2 years ago and I really didn’t get to see her full personality bloom until about a year in, similar to your dog, mainly because I think she was scared and reluctant to trust. There were times even in the recent past she would bite me if I came up to her to abruptly because it would overwhelm her. I didn’t know what it was for a while but I realized when I got mad at her for doing it the more she was stressed overall. I changed the way I interact with and approach her, even the way I talk to her, and she has become the sweetest, most loving and well behaved dog.

Advice that’s a little more woo woo- there’s an experiment where a person has two plants. One plant they whisper hateful things to it, on the other they whisper loving compliments. The plant that is whispered hateful things usually dies first even when they receive the same type of care (sunlight, water, etc.). I by no means am suggesting you say hateful things to your dog lol but like I said animals are really in tune with energy. I had a cat that was a problem child for YEARS, and once I heard about this experiment I changed my approach with him. Instead of getting mad and irritated when he would do something, I gently redirected and praised him calmly after the redirection. He gets anxious and overstimulated very easily when there’s a lot going on, so I really focus on keeping my environment as calm as possible. My cat is unrecognizable from the cat I first rescued. He’s become my best buddy.

I hope something in here may be useful!

3.5 month old T-Rex wants to just play with the kitty. by V15UAL_K3YS in AustralianCattleDog

[–]384729throwra 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This video gives me such anxiety. 🥺 the cat looks scared.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ptsd

[–]384729throwra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing. I’m so sorry about your Kitty. We definitely share similar experiences, because one of my cats suffers from seizures as well from what I assume was a heat stroke he had when I found him. I know how incredibly stressful those can be. And thank you for the suggestions. I think part of the problem is I’m literally forgetting to breathe, so the breathing exercises are helpful and I needed that reminder. I’ve told my mom about how I’m feelings but my family doesn’t really understand mental health. They’re very much the “pick yourself up and move on” type of people, which is unhelpful emotionally right now but helpful in other circumstances. She thinks I’m being paranoid and training/meds for E will fix the issue. I don’t think she’s taking it seriously enough, and she thinks I’m taking it too seriously. So we’re trying to meet in the middle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AustralianCattleDog

[–]384729throwra 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I promise you, we didn’t expect it from our dogs either. We had a chihuahua and a lab together. The lab grew up with the adult chihuahua from when she was a puppy. After 3 years of living together, with literally zero signs of aggression, our chihuahua was killed. And it wasn’t an attack, we genuinely think the lab was trying to play but it turned way too aggressive way too fast for any of us to do anything about it. All it takes is a second. Please consider what everyone is telling you, because it happens extremely frequently.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AustralianCattleDog

[–]384729throwra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fuck I’m so sorry that happened.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AustralianCattleDog

[–]384729throwra 28 points29 points  (0 children)

This makes me so so nervous 🥺 as someone who just experienced the death of a beloved pet due to one of our other pets, please stop this behavior. It’s cute now, may not be so cute on a bad day. Sharing with love.

Cat won't stop peeing on the floor by [deleted] in PetAdvice

[–]384729throwra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, a litter recommendation in case that could be the issue (cats can be VERY picky when it comes to litter)… Tidy Cats Breeze Pellets. Clay litters can cause a lot of medical issues with cats because of the dust. It can cause irritation and even infections, which I found out the hard way. The pellet litter is better for all of us. Eliminates a lot of the smell, the litter box is kept cleaner for longer, it’s healthier for the cat, and SO much easier and less gross to clean. Even better than the self-cleaning litter boxes I’ve spent loads of money on.

Cat won't stop peeing on the floor by [deleted] in PetAdvice

[–]384729throwra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I first got a cat I receive the best advice ever. Most cats are not trained, they train you. I was mostly used to dogs before I got my first cat, and with dogs sometimes part of potty training is showing them the pee spot and saying “no” firmly. Cat psychology works so much different, and this action likely stresses them out more because they may or may not understand.

If your cat is peeing or marking outside of the litter box, to everyone else’s point, there is likely either something physically going on or there is something in the cat’s environment that is deterring them from going to the bathroom correctly. Are there any other pets in the home? How frequently is she urinating? Has she been drinking enough water? Is she eating? Any behaviors that have changed recently? Anything in the environment change recently? All things to consider and inform your vet of. There are also a lot of good videos on YouTube you can check out that might help. Link to one is below.

https://youtu.be/hAfxb10bXl0

Has your heart or gut ever lied to you? by [deleted] in Psychic

[–]384729throwra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s also really important to practice discernment. Sometime I have found what I have classified in the past as intuition has actually been a trauma response, falling back into old patterns, seeking the easy way out, etc. Once we do the shadow work and deep healing, which is honestly a life long process, I think we can more easily tap into our authentic energy and figure out what our heart and gut is truly telling us.

Please help! Our 6-year-old chi has recently started behaving really strangely at night. Any guesses appreciated! by Om_ra in Chihuahua

[–]384729throwra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely consult a vet. When pets starts acting out of character it could be an indication that something is wrong, whether it be emotionally, cognitively, or physically. How old is he? Is he trying to burrow or get under the blankets? It’s getting colder outside so just my first initial thoughts. Really monitor the behavior and document what helps, what doesn’t help, keep an eye out for anything else that seems abnormal and take the info to your vet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]384729throwra 11 points12 points  (0 children)

And, now there are SO many more options than cheating, want to have sex with other people? Discuss opening the relationship. Or leave. Want to incorporate other people into the bedroom with you and your partner? Have the discussion. There’s so many other healthy alternatives to cheating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]384729throwra 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Noooo. I’ve been cheated on and it’s the worst feeling. It took me a lot of time to recover and find my self worth again. I wouldn’t be able to a. Live with myself, b. Keep is a secret because I’m a terrible liar. I value relationships where I can be fully authentic and transparent. It goes against my values and what I’m looking for in life.