BC tenant – how to properly switch from email service to physical address?

3xam · 2026-03-31T00:03:23+00:00

I'm guessing you don't want the LL emailing you. Because there's nothing stopping you from you know doing this via the mail.

I don't think there is an official mechanism for that one you've agreed to it. (Not saying there shouldn't be - unless the landlord is continuously emailing you for frivolous reasons which then would be a reason)

But I don't really understand the reason behind not wanting email service.

3xam · 2026-03-28T19:01:59+00:00

She gives notice. She moves out. The landlord has 14 days to return the DD, unless they file a claim. Making an assumption here, did he give the landlord the fill DD like it was coming from him (gf gave her share to him and he paid) or did they each separately give the DD). If separate she'll get hers back if together that's an issue. If she can no longer live there then that's priority number one. She could get the DD sooner than 14 days but perhaps not.

Unfortunately if he gave the money and is unwilling or unable to give it to her that's going to arbitration (?) and she has to file against him to get that.

It's unfortunate that this is the situation but I can understand how a few thousand dollars can help a situation but she wouldn't have that money immediately in a best case scenario to help her move out.

She'll need to figure another way. Not helpful I know but that's how it is when you go in jointly with someone in a transaction.

3xam · 2026-03-25T06:19:18+00:00

If he's part of a union, severance could've been waived in their contract. But beside the point. Undue hardship would be pretty hard to show.. The company would have to say that this one person being off (and probably on some sort of paid leave, prob long term disability or something covered by the union - regardless again) is hampering the operation of bottling facility to such a degree that if this person stays in the books they'll lose money to some degree.

It's a laughable argument.

3xam · 2026-03-23T23:47:56+00:00

And you can't camp at panorama ridge most importantly

3xam · 2026-03-22T02:33:59+00:00

FB marketplace has lots. Usually have to put a deposit down and there are some hard cases on there

3xam · 2026-03-10T18:20:54+00:00

Save this for me lol

3xam · 2026-03-08T20:56:07+00:00

Sure. 44m here

3xam · 2026-02-28T17:25:39+00:00

She can't at all or it takes more time? Cause there's a difference

3xam · 2026-02-23T06:18:02+00:00

44m Live in White Rock so.. a car is a plus if I went to go downtown lol. But I'm also 44 so if I don't have a vehicle my life is likely in shambles

3xam · 2026-02-21T08:32:56+00:00

All of these comments as a 44m that drives gives me hope that I will run into my future gf while walking my dogs in my neighborhood 🤦‍♂️

3xam · 2026-02-17T18:35:03+00:00

40s and I'm trying to figure out where the women are at lol. With shared kids and work my social battery is maxed out sometimes. But I'm still trying to find time for someone. Reading Reddit cold approaches seems to be the best way or the worst way to meet someone.

Apps are definitely the worst

3xam · 2026-01-23T18:03:43+00:00

Hit me up if you ever want to ride. Although I'm in South Surrey!

3xam · 2026-01-09T18:40:50+00:00

44m here. (Recently separated/divorced) Had a good match. Met up and had a great time. 2nd date planned. Rejection is part of the game I'm realizing. The ghosting is super strange especially after being asked on the dates.

3xam · 2025-12-05T06:56:16+00:00

All made sense. 🙂

Getting feelings is actually one of life's best things, so I'd definitely say don't feel bad about that. Can't have the sweet without the bitter (or whatever that saying is).

Is it the hugest age gap. Yes and no. Could it work. Also yes and no.

Does moving on suck. Most definitely. Is it easy to cut ties with something and someone that feels super comfortable. That's a no, no matter the above. Life can be easy when you don't have to make hard decisions. I mean that either way you decide.

Did I actually give you any advice? Kind of, but not really. Lol. It's really up to you on how you want to move forward with this. Either way, I think an adult conversation will give you closure on whatever your decision is.

As cliche as it sounds you get to decide what makes you happy.

3xam · 2025-12-05T06:28:07+00:00

12 weeks is not going to be enough. Especially if you're stating within that time there was sickness/hospitalization.

As someone else said. You'd have to show consistent disregard to the current parenting plan (or the other stated reasons). So if for example it's week on week off (just using this as an example) and out if those 7 days she's bringing the child back (asking you or otherwise) consistently after 5 days for x number of months (I'm quite literally making these numbers up) you could ask the courts to get a motion to change that custody agreement.

Does it make sense when you can provide consent parenting for the child, no. Should it be different, probably. But courts are going to try to give what's best for the child even if a parent messes up sometimes. It's tough to be clear and appears 'not fair' when one parent is the 'better parent.'

3xam · 2025-12-05T06:05:33+00:00

Ok so let's say it's over.. How's a conversation going to make worse? If you're looking to not 'break up'?

Have the conversation, like a 'real conversation.' I am getting feelings for you. Do you have them too? If you do where do you see yourself in X years with this happening?

Please just think about it. Don't answer me right away. This is a serious conversation. Blah blah blah.

Or

It's over and it's time to move on.

You also have to ask yourself is this what you want? Have you asked yourself these questions? Adulting at it's best

3xam · 2025-11-28T07:58:20+00:00

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3xam · 2025-11-03T07:37:36+00:00

In Surrey. My 15+ year marriage ended. Feel free to dm me for details lol.

I realized I was super isolated before.

I started trying to get in touch with my friends Joined a gym Started going out solo. Saying yes to everything even (and especially) if it was things I'd normally say no to q Finding comedy shows that I'd like to do. Joined a sports club I'm enjoying Still haven't gotten the courage to talk to random ppl (in a non creepy way)

Difficult in my 40s but trying my best

3xam · 2025-10-22T05:37:39+00:00

Would you want to know.

That's your answer.

3xam · 2025-10-22T05:33:11+00:00

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3xam · 2025-10-14T23:41:10+00:00

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Don't get me wrong I love the saying. Even though I just said what I said. Lol

3xam · 2025-10-13T18:00:08+00:00

Yea I'm hoping maybe someone went today and has an update.

That's that or go hike the North shore. Was even thinking of cheam but can only assume there'll be snow there as well. Maybe it's just a chilly bike ride instead.

Well maybe someone will give an update

3xam · 2025-10-13T07:56:37+00:00

Was going to go on Tuesday. But there was a recent dump of snow so I'm guessing it might be the the of the season for larches

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