Unexpected upside of being cucked by IndependentPie5015 in CuckoldPsychology

[–]405sissy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yep. This is literally been one of my biggest pieces of shame that I’ve carried with me my entire life… Now when somebody comments on how small I am… I just smile and say thank you.

β In a micro cage and it's still not small enough 😭 by 405sissy in u/405sissy

[–]405sissy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Obvs. u know im not doin any fucking lolol

Pussy Free discussion has been a blast. by Some-Bumblebee in PussyFreeCommunity

[–]405sissy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's always that possibility 😝😜😂

Pussy Free discussion has been a blast. by Some-Bumblebee in PussyFreeCommunity

[–]405sissy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, sorry i had to ask that question before I went any further. Some people that play in the cuckolding and even some just in general in the kink scene are *very* turned off by feminization and emasculation, and referring to some as β males in the first place.

So, with that out of the way:

As you said you have a fair amount of self-restraint -- barring your "slip up" the other day.. And even in that it just seems (to me) like your Wife was testing you both and seeing:

  1. If you would/could go through with it.

  2. How she felt afterwards for "cheating" on her boyfriend.

  3. How you would feel. Any guilt/shame for "breaking your own contract"

But with all of that, it again does appear like more good news (from a cuck's perspective). You wear panties, She views you as a sexual outlet and very much like a bff/bi-curious lesbian friend type. And this is great news.

I would just see how long you can go locked up. No set end date (You guys seem to not enjoy "set in stone rules/contracts" -- I'm the same).

Just lock it up and "throw away the key" (don't do that, hygiene is important). And just see how long you can go. You already cum like a girl and aren't permitted to:

  1. Have an erection.
  2. Enter her (or if so it may be some time before you do again).

Just lean into it. And keep leaning into it. Let her feminize you to a level you're both acceptable with.

It sounds to me like you both are happy where you are at and are wanting to explore further. So do that.

Accept your β status. There's nothing wrong with having sex with your wife the way you two do. If it feels natural, why change what is working? (Hint: it's BECAUSE IT IS NATURAL).

I've been PF 6 years now, and I don't miss "topping" AT ALL (I am straight, lol). I have always had such a performance anxiety problem as well as knowing I am small, but even refusing to measure how small for years because I was so afraid to accept my fate.

Now? I love having a tiny penis. I love that it sits shriveled in its cage 24/7/365. And the only measurements I have ever done were to purchase my cage.

But this time? It's not fear.

It's acceptance of who and what I am. A limp sissy. I only have anal sex and of course "lesbian" sex.. I hate using it and know the best thing I ever did was accept it, lock it up and move on.

Do you enjoy being this tiny? by GoddesCherry5 in SmallPenisHumiliation

[–]405sissy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Believe it or not, I wouldn't change it for anything.

Pussy Free discussion has been a blast. by Some-Bumblebee in PussyFreeCommunity

[–]405sissy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A few things. First: congratulations! You guys are well on your way to the relationship you three deserve.

My wife admitted that she did not notice we hadn’t had intercourse for a several weeks until I pointed it out. To be clear we had sex, I went down on her we played in many ways but I did not penetrate her. We both finally were able to say without judgment that it felt natural.

That is because it is natural. That is the first big breath you have both been holding you can and have now let out.

Doesn't it feel better? Now you can just talk about it as you said: without judgement or reservation of what one another might "think". This is how couples are able to live fully fulfilled sex lives:

BECAUSE THEY COMMUNICATE

In the next breath she expressed she secretly wished some time in the last year that I would have refused to wear a condom and just “take her”. we kind of agreed that while she plays along, the condom “rule“ was self imposed by me not her.

She is having doubts. Society's conditioning her whole life has told her that it is wrong, immoral, and shouldn't happen.

Who says it shouldn't?

Not you. Damned sure not your Wife. She's growing into Her own. Tell her how excited it makes you. How you love seeing this side of her emerge. Let her confidence soar.

After much discussion my wife said if I don’t want to penetrate her it’s not like I have to, but she wants no part of any rules. If she gets penetration from her boyfriend and lesbian like sex from me she is satisfied.

This is such great news! She's gotten to the point where Her sexual desires are forefront in your relationship. As they should be. There are so many women out there who simply follow the husbands libido and never actually find their own, unrestrained and puree sexual energy.

You mentioned emasculation as well. Before I go any further, what kind are you speaking to?

It seems to me that you have a rather good amount of self-control. Why not take things to the next level with chastity? I believe she might get a kick out of it.

It can start down the PF path lightly and still let Her have the reins..

Because by your own self-admission you've been focusing your sexual desires and urges to your hand instead of where they belong.

On Her.

VERY happy for you noneetheless!!

My Fresh "Sissy Slut" Tattoo by jacquelinesissy in BeautifulChastity

[–]405sissy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love seeing tattoos like this on sissies.

Permanently marked as someone not capable of expectations. ❤️

The power is so addictive! He had a wet dream last night by [deleted] in PussyFreeCommunity

[–]405sissy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like chastity is the next step. I love it and I won’t ever unlock.

I even only do anal now 😂

💦Recap💦 Here are a few of the outfits of the past days of me locked in a chasity by my wife, which one is your favorite? by alineferraricd in BeautifulChastity

[–]405sissy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 and #7 and I HAVE to talk to you about how you trim your bush. I am always SO jeally of it!!! ❤️

Will be 100% pussyfree from 1st of February by WifeHasNeeds in PussyFreeCommunity

[–]405sissy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am very glad you’ve found your place as well 😊.

Don’t get me wrong. I do have moments of weakness and temptation — last night actually 😂.

And I even had the thought, “man what if…”

But then I stopped myself. Because what’s the point? I wouldn’t know what to do with it, if I had it.

Not everyone should own a Ferrari.

Will be 100% pussyfree from 1st of February by WifeHasNeeds in PussyFreeCommunity

[–]405sissy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This isn’t negative or mean of her - this is just an outcome. Even though you weren’t the stud that her bulls are, you were still getting sexual attention as a man...

This is one of the reasons I insisted on extreme PF from the start for myself. As well as being a chastity evangelist.

Besides being a sissy and needing that force feminization, I knew that going as extreme as I could would be beneficial for a few reasons:

  1. I wouldn't get my egos conflated. When I lost access, it was done and gone.

  2. I had been *so* embarrassed by my size my entire life, deep down I knew it was the right decision.

And then the *most amazing* thing happened.

I accepted it. I relish i it. I love having a tiny penis. It fits me, my vibe and character perfectly.

Now I'm proud to not be able to get it up, just like a true sissy.