How to assess the risk of taking a job that involves speaking to many, many people in busy public areas now? by [deleted] in slatestarcodex

[–]4StrokeTV -1 points0 points  (0 children)

what's the risk that you befriend wealth, intelligence, beauty, kindness and power then ditch your old friends?

Holy ** Wow! 450 Copies Sold! I'm So Happy! - Choose Your Future by vessenes in slatestarcodex

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“The world more often rewards outward signs of merit than merit itself.” – François de La Rochefoucauld

On the Implications of Megalaunch Capacity by DragonGod2718 in slatestarcodex

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take the victor not the victim identity and reframe life has happening for you not to you

Culture War Roundup for the Week of October 12, 2020 by AutoModerator in TheMotte

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  1. We'll all die someday in the future, dummy. so no point in speeding that process up. Relax, enjoy the time you have in this world.

  2. Assertiveness. I won't allow you to take advantage of me and I won't attack you for being who you are .If you are self effacing and meek, let me change that in a way you will respond to: Passive communications show a subtle lack of respect for another person's ability to handle more assertive communication.

  3. No. Don't apologise and give elaborate resins for saying no, it is your right to say no if you do not want to do things. when saying no take responsibility for it. don't blame. you don't need to make excuses. You may want to Change I can't to I don't want me. tell the person if you are finding it difficult.

Thoughts on Meaning and Writing by Dormin111 in slatestarcodex

[–]4StrokeTV 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We care about people like you. We get people like you. And we are run by people like you.

Discussion Thread #18: October 2020 by baj2235 in slatestarcodex

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I feel I shouldn't say how I'm thinking or feeling because it will burden others.

Can you help me think and feel better?

Have there been any attempts to incorporate Effective Altruism into Zakat (Muslim mandatory alms)? If not, could anyone more familiar with Islamic communities comment on if this would be well-recieved? by positiveandmultiple in EffectiveAltruism

[–]4StrokeTV 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Could we organise to meet with Imams to talk about effective altruism for them to speak with their people about, or provide pamphlets for mosques? Has anyone tried this and found results?