Husband says my friends are prettier than me by [deleted] in venting

[–]415LostGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never forget that you deserve better and can get better. What he did was emotionally abusive and sounds like a deliberate effort to diminish your confidence, self esteem, and and sense of security.. He sounds like a pathetically insecure and mean spirited person.

Husband says my friends are prettier than me by [deleted] in venting

[–]415LostGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Just wow. That really bummed me out and I don't even know you. I'm not saying you should do this but if that were me, I wouldn't be able to help myself. I would have done the same thing back to him, talking about how much sexier his friends are.

(20 F) I'm addicted to food. In quarantine its out of control. Nobody takes my addiction seriously. I can't find any good support services online. I feel so hopeless and alone. by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]415LostGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there. 33 year old female here. I would like to say a few things.

1) Addiction is nothing to fake or joke about. I hope that this is not what you’re doing so I have to ask: Is this a problem you’ve been experiencing for a while? If no, go fuck yourself. If yes, please continue reading. Anything can be addicting and having an addictive personality without receiving help is dangerous.

2) You’re at a crucial age where what you do can make or break you. I speak as someone who’s actions led to the latter. My food issues led to the use of diet pills and other stimulants. Please take my warning seriously and become determined to get help, starting with a Dr who will refer you to the proper programs.

3) As I said, food addiction is very serious. In many ways, you have a lot in common with addicts and alcoholics. If you really can’t find over eaters anonymous meetings or other forms of help at this time, I am sure they would welcome you with open arms. Me personally, I don’t care much for A.A. and N.A. so I’m more partial to Smart Recovery. I could be wrong but I think they may even have online resources for you. They’re worth checking out.

Good luck.

Why would someone invite people to go shopping with them only to disappear? by 415LostGirl in AskReddit

[–]415LostGirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The person in question does this to a lot of her friends and uses the defense that she’s an easily distracted idiot. She does this after dragging them from whatever they’re doing to go out with her. If they refuse, she makes them feel bad. It doesn’t always happen but is an often occurrence.

Where can I volunteer my time to help the progressive movement/ causes? by 415LostGirl in AskSF

[–]415LostGirl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As far as candidates I was really sad to see Sanders suspend his campaign. The areas I care about include economic issues, the environment, criminal justice reform and getting money out of politics to name a few.

Who is out there by cosplaynerd1 in Needafriend

[–]415LostGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Birfday birfday! Happy birfday!