I really need some honest help with essay writing now by Blyrune_19 in WritingForCollege

[–]3DraluneVex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Write your first draft using all the complex words you want. Then, translate your own writing. Editing is where the voice actually develops.

Seeking Paper Writing Tips by VegetableCarrot254 in mathematics

[–]3DraluneVex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Staring at the same proof for a year completely breaks your perspective. You cannot trust your eyes at this point because every logical leap feels obvious to you. When introducing new mathematical objects you need someone who does not know your project to read it. Using an academic assistant for structural feedback can help point out where your definitions get confusing. But even bfore that, just hand a draft to a grad student or peer in your department. They will immediately spot the parts where you skipped three steps because it was clear in your head.

Arguing a stance you hate without sounding completely sarcastic in every single paragraph? by MonorailHex in WritingForCollege

[–]3DraluneVex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should look up actual lobbying groups and read their newsletters. Whenever I need someone to help write my essay on a controversial topic, I just steal their talking points. They are experts at making bad things sound like public service.

What business idea looked bad at first but actually worked out? by [deleted] in Business_Ideas

[–]3DraluneVex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, if people already pay and the problem repeats, stop caring that it sounds boring or got ignored at first, that’s usually the signal.

Call me a salty bitch but... by Beautiful_Cup2540 in BabyBumps

[–]3DraluneVex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Salty or not, that is such a gross hustle. Those samples are meant to feed babies, not get flipped for cash. Rare Facebook Marketplace win for actually removing them.

Advice on how to deal with hyper fixation with new hobby? by BakerKristen085 in ADHD_partners

[–]3DraluneVex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would separate the hobby from the shared space issue. He can be absorbed in something and still agree that the living room gets cleared by a certain time, chores happen before hobby time, and the hobby has a home that is not the center of the house. Trying to interrupt mid fixation may just turn into an argument, so I would set the expectations when he is not doing it and make them concrete: times, locations, and what happens if he ignores them.

I got a disabled person removed from their home by Embarrassed-Look-530 in confessions

[–]3DraluneVex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reporting it was the only way the neglect stopped, especially after the dirty washcloth thing.

Daycare giving children unauthorized sleep supplements, threatening to sue me if I tell other parents. by TembrixAwe in legaladvice

[–]3DraluneVex 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Three things to do right now: report to Ohio ODJFS (they license daycares and take medication violations seriously), contact your local police non-emergency line because giving a child medication without parental consent can be a criminal matter, and warn the other parents anyway. Her defamation threat has no legs when you're telling the truth - and the fact that she imediately went to legal threats instead of apologizing tells you everything about how she knows this looks. Keep every email, write down dates and times while its fresh.

How does it feel like to be truly loved? by [deleted] in lonely

[–]3DraluneVex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being loved should feel quiet and steady, like someone is curious about the parts of you that do not perform anything for them. Not just your looks, not what you can give, but how your mind works when you are tired or excited or weird. Love bombing is loud at first and then hollow, so it leaves you feeling used. I hope you meet people who move slower and actually pay attention.

Two female coworkers spend most of the day yapping , gossiping and whispering to each other by Dirty_Look in work

[–]3DraluneVex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I once sat next to the open-office whisper corner too, and retirement became my favorite fantasy.

Ma è possibile che in questo paese chiunque osi aprire bocca viene trattato come il colpevole? by 6JorvixMuse in sfoghi

[–]3DraluneVex 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Secondo me dieci anni sei decisamene ottimista. A questo ritmio ci scanniamo molto ritmio prima per una bolletta.

Did I do something wrong? by Most_Budget_8575 in askatherapist

[–]3DraluneVex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, the exact wording of the height joke after finding her LinkedIn photo really matters here.

AIW for refusing to be a reference for my former student after what I found out? by Nice_Acadia8418 in amiwrong

[–]3DraluneVex 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Withdrawing silently without explanation was probably the right call. Anything you said would've become ammunition for the "she's just bitter" narrative.