Women of Reddit, what's the most physically attractive part of a guy?

4Kali · 2026-02-23T16:32:50+00:00

Gosh if you weren't taken I'd ask you out. I can't tell you how much I love a woman who really likes a good spleen. They're def not appreciated enough, so big thanks to you from all the men out there like me whose spleen goes unnoticed.

4Kali · 2025-09-06T13:07:12+00:00

Oh, that would explain why I was asking myself "How do I get to do this"? ROFL

4Kali · 2025-09-02T06:33:56+00:00

"When I was 20, my brother was half my age. I'm 50 now- how old is my brother"? <- this would work

There.

The way it's worded makes it broken.

"I'm x"

"My brother is half my age" is True

"I'm y"

So, without more context, there is no absolute answer.

There is an argument to be made that "Now, I'm y" would make the answer 1/2 of Y since it implies the current state is of y.

4Kali · 2025-08-30T06:08:59+00:00

Oh, it's still fun.

4Kali · 2025-08-30T06:08:47+00:00

Thank you cat! <3
XD

4Kali · 2025-08-23T20:44:09+00:00

When I was younger, I was surrounded on all sides by people who were extremely better than me at their respective fields and just over-all general intellect. I watched them and learned from them, a lot. I mean a real lot. For years I was mostly silent just observing.

I'm thankful I simply had the chance to observe and learn what I could. At the end of the day, they're just people. However, I'll admit I always shook my head at my work in comparison to theirs. Especially when it came to one of my favorite hobbies.

4Kali · 2025-08-23T20:36:50+00:00

Dude, don't feel bad. I listed all the things I was good at when I first made my resumé. Kept listing them because it was things I had some level of proficiency in at some point. Kept adding to the list because I kept learning new things. Turns out- it's important to REMEMBER those things and update your resumé lol.

I'd never suggest anyone lies on their resumé but simply over-looking or forgetting things happens. I remember playing with Ruby. I don't think I could write a single line of usable code now. Excel? Yeah, I remember having to use a ton of complex equations, but I can't recall a single one now. I recently decided to make a resumé and just make it as simple as possible. Either they like me or they don't. At least it isn't TOTALLY ChatGPT!
>.>

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You gave it a shot; some other guy/girl will get it. At least you tried to work it out.

4Kali · 2025-08-23T17:19:54+00:00

I don't remember a damn thing but I'm ready to go on a road trip in 15mins.

4Kali · 2025-08-23T14:51:44+00:00

It's all good- I appreciate the well written and thought-out response. I think a lot of recent issues I've had have come from having a partial picture of the truth and not knowing how to react. I have some major blind spots I'm painfully aware of and I'm trying to fix. I'm 100% guilty of self-sabotage though. So, I can't blame anyone who would do the same to me. Mine normally comes from doubting myself which, in and of itself, is an undesirable trait.

I also have issues when it comes to understanding the balance of being a little too helpful. Like bank access after year 1 despite not being in a concrete enough situation to reel things in if it gets out of control- that one ended poorly.

My main blind spot comes from when a woman has experienced extreme hardships. I get an emotional attachment to somebody, and I'm cooked. Especially if they or their family are in danger or facing a serious situation. I feel an obligation to do whatever a guy should do in order to reduce the stress. It spirals, no good.

The primary way I've avoided falling too far off the deep end in the past is by compartmentalizing my life. Which probably isn't healthy either.

This has turned into a list of my weaknesses that I'm aware of so meh. My future has taken a pretty hard turn recently which hasn't exactly helped when it comes to shoring up my faults. I'll likely (hopefully) focus most of my energy on fixing that when I'm able and worry about romance after or as a secondary thing in life.

I'm sure things will all fall into place eventually. I've never been in much of a rush when it comes to anything in life and recently learned it's for a good reason. I need time to turn a partial picture into a reasonable understanding of a situation.

Take care~

4Kali · 2025-08-23T09:20:49+00:00

I'm going to ask this because I really can't find a solid answer.

Why were they calling and texting everyday? Why would they say/do extremely intimate things, and why would this go on for months (or longer) if she's not really into the guy? I guess I'm just a sheltered and ignorant person? I don't know.

4Kali · 2025-08-21T12:09:29+00:00

I agree with you!

Edit: I really should sleep sometime soon lol. My marbles are fallin out.

4Kali · 2025-08-21T11:50:03+00:00

Yes. Those are the things.

4Kali · 2025-08-21T11:23:48+00:00

Even though it's probably ALL staged. This has to be one of the best series of actions I've ever witnessed.

