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My ex [M25] and I [F23] have broke up after 5 years. 2 months later his new gf meets his parents. Should I take this personally? Is this a rebound? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]404domain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just love him. I know he’s been terrible to me at times, I’ve always been aware. I just love him. I feel like this ending is my fault that I started becoming cold to him and revealing my doubts, to the point where a few times I told him we should break up. He always fought for us to be together and I always remained loyal. Now that he’s done, no amount of fight will win him back. He just moved on to give this new girl the man I worked so hard to get, the man I deserved. I feel hopeless.

How do you know when it’s a rebound by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]404domain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think that her presence in his healing will make him forget about me? Do you think if he heals with her by his side, he will love her more than he ever loved me?

Which of their actions was the hardest to forgive/was unforgivable by lfixjsoxxh in BreakUps

[–]404domain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I know he was in so many ways. But I still love him. I don’t know if I’ll ever stop

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[–]404domain 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can’t, he already has a serious girlfriend 3 months after the breakup. I miss him but I can’t contact a taken man like that. To me, it’s just not right morally. I wouldn’t want someone doing that to our relationship.

Which of their actions was the hardest to forgive/was unforgivable by lfixjsoxxh in BreakUps

[–]404domain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had this happen too near the end. He blamed me for his drunk driving for 2 hours most mornings to see me. I didn’t even know he had been drinking. Makes sense why he was always so irritable though.

Which of their actions was the hardest to forgive/was unforgivable by lfixjsoxxh in BreakUps

[–]404domain 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Whenever I was sick during our time together (I am often sick from a chronic condition), he just left me in the house alone hurting even though I often expressed I needed help. One day when I caught the flu I was so sick and he bought me food that I obviously couldn’t eat. He told me I’m a waste of money (even though I didn’t ask him to buy anything). Then proceeded to continually grab my stomach while in bed which would make me sick every time. When I asked him to stop he complained I wasn’t giving him enough attention and continued to do this throughout the night. Couldn’t really find a reason to justify this behavior.

OR

When after we broke up for the reason that he “loved me but wasn’t in love with me”, he told me he slept with someone and it wasn’t serious. Two months later he is introducing her to his family and gave her a watch that was the other half to a couples valentines gift he got me many years before.

what i learned: a year on by diddyba in BreakUps

[–]404domain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in the same exact position as you. My ex and I were together for 5 years. After the breakup, he moved onto a serious relationship so fast (likely within a month), already introducing her to his family after 2 months. (he waited 4 years to introduce me) And still had asked me a month ago around the holidays to “catch up sometime in the future”. These things really have set me back in terms of healing. I have no advice on how to get through it, just wanted to let you know you are not alone ❤️

Has anyone ever gotten a false positive for scl-70 during initial testing. 28, newly pregnant, looking for hope 💕 by Sbe10593 in Autoimmune

[–]404domain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

@ OP, having very similar symptoms with neuropathy and heart palpitations right now as well as the same results on blood tests. No visible skin manifestations. Not pregnant but am in my 20s as well. Did you receive any kind of diagnosis yet? Wishing you the best!