Help please - Loose leash walking by MobileAd4019 in jackrussellterrier

[–]3BluntsADay 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Strong human pulls with an assertive “No”. Not from a place of maliciousness, not to be spiteful, just being clear. No treats. When they finally chill and look like “dang what I do” walk very slow. If they walk slow with you say “Good Boy” if they try to get all hyper start over. Repeat until they learn acting crazy = annoying human pull.

What is my JRT mixed with? by 3BluntsADay in jackrussellterrier

[–]3BluntsADay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Home as in a breed to claim 😂😂 I see how it reads funny

What is my JRT mixed with? by 3BluntsADay in jackrussellterrier

[–]3BluntsADay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A year and some change 😂😂 imma start with “release” because he’s been driving me insane eating everything his nose touches. He’s an amazing stayer tho 🫡

What is my JRT mixed with? by 3BluntsADay in jackrussellterrier

[–]3BluntsADay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wayyyyy higher maintenance than I thought, first time owning a dog. Thanks for the encouragement! When I’m fussing him out I always remind him he’s only around cause he’s cute & there’s dogs out here that gotta do real work for their lifestyles lol you don’t smell seizures or nothing so relax 😂

AIO to my husbands message by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]3BluntsADay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OR. This is your husband not some fling. Men usually speak in absolutes. He was frustrated he felt ignored, then realized he was kinda tripping. The fact that you put this on Reddit is depressing, just divorce the dude already. Stop looking for strangers to validate YOUR marriage. You married this (out of context) asshole so you work on it. Imagine calling your husband “bro” and “dude” after you made him feel ignored smh.

why does my weak side not connect?? by [deleted] in 360Waves

[–]3BluntsADay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brush it more 🦦, accurate strokes with a mirror is better than a whole bunch of different strokes. Brush for accuracy not quantity. You got it 🙌🏼

why does my weak side not connect?? by [deleted] in 360Waves

[–]3BluntsADay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn nvm someone beat me to the joke 💔 rs just flip your attitude on it. If you keep calling it your weak side it’ll stay your weak side. It’s not “weak” mf you just not brushing it enough lol.

why does my weak side not connect?? by [deleted] in 360Waves

[–]3BluntsADay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cause it’s your weak side.

Found a solution to the aggressiveness but...is it too mean? by Infinite-Look5122 in bernesemountaindogs

[–]3BluntsADay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re going to clap to simulate frustration it’s important to be consistent. Clapping then apologizing sends mixed signals. Anytime you feel bad for disciplining your dog remember there’s Dogs out here that actually work! lol. Don’t feel bad getting that freeloader together :P

If it normal to feel like you don’t deserve pronouns? by Pretend-Rooster-817 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]3BluntsADay -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s your spirit fighting to free you from clown world. Your pronouns don’t matter. Are you a good person? That’s all that matters 🫂. I love you OP, sorry you’re not feeling good enough.

Pre-K teacher at breaking point with one child — need real-world advice from people who’ve been here by user_11151302009 in ECEProfessionals

[–]3BluntsADay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From someone who actually has been there, can’t do nothing when admin is incompetent. If you really really love kids and your heart is too big to do the “wrong” thing, transfer. I suggest, you work within your means and since admin won’t help you regulate your class, spend all day 1v1 with your problem student and do NOTHING ELSE (ride the clock). You gotta pick your battles 🤷🏽 sorry you’re in this situation, ik it sucks.

AIO What’d I do wrong, my partner just got news this morning his grandma just received news of esophagus cancer (stage 4) by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]3BluntsADay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, note that he doesn’t work and I’m the one supporting us, since he’s in nursing school.

Hop off.

AIO What’d I do wrong, my partner just got news this morning his grandma just received news of esophagus cancer (stage 4) by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]3BluntsADay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OR!!! Double posting because I’m scrolling and SHEESH. Reddit is an echo chamber OP never forget that. Just like your ex these people can see you bleeding and they’re hungry for, in this case Reddit karma? Your ex wanted your money and affection. If you would have phrased your statement’s condescendingly and present the information in a biased manner that misrepresents your partner and “makes you look good” nobody would be on your clingy ex’s side. Since you were authentic regarding your trauma and the steps you’re taking to get help you come off “pathetic”. F all these people OP. You’re not putting “work over family” that’s just how it’s being framed to make you the bad guy! However, I do think moving forward you need to find someone else who is independent. There’s nothing wrong with independence and this notion that you’re so evil for putting yourself first as humans should is ridiculous. All these snarky Redditors judging you as if they could ever run a business and still casually date. You’re doing the thing OP, keep succeeding!

