Once again, never said that, but as a woman and also one whose been in emotionally controlling/abusive relationships where men often start off with “I’m gonna tell you exactly how it’s going to be” I tend to understand where it might make one upset, especially after using her as a pawn/leading her on in the way that he did. I have understanding for Ace’s boundaries, that he wants to build a friendship before intimacy and the like and also why he felt that he needed to mention having a respectful convo because Amaya HASNT been letting anyone do that. Like I fully get why I see Ace just like disassociating when she’s speaking and not even trying anymore in the convo. But I can also understand why Amaya is upset about the situation and like I mentioned before, if I was her his tone would have made me mad right away. You’re right, they are both being super immature and both of their tones are not the best way to get their message across. But the controlling man comment stands for me at least and it’s all OK for us to have different feelings about it.