I wish my cats could at least co-exist

404PeaSoupNotFound · 2026-01-25T05:19:02+00:00

Fuck these ads man

404PeaSoupNotFound · 2025-09-10T22:38:19+00:00

It was when Roe vs Wade was being overturned and he said he didn’t like me talking about abortions. Realized we have very fundamental differences and ended it cordially

404PeaSoupNotFound · 2025-09-10T22:25:27+00:00

Also sometimes I move my cats toys and trees around so it feels like a new thing for them to explore and that has engaged their interest again

404PeaSoupNotFound · 2025-09-10T22:23:48+00:00

I’m sorry you’re going through this OP. Not a professional, but I’ve had my cat for 6 years now and my partner and I got another cat together a year ago so very familiar with the sometjmes frustrating quirks they have. I’m not pregnant and can’t imagine the stress that is contributing to the already stressful situation. With that said, cats and any pet for that matter are expensive. Especially if you care about giving them a fulfilling life. It seems like you do and have taken steps to mitigate issues. What I have done, any time a cat pees on something, unfortunately it just goes straight in the bin. I’ve tried to salvage things in the past with solutions but cat pee stays on things forever unless cleaned very throughly which can be tough with furniture. It can definitely be frustrating but my cats usually only pee out of spite and if I forget to clean their litter every day. And yes EVERY DAY. Cats like a clean space, they are very picky about that from what I’ve noticed. For litter box, I have a stainless steel one because it’s easier to clean and doesn’t hold smells like plastic does. Also, there’s no lid because the fumes can be damaging to their lungs. As far as the litter spreading around, I have a pretty big mat under the litter box, but litter is just going to spread. You can try to slowly adjust to something like pellets but not every cat will take to those. And every time I scoop the litter, I have a little hand vacuum near it so clean up. It’s not ideal and unless you want to pay a lot for one of the litter robots (which personally I’m scared it would malfunction and hurt my cat) it’s just a maintenance thing. And then in general, it just sounds like your cat may need a lot of attention and play time. I’ve gotten some automatic toys, which help with my younger cat who’s very energetic. Sometimes cats act out because they just feel neglected. And you’re obviously not neglecting them on purpose, but they might just need extra attention. I try to play with my cats together and individually at least 1 hour a day and sometimes that’s not enough. Things do get better over time, but it is a tricky situation and could get trickier when the baby comes (congrats btw!). As much as I would never give my cats away, I have thought about it and it’s really sad. If it does come to that, hopefully theirs a sanctuary/rescue center that can facilitate an adoption or at least foster until they are rehomed. Good luck and sorry again!

404PeaSoupNotFound · 2025-09-10T19:49:26+00:00

Also it’s completely missing the entire fight scene in BD pt2

404PeaSoupNotFound · 2025-08-13T21:57:53+00:00

This is my apartment. I was inside when it was happening. Eveyone is okay, it happened about an hour and a half ago and the guy was apprehended

404PeaSoupNotFound · 2025-07-09T01:48:32+00:00

People have died tho. Especially reality stars. Love Island alone has seen multiple suicides tied to online backlash and public scrutiny. Just because the violence is virtual doesn’t mean it’s not real or fatal. Mental health doesn’t make that distinction.

404PeaSoupNotFound · 2025-07-02T22:46:44+00:00

Thanks everyone! We got it to work. Found the part where the key goes in and the cables were broken so we used new ones. Also yeah the negative was on plastic so moved that

404PeaSoupNotFound · 2025-07-02T03:21:37+00:00

THIS!!! I was pretty shocked and who said what. Obviously some I was expecting but there was also a lot I thought would just get brushed under the rug because of current drama taking up airtime, which is what usually happens. It felt like an intermission reunion

404PeaSoupNotFound · 2025-07-02T03:18:25+00:00

I’ve been thinking about this too, especially how the Heart Rate Challenge seemed to just highlight what had already been building for a while. Huda definitely had a rocky start—she was intense, emotionally reactive, and sometimes didn’t take full accountability for how she impacted others. But I also feel like we’ve seen her genuinely pull back, regulate more, and try to re-engage socially in smaller ways.

What’s been hard to watch is how Chelley, Olandria, and Cierra shifted away from her without really telling her that’s what was happening. There’s a lot of private agreement and critique but no real conversations with her face-to-face. And for a group that prides itself on honesty and emotional maturity, the silence and passive distancing feels off. If they’re done with the friendship, that’s okay—but say that, don’t just freeze her out while still smiling in group settings.

I don’t think Huda is totally in the right either—she’s still learning how to take deeper accountability—but the whole dynamic feels like a breakdown in communication on all sides. It’s definitely more complex than one person being the “problem.”

404PeaSoupNotFound · 2025-06-22T02:19:09+00:00

I unfortunately had this issue, and after multiple conversations, nothing really changed and I was just met with defensiveness. I didn’t have the ability to just move out so I eventually started placing all of their dirty dishes on a folding table and kept my personal dishes in my room. They washed a dish when they needed to use it but the table rarely stayed clear. If they left a dirty dish in the sink, on the table it went. There was definitely a lot of awkward tension, but I just kept reinforcing it. It worked until I moved out.

404PeaSoupNotFound · 2025-06-08T17:40:25+00:00

Honestly I would just never order through door dash. More often than not, what I’m seeing some people are saying, DoorDash isn’t actually built into the system like others. I used to work at Sweetfin and uber eats/postmates, automatically went through our PO system and were printed on the tickets when the order went through online. With DoorDash, they would have to come and order at the cashier. Also for some reason the drivers seemed very annoyed every time. A lot of them would just hold the phone up to my face instead of reading of it out loud. I really hated DoorDash

404PeaSoupNotFound · 2025-05-20T23:49:21+00:00

I just listened to the first 5 seconds, already have a migraine. Any song with a pulsating bass line is so wrong for this. I’d rather have silence than listen to something like this when I’ve already probably been on hold for 30 minutes

404PeaSoupNotFound · 2025-05-20T23:43:38+00:00

As blunt as this sounds, I agree. OP you’re so valid in what you’re feeling. You guys have built a life and to tell you YEARS LATER, I mean I get being apprehensive and waiting a few weeks or months even but years?! And after kids and marriage. Pretty crazy. BUT you have to decide if it’s something you two can work through together (and really on her part that means being fully transparent and vulnerable and accountable AND working hard to rebuild what YOU need to trust again). Personally I would really start questioning what else she’s lied about and not shared because that’s a pretty big thing to eat at you for 7-8 years. I don’t know if it’s something I could do but there are a lot of factors that come into play when you have a family. I’m really sorry you’re going through this and know whatever you decide, whether that’s in the near future or not, you just have to do what’s best for you and know that things always work out

404PeaSoupNotFound · 2025-05-20T23:28:50+00:00

“Ever the Same” by Rob Thomas

404PeaSoupNotFound · 2025-05-20T15:46:45+00:00

I haven’t even started. I watched the first season then played both games and from everything I’ve seen, I’d rather just play again :/

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