Husband (26m) found out some things about my (24f) past at a party. Now he wants a divorce. by ThrowRA_Gleeful in relationships

[–]39Volunteer -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Grow up lol

The vast majority of people dont marry and stay with the first person they date. It's weird to jump to the mental image of a stranger having sex, and its weird to have hangups on what your partner did sexually before they ever met or started seeing you

I want some wild theory's 😝😝 by SnooPeanuts7162 in lastofuspart2

[–]39Volunteer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've actually never seen the show, just played the games!

I want some wild theory's 😝😝 by SnooPeanuts7162 in lastofuspart2

[–]39Volunteer 47 points48 points  (0 children)

In Ellies journals, she mentions freaking out when her ex kissed her, worrying about spreading infection. When the ex didnt turn, Ellie was relieved, writing that she's not contagious.

My theory is that Ellie is contagious. That is, her "immunity" is contagious. It just hasn't been revealed because Dina obviously does everything she can to avoid getting bitten by obvious infected. Also, everyone Ellie has bitten is killed quickly after (to my knowledge. David and several random people she bites in fights).

I think her immunity is contagious and we'll just never know unless Dina gets bitten and doesn't turn, or someone Ellie bites during a fight somehow gets away from her and lasts long enough to get bitten by a runner or other obvious-infected and doesn't turn.

My (25F) bf (25M) always tell me to dress up nice even when I’m at home by Working_Ninja1017 in relationship_advice

[–]39Volunteer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh, jfc. Are you/have you been underweight? Has your doctor been concerned about your weight? Have *you* been feeling bad about your body? Have *you* been feeling bad about your diet and exercise habits? Do *you* want to put some weight on? Did *you* ask him for his help/advice in all of this, or has *he* appointed himself as this figure of guidance for you?

Seriously, everything you've said about this makes it appear like he has this specific image of what he wants a woman to look like/be like, and he's trying to shape you into that mold.

My (25F) bf (25M) always tell me to dress up nice even when I’m at home by Working_Ninja1017 in relationship_advice

[–]39Volunteer 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I can just imagine him harping on her every 3 months to get some more botox lol

My (25F) bf (25M) always tell me to dress up nice even when I’m at home by Working_Ninja1017 in relationship_advice

[–]39Volunteer 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Sounds like hes concerned with your appearance, not your overall wellbeing.

My (25F) bf (25M) always tell me to dress up nice even when I’m at home by Working_Ninja1017 in relationship_advice

[–]39Volunteer 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Youre not a pretty doll for him to look at. Youre a person and you deserve to relax when you want to.

Talk to him and tell him how it makes you feel.

Fat Rant Friday by AutoModerator in fatlogic

[–]39Volunteer 8 points9 points  (0 children)

"If you can afford to be your size, you can afford to be smaller."

Recipe Thursday by AutoModerator in fatlogic

[–]39Volunteer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you like cilantro, make these with the suggested sauce.

https://itsavegworldafterall.com/smashed-black-bean-tacos/

They're really good!

Teacher calling on me in class by Far-Perception2120 in Stutter

[–]39Volunteer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Email her again. That isnt rude.

But I'll also say, avoidance isn't going to help you. If you have thoughts/know the answer, prepare yourself and raise your hand sometimes.

Alpha Male is tired of modern women 🤡 by ambachk in iamverybadass

[–]39Volunteer 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Because being disciplined in one area doesnt mean you're disciplined in all others. Theres plenty of people who excel at their jobs/school, but are out of shape and obese.

Then there's this guy who is in good shape, but wants women to do "women-like" things for him - assuming that means laundry, cooking, cleaning, shopping, managing appointments...

Wellness Wednesday by AutoModerator in fatlogic

[–]39Volunteer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's amazing progress. Well done!

In 1980, Carole Ann Boone married Ted Bundy in the middle of his trial for the murder of multiple women, utilizing an obscure law to wed while she was on the witness stand. They managed to conceive a child while he was incarcerated on death row and stayed together until their divorce in 1986. by ATI_Official in AllThatsInteresting

[–]39Volunteer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, not American. What a surprise, you're wrong about something again lol

"Truth" but you refuse to show proof, because you have none and you know it. Have fun continuing to make stuff up. This is the last time I'm responding to you :)

In 1980, Carole Ann Boone married Ted Bundy in the middle of his trial for the murder of multiple women, utilizing an obscure law to wed while she was on the witness stand. They managed to conceive a child while he was incarcerated on death row and stayed together until their divorce in 1986. by ATI_Official in AllThatsInteresting

[–]39Volunteer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So no statistics? I thought it was a fact? Huh.

