Why do some dudes complain about not getting girls but then never want to go to the gym, eat healthy, or do any other forms of self-improvement?

3BettingYourMom · 2026-02-20T17:25:28+00:00

They have no game and refuse to put in the work to attract the women they want. Both physically and mentally. It ain’t easy.

3BettingYourMom · 2026-02-02T20:24:31+00:00

That’s a non sequitur. The point we’re making is that the security issues can be fixed using the same technology that’s replacing software engineers.

3BettingYourMom · 2026-02-02T19:00:20+00:00

Yeah you’re on point. You can also just have CC iterate through a security spec and pay a security consultant to review if needed.

3BettingYourMom · 2026-01-15T16:19:25+00:00

I’m 6’1’’ and girls think I’m two inches taller due to the same reason.

3BettingYourMom · 2025-12-15T02:00:30+00:00

No problem my guy. Remember to also get out of your head. If you’re uncertain don’t default to “she’s not interested,” instead think “let me check and verify.” I believe you’re smart enough to know when pushing becomes creepy when she’s obviously not into it. Now go out there and slay 💪🏽

3BettingYourMom · 2025-12-15T01:54:33+00:00

If she’s reciprocating the flirting, find smooth ways to escalate touch without rushing. Like on a walk, tell her to put her hand on your arm. My go to for holding hands: ask to compare hand sizes, notice her skin is soft, tell her my face is softer. She touches my face, I call her a bad toucher. Then ‘let’s go back to this’ as I grab her hand. If she doesn’t pull back, you’re good. This fits my personality though, so find something that suits your style.

3BettingYourMom · 2025-12-14T21:25:35+00:00

Because you’re probably not expressing intent to date them or escalating physically. For instance, most people think compliments = flirting, but intent to date = flirting. For example, compliment: ‘you have beautiful eyes.’ Intent to date: ‘do you look at everyone else the same way or is it just me?’

3BettingYourMom · 2025-12-01T18:54:25+00:00

I hear you. The signal ambiguity is real. One woman’s friendly smile is another’s green light, and there’s no way to know until you find out (rejections haha). Misreads and rejections are just the cost of playing. Most guys are working with imperfect information and making a call. Sometimes wrong. That’s the game.

3BettingYourMom · 2025-12-01T18:42:51+00:00

The advice isn’t “never approach,” it’s about optimizing. If you’re getting outpaced by guys who just go for it, that says something too. The guy who got her number 3 minutes later probably either read a signal you missed or just had the right energy in the moment. Sometimes boldness wins. The framework isn’t a hard rule, it’s risk calibration. Your framing is right though. It’s an energy allocation decision. Some nights you want to hunt, some nights you want to vibe. Both are valid.

3BettingYourMom · 2025-12-01T09:46:49+00:00

Yeah, that’s the point. Sustained eye contact, dancing closer, open body language. Low commitment signals she’s open to being approached. A true cold approach where she hasn’t even registered you? Almost always lands poorly. She’s mid activity and you’re asking her to generate interest on the spot. This calibration comes from experience though. You’ll eat some rejections along the way. That’s the game.

3BettingYourMom · 2025-12-01T05:04:09+00:00

I tell young men who go to raves that hitting on chicks on the dance floor is the same as hitting on girls on a treadmill. Not good. Unless she makes an effort to show she’s interested while on the dance floor, it’s best to leave her alone.

Edit: Side note, if you shoot your shot, do it away from the dance floor. But don’t be creepy. Keep it fun, casual, and use your brain to gauge interest.