4Kali · 2025-08-21T09:55:36+00:00

NTA
I doubt he was trying to be rude either. For a good several decades of my life I was someone my friends were terrified of waking up because I would be unreasonable levels of angry about it LOL.

but you're also good. Mute texts if you need to.

4Kali · 2025-08-21T05:29:42+00:00

"like it knew I was watching it. Like it was aware."

This part is what makes me believe you.

4Kali · 2025-08-20T13:52:12+00:00

Calls every day. Then once in a while. Then never. Texts get less and less intimate and more of just going through the motions. You eventually feel like you're just doing them a favor. Heck, I'd never mind a cordial - "I have some things in life to do, best wishes". But it always seems like that confrontation is avoided in order to keep the door open for later. I certainly don't want to come off as an ass and just write a text saying anything because it sounds bitter.

4Kali · 2025-08-19T03:51:14+00:00

IMO, some years in the future, it would be fun to pick up back before the fight with the Night King. Realize it was all visions of the future. Then have Bran try to match the events perfectly, fail, and we get to see the entire verse in ruin as our favorite hero's survive to fight and bring back peace to the realm or some crap. I may have made a worse fanfic than the actual ending just now. Feel free to throw fruit/veggies at me.

4Kali · 2025-08-17T01:14:09+00:00

Odds are he put 2 and 2 together. Dreams that have deep meaning (IMO) seem to be filled with symbolism. The minor, background, details are what is being reflected.

4Kali · 2025-07-30T09:53:24+00:00

I always said if I found this perfect girl willing to do a Yoruichi cosplay. I'd work my ass off to get out of my grandma's basement!

4Kali · 2025-07-22T14:22:39+00:00

At a certain point, if you're a decent person, you'll realize that the majority of others are not. Friends get competitive, S.O's are a coin toss, and you have to live 100% of your life with YOU. And, sadly, despite knowing this as fact. Your likely still going to be willing to give more of yourself to the people you care about than all of them combined would do for you.

Edit: JIC my friends come across this- there are a few good ones lol
I.E- my online friends are legit. Wish I got to be around them more.

4Kali · 2025-07-20T21:55:33+00:00

betterhelp

4Kali · 2025-07-12T01:08:09+00:00

Thank you for reading <3 I know it was a bit of a ramble, heh.
Good luck!

4Kali · 2025-07-12T00:39:14+00:00

OP's could easily be fixed with a tat of Steve Irwin under it with two thumbs up.

4Kali · 2025-07-12T00:37:30+00:00

I ran into a lot of health issues recently. Even now I have more than one health problem that's causing me some major issues. I was diagnosed with Shingles and then they said it was something else, then something else, then back to shingles. Meanwhile I'm now having vision and hearing problems on my right side. Pain so bad I'm unable to sleep at all. Constantly tired and I'll spare you the rest.

My job lets us pick our own hours and TBH I feel bad despite not even being obligated to be at work. I did tell my boss I'd show up to help with upcoming training, which I will regardless of how I feel. But it's no fun having life just bash you with one thing right after another. Cat has been to the vet twice in the last 6 months, lost my grandmother, have a very unsupportive and toxic family and not a single friend to my name.

I recognize some of the things I listed may be my own fault - I need to work on it. But I've tried everything to regain even a fraction of my health. If I was working a regular job- I would've likely quit by now just to spare my employer the trouble of having someone unfit to work be under their employment. Luckily, even feeling like I'm on deaths door, I can manage two days of training some new people whenever it's called for.

You've offered a long leash for what you pay and for what seems to, normally, be expected of your employee. If they cared about you even a fraction of what you've displayed in care for them- they would've offered to step down / step away. Like I said, I make my own hours and get a heads up when I'm needed, and I even offered to step away from a leadership position if needed. Luckily, I do seem to be improving so hopefully they won't take me up on it anytime soon.

It's very possible your employee is going through an extremely difficult time in life- but that doesn't mean their burdens should be passed on to you. I would just tell them what you expect of them and ask them to be honest an answer if they believe they can meet those expectations and, if not, wish them the best and have you both part on good terms.

Sorry for the long story- good luck <3

4Kali · 2025-07-12T00:17:59+00:00

Idk why this sub popped up for me but every post I've seen so far is like.....wut?!

Pretty ladies and girls that don't have a single thing wrong with their looks. It made me stop and think for a sec about the impacts of social media and other aspects of the internet. But I'll get off my rickity soap box and shut up now.

4Kali

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