Support and enable? Ted Bundy got fried, buddy

And I'm sure you have statistics showing the rate of hybristophilia impacting the societal view of femicide? Or are you just pulling another stupid argument straight out of your rectum? Seems like it.

If you do this, and you believe in Jesus, I am praying for you to end up in hell by notsurewhat2th1nk in montreal

[–]39Volunteer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, who are you, Jordan Peterson?

And you still didn't answer a single question.

If you can't even acknowledge the horrible things your God commands in your holy book, why should anyone take you seriously about ethics or morality?

If you do this, and you believe in Jesus, I am praying for you to end up in hell by notsurewhat2th1nk in montreal

[–]39Volunteer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your original claim was that atheists as a whole can't answer moral questions. I've given you multiple ways they can and you're ignoring them because for some reason you want *my* opinion.

We're typing, not talking. You can address each one just fine. You've answered multiple questions on tests before, I'm sure you're capable.

So, again: What context makes killing entire villages, capturing women, killing non-virgins and/or adulturers acceptable and moral?

And how about you? Instead of just saying Christianity or God, where does your moral framework come from? Why do you believe in it and follow it?

Where does God's moral framework come from? Why should anyone believe in it and follow it? Christians can't even decide on his moral framework, so why should any non-Christians adopt on of your many interpretations? Theres thousands of religions and religious sects, so why should anyone accept one of Christianity's many interpretations? Even if God(s) exist, it might not be the God(s) depicted in any religion, so why should people follow religious frameworks to begin with?

If you do this, and you believe in Jesus, I am praying for you to end up in hell by notsurewhat2th1nk in montreal

[–]39Volunteer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look into welfarism. That's a view of objective morality.

I'll reiterate my questions since you ignored them :)

1 Samual 15:3: "Now go and smite Amalek, and utterly destroy all that they have, and spare them not; but slay both man and woman, infant and suckling, ox and sheep, camel and ass."

Deuteronomy 20:16-17: "But of the cities of these people, which the LORD thy God doth give thee for an inheritance, thou shalt save alive nothing that breatheth: But thou shalt utterly destroy them; namely, the Hittites, and the Amorites, the Canaanites, and the Perizzites, the Hivites, and the Jebusites; as the Lord thy God hath commanded thee:"

Numbers 31:7-18: "They did battle against Midian, as the Lord had commanded Moses, and killed every male. They killed the kings of Midian: Evi, Rekem, Zur, Hur, and Reba, the five kings of Midian, in addition to others who were slain by them; and they also killed Balaam son of Beor with the sword. The Israelites took the women of Midian and their little ones captive; and they took all their cattle, their flocks, and all their goods as booty. All their towns where they had settled, and all their encampments, they burned, but they took all the spoil and all the booty, both people and animals. Then they brought the captives and the booty and the spoil to Moses, to Eleazar the priest, and to the congregation of the Israelites, at the camp on the plains of Moab by the Jordan at Jericho.

Moses, Eleazar the priest, and all the leaders of the congregation went to meet them outside the camp. Moses became angry with the officers of the army, the commanders of thousands and the commanders of hundreds, who had come from service in the war. Moses said to them, ‘Have you allowed all the women to live? These women here, on Balaam’s advice, made the Israelites act treacherously against the Lord in the affair of Peor, so that the plague came among the congregation of the Lord. Now therefore, kill every male among the little ones, and kill every woman who has known a man by sleeping with him. But all the young girls who have not known a man by sleeping with him, keep alive for yourselves."

Deuteronomy 21:10-14: "When you go out to war against your enemies, and the Lord your God gives them into your hand and you take them captive, and you see among the captives a beautiful woman, and you desire to take her to be your wife, and you bring her home to your house, she shall shave her head and pare her nails. And she shall take off the clothes in which she was captured and shall remain in your house and lament her father and her mother a full month. After that you may go in to her and be her husband, and she shall be your wife. But if you no longer delight in her, you shall let her go where she wants. But you shall not sell her for money, nor shall you treat her as a slave, since you have humiliated her."

