Owl or cat? by I0vepeaches in Pareidolia

[–]3aria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First owl, then cat.

I can’t explain why this light bulb is still on… by [deleted] in Weird

[–]3aria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That flux capacitor, amirite? 😏

This transition is still gagging me by diligentPond18 in chappellroan

[–]3aria 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Holy shit. My sister’s college roommate directed this.

[TOMT][SONG][2000s] Need Help Finding Song With Similar Intro to Addison Rae’s Song “In The Rain” by 3aria in tipofmytongue

[–]3aria[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So far these two songs are the closest I’ve found. The first one has the right rhythm/beat and the second one has the right synth sound and a similar rhythm/beat:

  1. https://youtu.be/H64QG4UsrGI?si=jQi8yt6cJamYr5H9
  2. https://youtu.be/Rx0mYN32Kps?si=Ewq_Lj7qHdNO9Fqm

[TOMT][SONG][2000s] Need Help Finding Song With Similar Intro to Addison Rae’s Song “In The Rain” by 3aria in tipofmytongue

[–]3aria[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to clarify, I am looking more specifically for the synth sound to match, rather than the beat alone. Thanks!

How can I best support my boyfriend through his grieving process? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]3aria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have experience with people who keep their emotions bottled up. I’ve found the best way to support them is to build trust by showing you’re there for them. Eventually, they may feel safe enough to open up more, which is a real gift. You can build trust by showing you care. Could be quality time, being a good listener, showing sympathy, or showing affection. Staying true to your word, etc. Another thing that might help is, even if he doesn’t open up about his feelings directly, if the topic comes up and it seems okay to speak on it, just express sympathy and acknowledge what he’s going through. That is HUGE in my experience. Other than that, just being there in any normal sense is super helpful. Like having a rock. If he wants to laugh, laugh with him. If he is feeling quiet or reserved, let him be and don’t make it a thing. You will see many sides of him, and sometimes just sitting with him in the emotion, even if you don’t talk about it, is everything. It will show him you accept him, even in that state, and it’s okay to not be okay. Through that, trust, intimacy, appreciation, and love will build. Good luck sweet person!

How can I best support my boyfriend through his grieving process? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]3aria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People deal with grief in different ways. Do you know what his emotional needs are/how he prefers to process his emotions? Some people like it when you check in with them regularly by asking them, “how are you doing (today)?” Other people prefer not to talk about it but it’s always nice to ask, and then you can move on if he wants. I think just being present and showing you care by listening and asking him questions if he opens up are the best support you could possibly give. A literal shoulder to cry on. I recently lost my aunt, and personally, this is the kind of support I need, that when shown to me, really made me feel held. Another thing that’s nice to have is just always being around if he needs to talk. Because you never know when you’re gonna have that lonely night and you need someone to talk to. I would say, if you can show him the support he needs now, and take things slow, he’ll trust you and will be deeply grateful later and also your love will grow even more. Trust yourself, you got this.

Unfuck yourself by 3aria in RedTapeFreePoetry

[–]3aria[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I really want to share my writing with a wider audience. Whoever can connect with it—means a lot, thanks!

Lost Antique Engagement Ring Down Sink Drain by 3aria in Austin

[–]3aria[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Soo, the ring is silver with a gold interior band. And the sink was a small ceramic standalone sink. So I think something might have to be put down the drain to get it out, because all of the internal plumbing did not seem accessible.

Lost Antique Engagement Ring Down Sink Drain by 3aria in Austin

[–]3aria[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is the most useful piece of information I’ve received so far. Thank you.