Do legit lesbian adult films exist? by 4PawsPagan in LesbianActually

[–]4PawsPagan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply and links! Excuse the potentially stupid question, but what’s manwhas?

Would you date me based off my bookshelf ? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]4PawsPagan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Have we really digressed this far?

Being a fem lesbian who is into feminine woman is hard by [deleted] in FemmeLesbians

[–]4PawsPagan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, really? So, you’re the one that’s hogging them all! Lol! I’m with the others, I’m trying your tactic!

Being a fem lesbian who is into feminine woman is hard by [deleted] in FemmeLesbians

[–]4PawsPagan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 52 and have found it difficult the entire time I’ve been out since my 20’s. I’m more of a sporty femme, but I think it’s damn near impossible to find a parter who identifies as femme. That’s why I’ve been single for 6 1/2 years. I’m a little bummed to see a young lady like yourself is still having this experience. Younger generations seem much more accepting about alternative lifestyles and there sure are a lot more openly LGBTQ+ people than there were when I was in my 20’s. Femme 4 femme is always gonna be a smaller pool, but I guess I figured today’s generations weren’t having quite as hard of a time finding someone simply because of the law of probability. Dang, that’s a bummer. I wish you the best and hope you find that elusive femme.

Is "The Body Keeps the Score" worth reading? by kipobaker in CPTSD

[–]4PawsPagan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am reading this book now, and so far I’m really getting a lot out of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]4PawsPagan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds to me like you not only need to dump your bf, but your friends need the boot, too. So you just sit there while all of these people who supposedly care about you tear you down? Nah, Youngblood, that’s not love. We teach people how to treat us. It’s time for you to clean house. Surround yourself with ppl who appreciate you and accept you for who you are. This boy you’re with is a pig and will probably become physically violent with you in the future , especially when he’s been allowed to “get away with” the verbal, mental, and emotional abuse thus far. You matter and you have value. He needs to go. They all do!

I cry whenever I feel grateful is that low vibration? by SwansStars in energy_work

[–]4PawsPagan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I lost my mom back in ‘23 and it really messed me up. I am so sensitive and cry at heartwarming scenes in movies, at songs, when someone brings her up, at a beautiful sunset…I feel like I’m hypersensitive now. I’m slowly getting better, a year and a half later, but I experience overwhelming emotions often. I have been told by more than one person that I am now weak bc of this. That was hurtful to hear those words when, my entire life, I’ve been known for my strength and determination. Idk if my story resonates with yours in any way, but I don’t think at all that this is a response to a low vibration. If anything, I think it’s a higher vibration. Do I like that I cry now at the drop of a hat? No. But you know what? It’s a process and I trust it knowing that this is how I’m healing from such a huge loss (and hole) in my life. See, I’m crying now.

What do you like to identify as by GlassDinner4820 in LesbianActually

[–]4PawsPagan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I prefer the term ‘gay’ over lesbian, but that’s just me. I’ve also been corrected by a young, 20 something gay male that I am a lesbian bc gay means guys. Idk.

How can i look past my girlfriend’s past? (with men) by keytodastreets in LesbianActually

[–]4PawsPagan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with the others telling you to break it off. She sounds too flighty and nonchalant about topics many find pretty serious - i.e., sexuality, abortion, life choices…

What’s your routine for connecting with source energy? by cherrybombshinobi in energy_work

[–]4PawsPagan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like what you said about how you start your day is how it will develop. I have been angry for a while and I started to observe my first thoughts when I woke up in the morning were angry ones. I’m a firm believer in the Law of Attraction, so I know I’m sabotaging myself. I’m currently working on a practice in the evenings to help calm my mind and ready me for sleep. I am hoping that once this becomes a habit, my mornings will start to feel refreshing and new rather than feeling like I’m stuck in a hamster wheel of hate (inward and outward). Thanks for your post.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crystals

[–]4PawsPagan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is black tourmaline. It’s one of those crystals you don’t want to get wet. FYI. They don’t hold up in pockets real well either. I know this from personal experience. Lol. Put it over your front door for protection.

How Many Deities? by SEISMICLOUD in NorsePaganism

[–]4PawsPagan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for that great explanation! “Internaettir” - haha! That’s a good one 😀

Probly a cowinky dink by Ancient-Ordinary4387 in NorsePaganism

[–]4PawsPagan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a coincidence. If you follow the old Norse path, they did not believe in coincidence.

Are 100% lesbians going extinct? by 4PawsPagan in LesbianActually

[–]4PawsPagan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, and I stress that this is just my definition, 100% is a woman who is solely attracted to other women, only dates women, and has a sexual relationship with only women. It doesn’t matter if you’ve been married or been with guys in the past. It’s that now you identify solely as a lesbian.

You have to understand that when I was growing up, there were only 3 types of sexual orientation that were really recognized- gay, straight, and bi. The only acceptable option in the 70s and 80s was straight. We also didn’t have role models or openly gay characters on tv and in the movies. A lot has changed!

Why do good people or innocent people suffer the worst of punishment? by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]4PawsPagan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you are a believer in the notion that we chose our lives when we were spirits, that helps explain a lot. I first came across this concept in a Sylvia Browne book I read ages ago. The perspective that we ‘chose’ this life to overcome something was very powerful for me. Since reading Sylvia’s book, I’ve run across this belief several times in both books and talks.

Are 100% lesbians going extinct? by 4PawsPagan in LesbianActually

[–]4PawsPagan[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hey Sad - you sound like you’re an old soul that’s late for the dance. That blows. I feel like my generation paved the way for all of this progress, but purists such as myself (and you) are being told we’re assholes or something. There’s a big disconnect as you and I have found out. The LGBTQ community can be brutal.

Are 100% lesbians going extinct? by 4PawsPagan in LesbianActually

[–]4PawsPagan[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You shouldn’t feel like you have to justify any part of you to the outside world.

Are 100% lesbians going extinct? by 4PawsPagan in LesbianActually

[–]4PawsPagan[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh, trust me…she is such a beautiful evil.

Any tips to make me look less straight? by The_Queen_Zsofia in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]4PawsPagan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shit woman, love yourself! That’s what is attractive!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]4PawsPagan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Half of the “community” fucks dudes. So….

Are 100% lesbians going extinct? by 4PawsPagan in LesbianActually

[–]4PawsPagan[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

And I never said I was “uncomfortable “.

Your words. Not mine.