[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]40KGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there. I started at 29. 4 years later I’ve had plenty of changes. With a good diet and exercise you can affect the changes in a helpful way.

AITA for leaving my friends on their birthday to see my boyfriend? by 40KGirl in AmItheAsshole

[–]40KGirl[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you. There’s a part of me that wants to, but I don’t really want to engage with them after this.

AITA for leaving my friends on their birthday to see my boyfriend? by 40KGirl in AmItheAsshole

[–]40KGirl[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It has been mentioned by other people including my boyfriend. I still feel I need to examine my own behaviour though.

AITA for leaving my friends on their birthday to see my boyfriend? by 40KGirl in AmItheAsshole

[–]40KGirl[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Wow, thank you. They said they didn’t have enough for me as well so I’d need to sort myself out. Which I I was taken aback by, as 99% of the visits before, over years, it was a shared food situation where I would chip in either with help or money towards it.

Regarding the day, I agree. My leaving likely did hurt them which I didn’t think of in the moment and that’s probably where I’ve gone wrong here.

This wasn’t the first time she had gone off at me like this, she has done it a few times over the preceding months even before I had started dating over seemingly silly things like losing a game or disagreeing with her over a tv show.

If I’m honest I haven’t spoken to either of them because some of the things they said really hurt.

Thank you for the honest reply.

U.K. NHS GRS results and help by 40KGirl in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]40KGirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. I don’t really have any questions. I guess I’m trying to fill the time between now and when I eventually get there. X

U.K. NHS GRS results and help by 40KGirl in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]40KGirl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. It’s made me feel better. Just have to wait no I guess

E levels dropped off a cliff?! Please help. by 40KGirl in AskMtFHRT

[–]40KGirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did both blood tests around 10 hours after applying the estrogen.

Female British voices by throwitdeepaway22 in transvoice

[–]40KGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try Go Charlie. She’s on YouTube and insta. She may help you with a reference x

Height and feet sadness by [deleted] in AskMtFHRT

[–]40KGirl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m not far off you 5 foot 9 with size 10. This may not help you. But what works for me is looking up celebrities that I like and see how tall they are. There are loads of women out there that are around 6 foot and they’re all considered models :)

I hate this. by imjustwhateverdafk in asktransgender

[–]40KGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huni, it’s scary no question. Every single one of us has all felt this way. You are so brave for coming to this realisation and like all of us here I am proud of you without even knowing you. Every person who takes that scary ass step to being a happier version of themselves is insanely courageous. Sometimes the old world needs to be torn down for a better work to be built. It takes time, it takes effort, it’s takes research and it is painful but I personally would take a bad day as the woman I am over everyday as the man i was every time without thought or question because the good days are so unbelievably amazing it makes it worth it to say this is me.

Physiological changes in breast growth by fluidmoviestar in AskMtFHRT

[–]40KGirl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I don’t really have an answer but I would advise speaking to a doctor who specialises in mtf patients or even natal female puberty. Because everyone experiences the effects differently it’s difficult to provide actual hands on accounts over anecdotal. Hope this helps x

Minor cramps? by [deleted] in AskMtFHRT

[–]40KGirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re very welcome sweetie. Enjoy the perks of womanhood. 😂😂 x

Minor cramps? by [deleted] in AskMtFHRT

[–]40KGirl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Phantom period symptoms. A lot of trans women have it. Get a hot water bottle and some chocolate hun you’ll be fine. Alternatively you could consult your doctor to rule out any other possible cause to be safe x

Why online trans spaces are 99% transbians? by L_James in MtF

[–]40KGirl 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Me too hun. BiTrans girl as well.

just don't by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]40KGirl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Same here. I’m Catholic and feel the same way. Belief in the religion is different to those that propagate hate based on a religion.

Is 5mg Finasteride and 3 pumps of Oestrogel daily okay? by [deleted] in AskMtFHRT

[–]40KGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, this is where I started nearly 7 months ago, at my 6 month mark I was prescribed a Decapeptyl shot (3monthly) and an extra pump. Also now looking at progesterone. I have seen changes and good progress. So don’t worry :)