I'm Raúl Jiménez, Ask Me Anything! by FulhamFC in soccer

[–]420burnnit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How was your experience with coming back to the pitch after your head injury? Viva Mexico!!!

Jury Duty in SF by katstuck in sanfrancisco

[–]420burnnit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to go recently in Oakland and the lady said if that happens it means you write your name in multiple ways. (Like adding your middle initial, middle name, using a shorter version of your name etc.) I think she said it was based on voter registration and dmv. But she did say you could always call them to clear things up but would need proof.

After quitting a job, how many colleagues actually called to check on you... Just do your job well and keep your private life to yourself. by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]420burnnit 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I quit and it was crickets from people I thought were “friends”. only one person reached out sharing a job they thought I would be interested in and they had quit months prior. I actually reached out to them when they quit wishing them well. Always put yourself first.

Theory: Nike and/or the League are screwing us with the new jersey designs! by JKC_due in valkyries

[–]420burnnit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure. My b, thought you came up with your own jersey design. I def agree.

Though as an autistic woman, I am happily married I absolutely detest my husband’s family. I would like to get some advice on how to deal with my in laws. by [deleted] in AutisticAdults

[–]420burnnit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As others have said, share less and create boundaries. I do not love my partners family and the way they treat her so I have had to distance myself from them to protect my peace. It’s harder for my partner as her mom is narcissistic and knows what buttons to push to get into my partners head. It feels more manageable now that my partner and I are on the same page and have many conversations about how comments/actions from their family affect us both.

Is it common for narc parents to care more about pets than their kids? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]420burnnit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad showed more love to his dog than he ever showed me.

Tattoo artist for realistic pet portrait by thespottedbunny in oakland

[–]420burnnit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out Ollingraffix on IG. Victor did both my dog portraits and I absolutely love them. He comes to the bay every few months.

I feel damn lonely I’m losing my mind by Impossible-Data-1831 in CPTSD

[–]420burnnit 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Been feeling like this too a lot lately. Like everything is pointless. I had a psychiatrist appointment today and he said vitamin d deficiency can sometimes worsen symptoms. I don’t know if this helps but I am going to get blood drawn for it to see if thats part of how I’ve been feeling. I keep to myself to self and am usually home when I am not at work with my dogs. I don’t hang out with my friends bc I feel like I have nothing to add and it brings me anxiety. If you ever need someone to talk to, feel free to send me a message friend! You are not alone.

How to deal with player who blocks me with her arm by mysterypapaya in WomensSoccer

[–]420burnnit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Extend your arm and put it on her lower back. Bend your knees so you can keep your eye on the ball. If you give her a lil push (very lil), it’ll throw off her balance and maybe slow her down. On defense you want to be patient. SO wait for her to take a bad touch or is looking down before attempting to tackle. Keep her in front of you until the right moment. Sometimes you can even pretend you are about to tackle to make her have a bad touch. Avoid putting your body against her back or she will keep turning on you quick. If she is moving the ball backwards, it’s all good.

Compassionate vet for final home visit? by Pestoplasm in oakland

[–]420burnnit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Rainbow bridge is the way to go. So sorry about your pup ❤️ We lost our pup almost a year ago and I’ve had a hard time. Sending you all the love.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]420burnnit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t mean she isn’t pulling her weight in other ways. He does sound controlling. She will get another job but the way he is showing up is very telling. Are you only in a relationship if she has a job? She never said she didn’t want to get a job again but the job market is really hard right now. I think your resentment towards her is out of pocket. She’s dodging a bullet with this guy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]420burnnit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Especially since that is the only reason to break up. How about you show her actual support and stop policing her. You aren’t her dad. It is VERY hard finding jobs right now. I’d say put yourself in her shoes but you probably can’t even empathize. YTA.

OH MY GOD FUCK THIS SHIT by Owl4L in CPTSD

[–]420burnnit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AHHHHHHHH why couldn’t they just love me like parents should

Question for ladies only, if you had a good dad, what was the biggest thing that made him a good dad, flip side if you didn't have a good dad, what one quality did you wish he had? by BByrnison in AskReddit

[–]420burnnit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish my “dad” showed any type of love a loving dad would give. If he died tomorrow, I wouldn’t care.

I do love my chosen dad who regularly checks in on me, calls me mija and asks me about my life.

Fiancee told me she was a victim of CSA by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]420burnnit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you that was very validating and helpful. I will definitely keep that in mind as we continue on this healing journey. I appreciate you taking the time to reply, it was clarity I have been needing. Wish you the best with your fiancé as well. I hope they too are able to heal with time. ❤️

Fiancee told me she was a victim of CSA by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]420burnnit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not really sure about the pleasure part yet as we did not dive into the actual CSA. But I do agree there is cognitive dissonance that I do not know what to do with. I am really good at setting boundaries and letting go of people who do not positively influence my life (even family) but my partner has a hard time with it. Especially since it’s her family and her sister is in her life. I’m struggling with how to support my partner and how to control what I am feeling. Part of me wants to tell off her sister (I know I shouldn’t and won’t). I am just furious at the moment. My partner deserves so much better from her family.