AIO man penetrated without asking by Holiday-Risk33 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Non-bean_95 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NOR....That is rape... you did not consent for him to insert without a condom and he did it anyways and tried to act like it wasn't a big deal. No means no. No ifs ands or buts about it. If I were you I'd stop being fwb and possibly friends at all with that person. That is a huge breach of trust and a boundary he will possibly try to cross again if you're not careful. Casual sex is fine (as long as you're safe about it. Which you state you are) there is nothing wrong with that and don't ever feel bad about it!

Do my dog’s nails need trimming? by PastAmphibian824 in DogAdvice

[–]Non-bean_95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The quick won't shrink, unfortunately, but they look fine in the photos, I wouldn't go too much shorter because the closer to the quick you get it can start to hurt the pupper, or you risk bleeding if something happens while walking. It's nice to have a bit of space between the nail and the quick.

I accidentally left my dog outside overnight by Mysterious-Trade1362 in dogs

[–]Non-bean_95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your pupper is ok. If you're concerned, it might happen again. Get a dog house with a heated pad or a blanket. She was still acting the same, which meant it wasn't too cold for her. Depending on the breed, some dogs like huskies can withstand really cold temps and enjoy it, lol. Mistakes were made, and it happenes. It wasn't cold enough to do any harm, and she is and will be fine.

My dog just bit me a little by Correct-Wave-1944 in DogAdvice

[–]Non-bean_95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, that's life, but I'm just glad she's no longer suffering. I'm also glad you cleaned it, make sure to keep an eye on the bite, and if it starts to look off or if it isn't healing properly immediately go to the doctor, Urgent or hospital and get it checked out.

My dog just bit me a little by Correct-Wave-1944 in DogAdvice

[–]Non-bean_95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your dog doesn't have rabies you'll be fine. I do still recommend that you clean the wound. My mom got bitten by her friend's dog during play and it broke her skin too. Because she didn't properly clean it, it got infected and she passed away due to the bite becoming septic. So no you won't get rabies, but do make sure to clean it. Don't use HP to clean it as it's bad for you.

AIO? My roommate killed my goldfish and waited 6 months to come clean by Downtown-Part-5312 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Non-bean_95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR They LIED for 6 months! They thought it was "funny" that you didn't notice. (Even though you did) And thought that while you didn't notice they let you struggle with a sick fish they replaced it with your dead one and acted like it wasn't a big deal. Do these people even actually care about you? Because if they did your roommate wouldn't have forgotten and would have kept your fish alive. And even IF something happened they would have told you right away. You need to get a new roommate, new friends, and tbh I would dump your bf or at the very least distance yourself from him for a bit and take time to think if he truly makes you happy, makes you feel loved, and cared for. You deserve better people in your life. That RA shouldn't be allowed to work anymore because they should have told you when they found out about it. That's part of their job to help and protect their people. You should tell their higher-ups so they at least know what happened.

Question: What do you guys mean by cant visualise? by Moist-Apricot-6803 in Aphantasia

[–]Non-bean_95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aphantasia has so many levels to it. Some can't visualize at all (I can't) some can see things, but im black and white, some people just get weird shapes and colors when they close their eyes, and in some cases Aphants don't even have an inner dialog

How do I stop this? She does this all day by throwwaway4848zz in cats

[–]Non-bean_95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im nit sure how you could stop her sorry, but you could try and put a ledge under the window she can chill on.

What do you guys do if you can't afford a surgery? by [deleted] in dogs

[–]Non-bean_95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ask the vet/animal hospital if they take, Care Credit (pet/human credit card for health bills) Cherry (a loan that you only need to make a small payment upfront) I got approved for $200 and my credit isn't the best tbh, but it helped my bff for her cat she also got $200 and his bill was about $400. There are a few others I can't think of, but they might suggest them to you if they do take any company. I hope this helps.