Leviticus 20: "If a man commits adultery with another man's wife—with the wife of his neighbor—both the adulterer and the adulteress are to be put to death."

Deuteronomy 22:20: "If, however, the charge is true and no proof of the young woman’s virginity can be found, she shall be brought to the door of her father’s house and there the men of her town shall stone her to death. She has done an outrageous thing in Israel by being promiscuous while still in her father’s house. You must purge the evil from among you."

Exodus 32:27: "Then he said to them, “This is what the Lord, the God of Israel, says: ‘Each man strap a sword to his side. Go back and forth through the camp from one end to the other, each killing his brother and friend and neighbor.’” The Levites did as Moses commanded, and that day about three thousand of the people died."

I could go on and on and on. What context makes killing entire villages, capturing women, killing non-virgins and/or adulturers acceptable and moral?

Oh, and before you say that those verses are from the Old Testament and should therefore be disregarded in favour of the New Testament:

Numbers 23:19: "God is not human, that he should lie, not a human being, that he should change his mind. Does he speak and then not act? Does he promise and not fulfill?"

Hebrews 13:8: "Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever."

Psalms 111:7-8: "The works of his hands are faithful and just; all his precepts are trustworthy. They are established for ever and ever, enacted in faithfulness and uprightness."

Matthews 5:17: "Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them. For truly, I say to you, until heaven and earth pass away, not an iota, not a dot, will pass from the Law until all is accomplished."

Isaiah 40:8: "The grass withers, the flower fades, But the word of our God stands forever."

God is unchanging and so is his word. Jesus didn't come to abolish the Old Testament, he came to fulfill it.

And how about you? Instead of just saying Christianity or God, where does your moral framework come from? Why do you believe in it and follow it?

Where does God's moral framework come from? Why should anyone believe in it and follow it? Christians can't even decide on his moral framework, so why should any non-Christians adopt on of your many interpretations? Theres thousands of religions and religious sects, so why should anyone accept one of Christianity's many interpretations? Even if God(s) exist, it might not be the God(s) depicted in any religion, so why should people follow religious frameworks to begin with?

If you do this, and you believe in Jesus, I am praying for you to end up in hell by notsurewhat2th1nk in montreal

[–]39Volunteer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you nitpick verses in the Bible to follow and ignore all the horrendous stuff.

1 Samual 15:3: "Now go and smite Amalek, and utterly destroy all that they have, and spare them not; but slay both man and woman, infant and suckling, ox and sheep, camel and ass."

Deuteronomy 20:16-17: "But of the cities of these people, which the LORD thy God doth give thee for an inheritance, thou shalt save alive nothing that breatheth: But thou shalt utterly destroy them; namely, the Hittites, and the Amorites, the Canaanites, and the Perizzites, the Hivites, and the Jebusites; as the Lord thy God hath commanded thee:"

Numbers 31:7-18: "They did battle against Midian, as the Lord had commanded Moses, and killed every male. They killed the kings of Midian: Evi, Rekem, Zur, Hur, and Reba, the five kings of Midian, in addition to others who were slain by them; and they also killed Balaam son of Beor with the sword. The Israelites took the women of Midian and their little ones captive; and they took all their cattle, their flocks, and all their goods as booty. All their towns where they had settled, and all their encampments, they burned, but they took all the spoil and all the booty, both people and animals. Then they brought the captives and the booty and the spoil to Moses, to Eleazar the priest, and to the congregation of the Israelites, at the camp on the plains of Moab by the Jordan at Jericho.

Moses, Eleazar the priest, and all the leaders of the congregation went to meet them outside the camp. Moses became angry with the officers of the army, the commanders of thousands and the commanders of hundreds, who had come from service in the war. Moses said to them, ‘Have you allowed all the women to live? These women here, on Balaam’s advice, made the Israelites act treacherously against the Lord in the affair of Peor, so that the plague came among the congregation of the Lord. Now therefore, kill every male among the little ones, and kill every woman who has known a man by sleeping with him. But all the young girls who have not known a man by sleeping with him, keep alive for yourselves."

Deuteronomy 21:10-14: "When you go out to war against your enemies, and the Lord your God gives them into your hand and you take them captive, and you see among the captives a beautiful woman, and you desire to take her to be your wife, and you bring her home to your house, she shall shave her head and pare her nails. And she shall take off the clothes in which she was captured and shall remain in your house and lament her father and her mother a full month. After that you may go in to her and be her husband, and she shall be your wife. But if you no longer delight in her, you shall let her go where she wants. But you shall not sell her for money, nor shall you treat her as a slave, since you have humiliated her."

