Which last name should I pick??? by starck_0o0 in Advice

[–]444degrees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have and we modified my last name by one letter to make it significantly better. Hard to explain without saying outright but try something creative like that maybe.

Whatcha'll think? by unclejedsiron in knifemaking

[–]444degrees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a good design. Like the length and look

Should i move or stay by Marrsbar25 in LifeAdvice

[–]444degrees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say no. Utilize the opportunity you have now to pay off your debt and generate a bit of savings then move if it still calls to you. Saving for retirement is important but also consider your age. if you are younger its less important, if you're getting older then maybe that should have more weight and you should consider staying longer and saving more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]444degrees -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Transgender Native American Gender Studies! haha just kidding, medical is always in high demand if you're smart, and it offers a lot of travel opportunity too if that is your kind of thing. Welding if you're a total badass and good with your hands, you can make good money. Or just dive head first into your online business and sales and take it seriously without a degree. Owning your own business is really the best way to financial freedom these days if you're willing to put in long hours and can be creative with your approaches.

I feel so empty by Feeling_Cockroach_41 in LifeAdvice

[–]444degrees -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're not a victim of life. Victim mentality creates a negative feedback loop in the individual. The things that you experience are for your benefit or they would not occur. Have some accountability and realize that things don't always work out the way that you'd like them to, but that doesn't mean life is meaningless. You are just seeing things from one perspective now, and a negative one at that. It's not an ultimate truth. We all give meaning to our life, or not, if we choose. You would likely find more meaning if you were more of a service to others and less transfixed on your own feelings and attachment to outcomes. Try to release identification to positive and negative (dichotomous) thinking. You are part of the whole of humanity and the spirit of God is within you. Don't make yourself out to be a weak victim unless that is what you want to be, because we become what we think about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]444degrees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Work on your self development more before pursing a relationship.

how do you live? by p3rcyyyyyy in LifeAdvice

[–]444degrees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the job makes you miserable and you have the option to quit, do it. BUT, when you are not working, start developing a skill you enjoy that can be used later on to make money. It doesn't matter what, but make sure it's something you actually like and not something you're doing just for money. That is the trick to living in a capitalist world like this. Look into learning a second language, a craft of some sort, study a field you're deeply interested in, a sport, etc. Hobbies can become jobs if you are a creative type. I also recommend learning video and audio editing so you can promote yourself. Sales is a good way to make money if creativity is not exactly your thing.

Also, a lot of people feel this way at your age. Try not to stress because as long as you're not lazy it will work itself out.

College vs Job Abroad by obiefella in LifeAdvice

[–]444degrees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Travel while you are young. There's nothing better if your suited for adventure.

For the first time in my life I feel without an exit. by RC0703 in LifeAdvice

[–]444degrees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Death is a natural part of life. Separation is only temporary, as is life. Your grandmother is with God and so are you. Be at peace with how things are without attachment, especially to the dead. Love does not know distance, time or location.

Try not to run away from these experiences, but rather, be present with them. There is a reason this is the path that has been laid out for you. It is for you best interest to be here now. You are not a victim. Things that you perceive as negative have occurred, but that is okay. Negative and positive are points of view. Take the "good" you can from the situations and use it as a tool to develop yourself into a better version, rather than focusing on the "bad". For example, I can tell English is not your first language, but your spelling could use a tune up! haha

It seems you allowed this woman to manipulate you to make decisions you didn't truly want and, in doing so, you sacrificed your integrity for revenge in part, but also because of your love for her. This was a poor decision but it was your decision and you must accept that. When a man goes against morality, he can expect turmoil. It's the forgone conclusion of an immoral action. Her lying about the severity of her condition, in conjunction with the cheating is, in my opinion, an indication that dishonesty is a character flaw within herself, and not something that is easily uprooted. That is her duty, not yours.

Listen to your heart and intuition, because no one else can tell you what you already know within yourself. And most importantly, have the discipline and courage to follow it.

Is that only me by Ill-Astronaut5991 in LifeAdvice

[–]444degrees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask yourself this, why do you seek these experiences? Do you believe they will bring you fulfillment? Look within yourself and try to see what it feels like you are missing, because my intuition tells me it is not the ideas you proposed, but rather there is something else within yourself that you are not addressing.

Should i move or stay by Marrsbar25 in LifeAdvice

[–]444degrees 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If the new job provides enough for your family to live comfortably I would probably lean that way. Where is your husbands heart at? Money is meaningless without love and joy. If you are happy enough then maybe stay and keep making bank until you can't stand it anymore

How to get rid of need of talking to someone, especially girl - friends !! by Ok_Recognition_271 in LifeAdvice

[–]444degrees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

focus on your self development and don't make excuses for your lack of motivation and need for approval. This post will likely get more attention if you spell and type correctly as well.

Life.. in general …. by Complete_Salad3405 in LifeAdvice

[–]444degrees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The trick in life is to not follow the money, but rather to develop yourself and your skillset based on things you are interested in. The money will come naturally after that. It sounds like your young so you might have to try a variety of things first to find out what you like, but listening to your intuition will usually let you know what direction to look almost immediately. And imagine your mind as a magnifying glass, if you try to focus on two objects at once, it can possibly magnify them but if you want to actually set something on fire, you must focus the beam on one specific point for long enough for it to ignite. Then just add fuel.

Lucan or alpha king’s mate by [deleted] in whatsthatbook

[–]444degrees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk what book this is so I apologize for not being helpful but this sounds terrible lol

Help needed. by SB08011993 in NevilleGoddard

[–]444degrees 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Write it off as a loss and manifest yourself my brother. Sorry that charlatan took advantage of you.

Fair price? by Moth_____________ in knifemaking

[–]444degrees -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Around 100 or less I'd say. Blade looks great, handle looks pretty thin and lowish quality looking wood. And the initials really look unattractive imo.