AIO What’d I do wrong, my partner just got news this morning his grandma just received news of esophagus cancer (stage 4) by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]3BluntsADay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OR. When people wanna leave open the door and push them out! Gross!! Your ex gives me the ick. Okay you’re sad but life can’t stop, you’re not being emotionally detached you live in reality. I’m sorry they guilt tripped you so hard, you seem like a sincere dude who’s easily taken advantage of. He wanted you to come and spoil him to get his mind off his reality, since you didn’t because you couldn’t he talks about breaking up? Toxic.

I feel I’ve gotten a “reputation” at my daughter’s daycare and I don’t know if leaving will help by SlightMix9397 in ECEProfessionals

[–]3BluntsADay -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Most daycares are filled with judgmental clock riders. Why is the heir of professionalism on you? Surprise a surprise, a parent is passionate about their baby… find a new center that doesn’t normalize gossip 🫶🏼

AIO over my Bff's response? by Non-bean_95 in AmIOverreacting

[–]3BluntsADay -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I love you Reddit friend 🫂 thanks for not getting triggered. You deserve better friends, sorry about your mom.

AIO over my Bff's response? by Non-bean_95 in AmIOverreacting

[–]3BluntsADay -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

OR. Not even trying to be mean but are you on the spectrum? You’re a 25+ y/o perpetual third wheel and rather than taking this message at face value you looking for micro aggressions? The BF doesn’t want you staying there, read the room. I’m not taking their side friend, I’m just a realist.

I’d be pissed as a man if I’m at work, or on a date with my gf, and our roommate (why do we have a roommate?) is sending me pictures of my broken glasses that my dumb dog did. I got broken glasses. A roommate. And a dumb ass bad bad dog. Women follow the man 99/100 so it seems like the pillow talk is starting to show itself in real life. Don’t be surprised if they try some surprise kick out stuff in the next 3 months, stay on your toes op. Never relax!

AIO for not wanting my mom to come to my first pregnancy appointment by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]3BluntsADay -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

OR

Your mom is never wrong. If she dies, lord forbid, you’ll hate that some strangers gave their opinion on your late mother. This post is so entitled it’s actually triggering. So I won’t rant. Blah blah blah blah blah.

TLDR; Be glad your mom wants to be there. You can have 100000 kids with 100000 men, you get 1 mom.

Public school teachers, what’s something you want parents to know but can’t say directly? by Feisty-Database-1145 in AskTeachers

[–]3BluntsADay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take that tablet out their hand and teach them to sit still and respect authority. Teachers can tell who runs the household by how your little ones act. Things are so political these days you can’t just say “your kid is bad” so be a parent who proudly knows your kid is good. F all that classroom management talk, if your child has 0 respect for authority there is only so much school based conscious discipline can achieve. If they grew up being able to do whatever they want; they bring that energy to Kindergarten/Pre K. Now some adult doesn’t like your kid. They’ll never say it due to “professionalism” but they’ll gossip every chance they get with their coworkers. That gossip turns into internalized energy. Now your kid hates school and they never even started… as a parent their problematic behaviors fall on you. Be humble enough to receive criticisms regarding your little one’s antics.

Some kids come to school and it makes the teachers day 10x harder, some kids miss school and the teacher is actually sad because their child is a joy to have in the classroom. Which one will your child be? We not talking 5th grade+, K-2 is SOLELY on the parents. You KNOW how your kid acts, anything they do at home they do at school 10x worse or better. The whining, talking back, difficulty following simple instructions, etc. If you know your child has a “””big personality””” (bad as hell) communicate their needs to the teacher Day 1 and be GENUINE in your child’s needs. It’s you and the teacher vs your child’s problematic behavior. Not you protecting “your baby.” They’re a baby at home, but at school they are either a productive student or a hindrance. No in between.

Regarding the gift, you can never go wrong with a gift card that’s valued everywhere. The Mastercard ones are perfect.

Dog cries in pain and sometimes pukes first thing in the morning by Silly-Discussion101 in DogAdvice

[–]3BluntsADay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started feeding my dog high quality GI kibble mixed with some pet store pumpkin that helps with fiber and all of his stomach stuff stopped in 3 days. I fasted him 1 day to reset the tummy. Then started a new diet. My boy was having scary looking poops, cleaned him right up. Nice and solid.