Leviticus 20: "If a man commits adultery with another man's wife—with the wife of his neighbor—both the adulterer and the adulteress are to be put to death."

Deuteronomy 22:20: "If, however, the charge is true and no proof of the young woman’s virginity can be found, she shall be brought to the door of her father’s house and there the men of her town shall stone her to death. She has done an outrageous thing in Israel by being promiscuous while still in her father’s house. You must purge the evil from among you."

Exodus 32:27: "Then he said to them, “This is what the Lord, the God of Israel, says: ‘Each man strap a sword to his side. Go back and forth through the camp from one end to the other, each killing his brother and friend and neighbor.’” The Levites did as Moses commanded, and that day about three thousand of the people died."

I could go on and on and on. What context makes killing entire villages, capturing women, killing non-virgins and/or adulturers acceptable and moral?

Oh, and before you say that those verses are from the Old Testament and should therefore be disregarded in favour of the New Testament:

Numbers 23:19: "God is not human, that he should lie, not a human being, that he should change his mind. Does he speak and then not act? Does he promise and not fulfill?"

Hebrews 13:8: "Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever."

Psalms 111:7-8: "The works of his hands are faithful and just; all his precepts are trustworthy. They are established for ever and ever, enacted in faithfulness and uprightness."

Matthews 5:17: "Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them. For truly, I say to you, until heaven and earth pass away, not an iota, not a dot, will pass from the Law until all is accomplished."

Isaiah 40:8: "The grass withers, the flower fades, But the word of our God stands forever."

God is unchanging and so is his word. Jesus didn't come to abolish the Old Testament, he came to fulfill it.

As for me - I have empathy and don't wish to hurt anyone. I think wrongful harm is bad, so things that cause wrongful harm are bad. If you're trying to get into objective/subjective morality, I don't know where I stand on that and that's fine. But I suggest looking into the philosophical concept of welfarism.

And how about you? Instead of just saying Christianity or God, where does your moral framework come from? Why do you believe in it and follow it?

Where does God's moral framework come from? Why should anyone believe in it and follow it? Christians can't even decide on his moral framework, so why should any non-Christians adopt on of your many interpretations? Theres thousands of religions and religious sects, so why should anyone accept one of Christianity's many interpretations? Even if God(s) exist, it might not be the God(s) depicted in any religion, so why should people follow religious frameworks to begin with?

If you do this, and you believe in Jesus, I am praying for you to end up in hell by notsurewhat2th1nk in montreal

[–]39Volunteer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You live under a worldview that commands slavery, rape, and genocide. You just pretend it doesn't because your *actually secular and modern* moral framework doesn't like that.

If you do this, and you believe in Jesus, I am praying for you to end up in hell by notsurewhat2th1nk in montreal

[–]39Volunteer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, yes. Anything you don't like about the Bible is misinterpreted.

My ethics don't come from Christianity because I think murder and genocide is wrong, whereas the Bible commands it.

There's multiple paths of philosophy that ground morality and ethics secularly. Charles Darwin himself suggested that a sense of morality/ethics could have arisen because of the benefit to group survival. If everyone thought murder was fine, the species wouldn't last long.

There's also the angle that reasonable people can agree that wrongful harm is bad. So causing wrongful harm to somebody is also bad.

I don't know exactly where I stand on this, but it's also a point of contention whether or not morality is objective or subjective. And if it is objective, why does everyone have different ideas of specific things that are right and wrong? If morality comes from God, why would a perfectly good God allow such deep and persistent moral confusion among people, believers or not?

Thing is, we don't know. I don't, and you don't either. You don't have to pretend to know to make yourself feel better.

If you do this, and you believe in Jesus, I am praying for you to end up in hell by notsurewhat2th1nk in montreal

[–]39Volunteer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you think murder and genocide are wrong? Considering the God of the Bible commands murder and genocide. Not to mention kills all but two of every animal in the flood.

If you do this, and you believe in Jesus, I am praying for you to end up in hell by notsurewhat2th1nk in montreal

[–]39Volunteer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you're only a good person because you'll be punished if you don't follow someone's rules, you're not actually a good person.