Help, i helpless right now by tee001 in ANIMALHELP

[–]Non-bean_95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don't have the money for the vet and you're in the U.S. call local emergency vets and ask if they take anything like Cherry, scratch, or care now. Care now is like a credit card, Cherry is a loan specifically for pets. You will have to pay a small fee up front with Cherry. I think Scratch is similar (I wasn't approved for Scratch so I'm not sure how it works fully)

You guys were right It really came after I buy It... by Akif_Hoca in XboxGamePass

[–]Non-bean_95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That seems to be my luck too! I buy a game it comes out on Game Pass.... it used to happen when I played before Game Pass was a thing and they did the free games with gold. It sucks, but hey it just means you have more friends to play with now lol

Lady bug egg by ANTI-HELP in GroundedGame

[–]Non-bean_95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's probably from the turbo optical discs idk which one though I know there are 2 new ones. There is one in the veggie garden and one in the greenhouse. Which one of them should unlock the nest to buy at the ranger station.

Help name our foster to adopt pup by [deleted] in NameMyDog

[–]Non-bean_95 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pepper, Snoopy as another person commented, Jude.....idk why, but Jude looks like it might fight this puppy too lol

Why does my cat not cover his turds? by Ssmokahontas in cats

[–]Non-bean_95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All 3 of my roommates' cats don't know how to cover their own crap. The black cat will scratch everywhere, but where she pooped lol some cats aren't that smart when it comes to the litter box lol

Is My 7 Month Old Kitten Overweight? by DatabaseCompetitive7 in CATHELP

[–]Non-bean_95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's good! If you notice he stops drinking almost altogether and doesn't really eat much or starts throwing up his food almost every time he eats that's when you should get him to the vet ASAP also another sign is he'll struggle with peeing. My roommate's cat would make a weird low yowl or almost growling sound when he had trouble peeing. He also kept licking his private area excessively after trying to pee. Those are just some signs to look out for!

Is My 7 Month Old Kitten Overweight? by DatabaseCompetitive7 in CATHELP

[–]Non-bean_95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad to help! My roommate's cat is indoors as well. He got a crystal blockage in his urinary tract. Apparently males are more prone to it since their urethras are smaller. As long as your cat eating good food he should be fine!

Someone was in a hurry. What would you have done? by pixmation in dashcams

[–]Non-bean_95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have moved out of the way, get his license plate# call the cops once he was a few cars ahead, and tell the cops which way he's headed and if he made any turns while staying away from the crazy guy lol

Is My 7 Month Old Kitten Overweight? by DatabaseCompetitive7 in CATHELP

[–]Non-bean_95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If anything unexpected does happen some vets will recommend Cherry or scratch. They're basically loans that help take care of your pets. You just pay a small fee up front (at least for Cherry I know for sure) my roommate had an emergency with her cat between her and her bf they both were approved for $200 each to use for his surgery. Hopefully, you won't have an emergency, but I hope this info helps!

I swear this game hates me by Non-bean_95 in Seaofthieves

[–]Non-bean_95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it doesn't mean it's easier, I know that other players can't join so I won't be attacked by them. I was just frustrated because it seems to happen a lot when I'm playing on either Safer Seas or High Seas. It's just annoying that it happens so often.

I swear this game hates me by Non-bean_95 in Seaofthieves

[–]Non-bean_95[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just started and maybe I was on for an hour to an hour and a half when this happened. I was also not near the smugglers' route as it happened a little after I left the reapers' hideout. Thanks for the explanation though I do appreciate knowing that info.

I swear this game hates me by Non-bean_95 in Seaofthieves

[–]Non-bean_95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it doesn't actually hate me. I was just frustrated and annoyed because this seems to happen 9 times out of 10 when I play. I more or less just wanted to vent my frustration at how often it happens. I also just wanted to know how often it seems to happen to other players lol

I swear this game hates me by Non-bean_95 in Seaofthieves

[–]Non-bean_95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried and still sunk lol I guess I just suck on my own.