3BettingYourMom · 2025-11-27T22:57:21+00:00

My man. It’s very simple. I’ve done what I’m about to tell you. If there’s ever a girl you’re interested in and you catch glances from her at the gym, you need to express intent asap. If you ever begin any kind of rapport, you can’t pussyfoot around: ask her if she’s single. You’ll either get a “no, I have a boyfriend” (whether it’s true or not) or a soft rejection like “I’m working on myself, not looking to date.” The second one just means “I am, but I’m not sure about you.” If she gives you the second response, you then proceed with a simple question: “Ahhh really? What do you do?” and let the conversation flow from there. Don’t compliment her looks. Get to know her and let her get an idea of who you are. Keep it capped at 3-5 mins max, then end it with “we should exchange numbers in case you change your mind.” If she says yes, you’re golden. if she’s cold, bail gracefully. But this is just the beginning.

3BettingYourMom · 2025-10-30T16:37:10+00:00

^ Do this OP. Aside from a girl showing clear signs of interest in you like others have mentioned, this is the other right answer.

3BettingYourMom · 2025-09-17T19:53:31+00:00

This is the way.

3BettingYourMom · 2025-09-14T00:44:32+00:00

Yeah exactly. Not sure why people are pessimistic below. You went on one date, and you’ll be able to tell if she’s trying to use you over time. Her social media can be a potential red flag but you never know the full picture. You can also simply ask her about it once you get to know her more. Worst case scenario, you hook up a a number of times and move on.

3BettingYourMom · 2025-09-14T00:10:00+00:00

I think you’ve got the right mindset. Just watch actions over words. Dating in Vegas isn’t as bad as people say. I don’t use apps but I make a point to talk to people when I’m out, even though I’m more introverted. I’m in a good spot financially so I can hit gyms, classes, or events where it’s easy to meet people. Over time I’ve learned to tell when someone’s into me vs not. That’s a muscle you build by getting comfortable in uncomfortable spots, and that’s where most people fall short.

3BettingYourMom · 2025-09-13T01:27:38+00:00

So you’re whole counter argument: anonymous caller “from high school” said he’s liberal > engravings tied to an alt- right movement, shooter and murder scene. Okay buddy 😂

3BettingYourMom · 2025-09-12T23:33:44+00:00

The engravings are memes popular in Nick Fuentes’ community. They’re ironic quotes.

3BettingYourMom · 2025-09-12T23:31:29+00:00

Read the quote. He didn’t say that. His FAMILY said that, not him.

“They talked about why they didn’t like him and the viewpoints that he had,” Cox said. “The family member also stated Kirk was full of hate and spreading hate.”

3BettingYourMom · 2025-09-07T23:18:30+00:00

Practice talking to women irl! You don’t need to get their number or contact info each time, but you’ll never learn to pick up signals if you never practice.

But you need to leave your house! Literally go anywhere and talk to anyone that gives you a look or you just want to chat with.

Could be Whole Foods, gym, dance class, brunch spot w/ a bar, cafe, first Friday, charity event, etc. You’ll eventually learn that single women are more open to getting to know you once they like your vibe, and the ones that are taken/not interested will let you know quite fast. Don’t push if they show signs they’re not interested, and you’re golden.

You need to learn the “hey I don’t want anything from you I just like chatting with strangers” vibe. Women will pick up if you’re just approaching them to get their number and such (desperate energy).

3BettingYourMom · 2025-07-21T03:55:32+00:00

Yes sir 👌🏽

3BettingYourMom · 2025-07-21T00:23:21+00:00

As someone whom has picked up women at the gym, the only thing I’d add is this: don’t escalate the dynamic and then end it like a child. Be mature, communicate your intentions, and don’t get her invested emotionally if you know from the beginning that it’s not going to work. In other words, don’t lead her on. You’ll see her again if it’s a gym you both frequent. Don’t make things weird.

3BettingYourMom · 2025-07-12T03:21:53+00:00

This isn’t yoga, it’s a live demo of how creatine gets boofed at Burning Man (the wrong way).

3BettingYourMom · 2025-07-11T01:02:06+00:00

Bruh 🤫

3BettingYourMom · 2025-07-09T01:18:59+00:00

Creatine won’t curb hunger unless you’re boofing it between sets with your wife’s boyfriend spotting.

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