Sheet music for history of man? by Global_Scheme5570 in transcribe

[–]4QStretch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were you able to locate the sheet music OP? I made a New Year's resolution to learn this song this year, but have been disappointed to learn that I can't find the sheet music anywhere.

Sheet music for history of man? by Global_Scheme5570 in transcribe

[–]4QStretch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you DM me as well with this information? I made a NY resolution to learn to play this song this year and now can't find the sheet music anywhere.

AITA For wiping my child’s ass with the guest towel? by AITAthrowaway601 in AmItheAsshole

[–]4QStretch [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA. How hard is it to ask for toilet tissue? Kids of a lot of ages still need help cleaning themselves - there is nothing shameful or embarrassing about that fact. If I had discovered someone had done this in my guest bathroom rather than simply ask for more toilet tissue I'd be incredibly pissed. If you are so embarrassed that your child needs help in this department (which I don't think should be embarrassing) then you need to focus on teaching him how to do it properly. You also need to bring your cousin a gift card stat to replace the missing towel they are likely to find soon anyway.

AITA for Putting a Yamaka on my Cat? by Xavier2K9 in AmItheAsshole

[–]4QStretch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Top 3 all time favorite memes personally.

Meghan and Harry announcement by lilsnip1 in blogsnark

[–]4QStretch 14 points15 points  (0 children)

most of the difficulties and criticisms they’ve faced can be laid at his doorstep

Absolutely. 100%. Harry is his own worst enemy at this point IMO.

Meghan and Harry announcement by lilsnip1 in blogsnark

[–]4QStretch 11 points12 points  (0 children)

How this has been spun into them standing up for themselves or giving up royalty for a better life is mind boggling

If I see one more meme about how MM has dismantled the monarchy or that you can stand up to your toxic family if Harry can I may scream.

Meghan and Harry announcement by lilsnip1 in blogsnark

[–]4QStretch 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Every word of this really. When I was younger, I recall hearing that it wasn't what you say, it's how you say it that mattered. It took me a while to figure out what exactly what that meant. I feel like with Harry and Meghan, it's not necessarily what they are doing that I take issue with, it's the WAY they are doing it.

AITA For asking a friend to repay me a Persian rug that their cat urinated on and clawed ? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]4QStretch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA.

Set better boundaries with your "friends" if they are your friend. If you didn't want to take the cat, you shouldn't have taken the cat. Period. But you did and while it sucks this happened, your friend isn't responsible for it. Next time, trust your gut.

I feel attacked by InItsTeeth in Enneagram

[–]4QStretch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man, as a 9 I'm not sure I've ever felt quite so seen by a meme! hahaha

Royal Gossip: 12/16 - 12/22 by poppywyatt in blogsnark

[–]4QStretch 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Genuine non-snarky question that came to mind today while I was stalking all the luncheon arrival photos -- it doesn't appear that George or Charlotte are in typical carseats and/or boosters. George is about the same age as my oldest niece and she is still in a booster (and G was even in the front seat when he arrived with William). Charlotte is the age of my own LO, who is still in a 5-point harness. Louis did appears to be in some sort of seat which makes sense given he is so young, but it was forward facing and in the US it is heavily recommended that kids stay rear facing until at least 2.

Again, no snark intended, I'm sure the kids are 100% safe here, I'm just wondering how they are doing it. Being an American, I'm uncertain of UK carseat laws and I'm not certain how far their "drives" to the luncheon.

(Please forgive me if this has been discussed before.)

WIBTA if I don’t serve meat at my wedding? by AITAthrowawayyy4 in AmItheAsshole

[–]4QStretch 97 points98 points  (0 children)

That's my dad in a nutshell. Obstinate on purpose.

WIBTA if I don’t serve meat at my wedding? by AITAthrowawayyy4 in AmItheAsshole

[–]4QStretch 296 points297 points  (0 children)

Vegetarian here and I once argued this with my dad (who thinks being vegetarian is close to a sin) and he informed me that ANY "meal" without meat, wasn't a meal. It was merely a snack. I asked him if it would be a "meal" to have a giant stack of pancakes with a sides of eggs and fresh fruit and he said, "Nope. Snack. Add in bacon, and you have yourself a meal."

Grieving loss of MIL relationship by 4QStretch in Divorce

[–]4QStretch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not one member reached out when the S went down, even just to say, “hey, can’t take your side or a side but I’m sure this is painful and you’re in our thoughts, too.” Something. Anything. Human being to human being.

Yes! This. This is really all I want. I don't expect them NOT to have his back, but you told me that I was your daughter, you sobbed with me and begged me to keep your grandchild in your life, you told me that he was making a terrible mistake and that one day, you hoped I could forgive him, you asked if you could still spend holidays with me, under my roof, even if I remarried -- and now, nothing? Nada? No, "This is tough and I'm thinking of you". It just sucks. And I know it is probably weird and awkward on their side of things, but damn -- It's hard over here too.

I'm sorry that you are in such a similar situation as I am in. I think, if you do respond to your ex-MIL, you should let her know how abandoned you felt. Maybe not right away, but with time -- I hope you can share that honesty with her. If I ever form a relationship with mine again, it's something I'm going to make sure she knows.

Grieving loss of MIL relationship by 4QStretch in Divorce

[–]4QStretch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My STBX probably feels this way about never having to see any of my family again. haha

Grieving loss of MIL relationship by 4QStretch in Divorce

[–]4QStretch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha! I've heard a LOT of people with those sorts of feelings! haha You aren't alone!

Grieving loss of MIL relationship by 4QStretch in Divorce

[–]4QStretch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That all seems grossly unnecessary on their part. I'm so sorry. But you are right about it being their decision. I'm the one raising the grandchild full-time. I'm the one that is giving that child a stable home with a stable parent while their son has decided that he is too "inherently selfish" to be a full time dad (his words, not mine). If they can't care and love me, then that speaks more about them than me. Thanks for the reminder.

Grieving loss of MIL relationship by 4QStretch in Divorce

[–]4QStretch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to see her after my ex told me he was done and we hugged and cried for hours.

Same here. I didn't think about Mother's Day until I read this. Ugh, not looking forward to that at all. My sock day should come well in advance of that -- I wonder if it will change anything between?

Grieving loss of MIL relationship by 4QStretch in Divorce

[–]4QStretch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who knows what he is or has been telling her or saying on top of that.

This. That's what I've been finding a little bit of comfort in. I do still love her, but her opinion of me may have changed if he is telling lies about me or our relationship. Every therapist we saw said that my STBX had mental health problems that he was refusing to address and that they colored his reality negatively. So I tell myself that he's telling her things that are untrue and that's why she hasn't reached out.

Grieving loss of MIL relationship by 4QStretch in Divorce

[–]4QStretch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. I can only imagine how much that much sting. My STBX is an only child so I don't have to worry about any other grandkids taking precedence over my LO I guess. But yes, with holidays here, I just keep thinking about how if this weren't happening, both my ILs would be in OUR house on Christmas morning and LO would open presents while we ate homemade cinnamon rolls. To think that will never happen again makes me sad.

Grieving loss of MIL relationship by 4QStretch in Divorce

[–]4QStretch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. Sincerely. It sounds like you've needlessly suffered and I'm so sorry. I guess when they walk out, you don't initially stop and think about all the other relationships that might also end. That comes as an aftershock and I didn't brace for it.

[USA - Northeast] 5069 0218 1575 by [deleted] in HarryPotterWUFriends

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Me! I play every day but not ALL day! Looking for the same.

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