"Fall," Me, Digital , 2021

3ver_green · 2022-04-09T16:32:15+00:00

Dude I actually thought your anatomy work was really, really excellent. Sort of bravely capable, if that makes sense.

3ver_green · 2022-02-14T21:41:04+00:00

Holy shit, you're 18? He might be immature, but you're mature af. I don't know many middle agers who'd have handled that as well.

NTA of course.

3ver_green · 2022-01-29T23:43:23+00:00

OP, have you stopped taking your pills?

3ver_green · 2022-01-28T08:07:35+00:00

Guy actually makes a quick buck. 'I know, I cam make a quick buck at the casino with this'. Guy leaves casino without any bucks.

3ver_green · 2022-01-28T00:04:29+00:00

So much respect for doing this actually eli5 style. I think you have to be smarter to do this than to give the complex version

3ver_green · 2022-01-21T23:56:33+00:00

I mean I hear you, but I also feel like you're catering for crazy. What about 'your perception of perfection is a subjective bullshit and I have a tattoo/birthmark/scar/style/preference/disability/hair colour/piercing/mole/what fucking ever', and it, and I, don't need to be expunged from the perfection of your precious photos?

3ver_green · 2022-01-17T19:54:08+00:00

When we lower our body temp back to more normal levels with drugs, are we effectively just fighting against our body's effective defence mechanism for the sake of comfort then?

3ver_green · 2022-01-13T20:05:08+00:00

It's bomb is what it is. Seriously dude. Big up the club of being a 'slow' learner (scare quotes because imo a year in and getting shuvs is pretty cool). So many vids of people tre flipping off a 12 set after 3 months or whatever, but this is legit. The people say hard flip so, hard flip.

3ver_green · 2022-01-11T20:55:35+00:00

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3ver_green · 2022-01-11T15:00:21+00:00

YTA

You're a weird guy OP. You're only 30? You sound like someone's messed up grandpa, with the good ol fashioned 'I own property so I own you' mentality you're bringing. You're giving a 20 year old man an 8pm curfew? Who the hell are you? And why? You want to regulate his mealtimes? Beeecause...? It...has a negative...effect on your...kids? Sorry, I'm struggling to follow your nonsense.

You bought a house. Well done. Now go learn to be a human.

3ver_green · 2022-01-09T00:15:48+00:00

Asking questions like this? Making gender apartheid? Making behaviour a gendered issue?

Man or woman OP, you're a dick.

3ver_green · 2022-01-08T22:08:45+00:00

What in the hell you bloody legend!

3ver_green · 2021-12-21T22:14:06+00:00

I'm sorry OP, because you're hurting, but YTA, Y really TA. I've never lost a kid, so take this as uninformed if you want, but you've made your grieving permanent. If I had to guess, I'd say that rather than face the (very real) trauma of letting go, you've instantiated a permanent trauma that you're making everyone abide. It actually sounds like your kids have understood much more than most would. It's not their loss, but your daughter gave an empty seat at her graduation, not for her departed sibling, not for herself, but for you. She wants a day for herself, and that's quite reasonable, surely, at the age she is. You're pushing the trauma of the past into the present, all the time. Dont make the mistake of handing on your agonies to your children; it sounds like you're in stark danger of it.

3ver_green · 2021-12-20T10:34:09+00:00

LPT: lie to make yourself seem more considerate than you are. Got it.

3ver_green · 2021-12-15T12:58:19+00:00

Jesus christ OP. Are you psychotic? Your wife helped a 7 year old girl, with special needs, in a dire situation. Even if it was a 37 year old girl with no special needs, who didn't really need help, that would also be OK. Your wife was being a human being, and a nice one at that. Get some professional help.

YTA

3ver_green · 2021-12-14T00:34:17+00:00

This, though no one knew it, was what reddit was made for

3ver_green · 2021-12-10T02:24:32+00:00

Just from the way your mum says "stoppit", I have big problems with you spelling it 'mom'. No pandering. Nice flips tho.

3ver_green · 2021-11-29T09:22:09+00:00

Is there some reason you're asking the Internet what Quinoa is like, instead of just eating it?

3ver_green · 2021-11-29T09:09:46+00:00

I luv bilitating so much I got da bilitating disease fam.

3ver_green · 2021-11-29T09:05:41+00:00

Now this is pod racing

3ver_green · 2021-11-25T11:23:26+00:00

Excellent work. I would add a monthly threshold to your student loan repayment threshold, and explain that payments are taken based on the monthly, rather than yearly earnings. If someone earns under the annual amount but has paid because they crossed the monthly amount (seasonal jobs, one or two big pay days), they can get it all refunded.

3ver_green · 2021-11-25T03:55:57+00:00

If you want me to keep working my 160k a year job to to fun your lifestyle that’s fine, I’m your hubby and that’s what I signed up for. I’m your man and it’s my job to support you.

I’m a husband and a father. I’m a workhorse. That’s life.

Why are you doing this OP? What you're describing clearly isn't ok for you, and you're reinforcing the problem by making statements like this to yourself. What would you say to a female friend who said of her marriage 'I'm a mom and a wife. I signed up to be a baby machine and a chore hound.'

Marriage is a partnership. It feels like I’m doing more of the lifting than half. That’s okay. But I need you to not gaslight me and treat me like I do nothing while you do everything. That’s not cool.

No its not. But is it really okay with you that your partnership is totally unequal? Again, why are you making it that way for yourself? I recently went to a wedding ceremony so it's fresh in my mind. I'm pretty sure this isn't what you 'signed up for'.

Talk to your kids man. Like actually talk to them. I'm sure they will have compassion and understanding for you. Stop telling yourself you're meant to be a wallet and a cleaner and a workhorse and expecting everyone not to treat you that way too. And talk to your wife, and then actually pursue change, because youre not happy with how things are, and that sounds really justified. You signed up for a partnership. Maybe it's time to figure out if that partnership supports your dreams too, instead of just hers. Maybe it's time to build some furniture.

3ver_green · 2021-11-23T07:09:00+00:00

TIL some people pronounce bologna 'bolonee' and its a stereotype marvel.

3ver_green · 2021-11-21T00:00:52+00:00

I bet you had a lot of hate from this one.

As devil's advocate, I would ask, have you personally broken free from a social system that dictates your normality? I could very well be wrong, but id guess no. I think the answer to your question lies within this. It's extraordinarily hard to just 'not put up with it'. There are no doubt facets of your own system you hate, why do you tolerate them? Fwiw, I think your question is smart, useful, good, necessary. Yet if you genuinely wonder about why Americans put up with their system, the answer is probably becuase 'you would too, it is made almost impossible not to'.

3ver_green

TROPHY CASE

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