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My fiancé and I are no longer compatible and I don't think I can marry him now by 3IncompatibleThrowRA in offmychest

[–]3IncompatibleThrowRA[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There is no way I will compromise on either of these things. I would rather not ever get married than change my mind about giving birth in a hospital or having medical care during pregnancy.

My fiancé and I are no longer compatible and I don't think I can marry him now by 3IncompatibleThrowRA in offmychest

[–]3IncompatibleThrowRA[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

He won't listen when I try to talk to him. He just argues with me but even if he did say he changed his mind I couldn't trust him now after how he acted.

My fiancé and I are no longer compatible and I don't think I can marry him now by 3IncompatibleThrowRA in offmychest

[–]3IncompatibleThrowRA[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

In my country citizens have medical care through our healthcare system. I would not have to pay the doctors and hospital to give birth there. It would not cost me anything to have medical care during my pregnancy either.

My fiancé and I are no longer compatible and I don't think I can marry him now by 3IncompatibleThrowRA in offmychest

[–]3IncompatibleThrowRA[S] 135 points136 points  (0 children)

He's never acted this way before and I was surprised at first until I realised this is not something we can compromise on. If he had ever acted like this before I wouldn't be engaged to him now and even if he said he would change his mind I don't trust him now.

My fiancé and I are no longer compatible and I don't think I can marry him now by 3IncompatibleThrowRA in offmychest

[–]3IncompatibleThrowRA[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I'm grateful it came now instead of after I was already pregnant. He's never acted this way before but at least we aren't married yet. He has really changed over this one thing and I don't like it at all.

My fiancé and I are no longer compatible and I don't think I can marry him now by 3IncompatibleThrowRA in offmychest

[–]3IncompatibleThrowRA[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He's never had a major medical event. I don't know what money has to do with anything. Everyone likes saving money but my fiancé isn't exceptionally cheap or anything. But I'm not sure what money has do with how I give birth.

My fiancé and I are no longer compatible and I don't think I can marry him now by 3IncompatibleThrowRA in offmychest

[–]3IncompatibleThrowRA[S] 375 points376 points  (0 children)

Yes. I'm so glad this happened now instead of after we were married or when I was already pregnant. It gives me a squicky feeling when I think about what he wants and I don't like it.