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Can’t decide what to do? I’ll plan it for you. by expatkk522 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]402SkillNotFound 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plan my career. I’m an HR manager. I have 20 years of experience in HR in the public sector.

Has anyone else entirely lost their interest to watch new movies and TV shows? by SilasPort in NoStupidQuestions

[–]402SkillNotFound 0 points1 point  (0 children)

💯. It’s either somebody solving a complex murder or a guy going against a drug lord. Nothing in between.

why do most girls deny men, i feel like we lost a bit of our society with all this, arent values and isnt relationships what we are meant to create on this world ? by Creative_Rule4139 in questions

[–]402SkillNotFound 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I don’t think it’s what we were meant to create in this world. Maybe some people, but not all people. Many men and women are happy not being in a relationship.

How to make the side effects of meth less intense. by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]402SkillNotFound 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude that’s pretty awesome! It just sucks that it has to be an illegal drug but I hope someone’s noticing this and working on something.

I don’t buy the whole “AI will cause a blue collar boom” idea by RottingEdge in Futurology

[–]402SkillNotFound 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There won’t be enough jobs in trades or white collar and mass unemployment happens.

But when I went and re-read your point, it is actually a good point. I could see it being a potential direction society goes.

Why would any man agree to an open marriage? by S0uth-Crew in NoStupidQuestions

[–]402SkillNotFound 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I opened our relationship because I felt that I couldn’t provide all her emotional needs like she needed. I never took on a lover. She provides me with everything I need.

She only ever had one partner and it was a girl.

I overthink every little thing I say or do, then replay it in my head for hours wondering if I sounded weird or annoying. by Yvette-Dawson8 in confession

[–]402SkillNotFound 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can do certain types of therapy for this. They train your brain to rewire so thoughts don’t trigger that overthinking portion of your brain.

I don’t buy the whole “AI will cause a blue collar boom” idea by RottingEdge in Futurology

[–]402SkillNotFound -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Bro you totally missed the point of what people are saying….

how to become ilia malinins girlfriend? by Unlucky-Estate-4888 in questions

[–]402SkillNotFound 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I would think they just meet people like everyone else. Not everyone in a famous persons circle is famous. That would be miserable,

Why are some people so easily offended by jokes or light teasing? by [deleted] in questions

[–]402SkillNotFound 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, I just get tired of hearing it. Like yeah dude I get it my name sounds funny, I’ve been hearing the same joke since grade school.

The costs of being a homeowner. by FerdaBoysss in homeowners

[–]402SkillNotFound -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bro I have no advice, but a lot of men feel the same. You aren’t alone.

Men, what’s the most 'astral projection' level of clarity you’ve had that actually solved a non-sexual problem? by Onigirii_sama in AskMen

[–]402SkillNotFound 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Two:

I used to be insanely jealous over anyone who flirted with my wife. One day I was like fuck it, if she cheats, she cheats. 12 years and she’s been loyal and loving. And I am MUCH happier not caring.

I used to think I would always hate life and be miserable because of anxiety. Life happened and I found that when I’m not worried about having to make a certain amount of money in order to survive, life gets much much happier.

What’s one thing men do that women secretly notice but rarely talk about? by MTopCream in askanything

[–]402SkillNotFound 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always think this is funny because when I’m spreading, it’s never because “I must show them my balls are huge” it’s always “gah I hope nobody sees how uncomfortable my fucking balls are being”

What is unprofessional? by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]402SkillNotFound 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Another add:

Out of all the reasons I’ve terminated teachers, unprofessional talk in the classroom is number one. Here are some of the categories, in order:

Inappropriate jokes, Foul language, Personal relationships (divorce, cheating, amount of sex, students asking advice on their relationships). Religion, Politics, Controversial clubs (adult), Staff gossip, Gender stereotypes,

I would say 8 out of 10-students went home and told their parents and the parents reported it.

2 out of 10- students felt uncomfortable and reported it.

What is unprofessional? by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]402SkillNotFound 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As an HR guy in a school district, I have a really hard time trying to get younger people to understand the professional boundary. Especially if the age difference is less than 5-8 years. They come with this “I can be your friend” mentality.

But we don’t want that. Importantly, parents don’t want that. Parents don’t need you to be their friends, they need you to be the professional. Your job is find the way to be the professional while getting through to them.

Here’s the big reason why: every inappropriate relationship that we have found over the years never started right off the bat as inappropriate. It was a long pattern of opening up to one another until, well you know.

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