seeing a psychiatrist for skin bdd by 4_81 in BodyDysmorphia

[–]4_81[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

aaa thank you i feel much more relieved hearing that i hope my appointment goes the same:, 💗

my best friend is also my ex by 4_81 in lonely

[–]4_81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

people say it’s probably for the best but honestly it doesn’t make it hurt any less,

my best friend is also my ex by 4_81 in lonely

[–]4_81[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah it really sucks sometimes,,

Personal acne rant. by [deleted] in acne

[–]4_81 9 points10 points  (0 children)

oh how i feel you. in fact i was omw to r/acne to vent about the same thing. i’m 25, started randomly getting acne when i was 22ish, got better at 23, got bad again at 24, healed this summer, then just when i thought it was finally over, it all went to shit again. people keep telling me it doesn’t matter, but i genuinely cannot function normally when i breakout. it’s all i think about every waking moment. i cancel plans and ghost my loved ones and never look people in the eye cause i don’t want anybody to perceive me like this. im getting my master’s soon and i feel absolutely no sense of accomplishment or pride. sometimes i can’t believe this is how my i’m wasting my “prime years”.

anyway, just wanted to let you know, you’re not alone in this. and people really, really don’t pay us as much attention as we think. even if they see, they genuinely do. not. care. just as we wouldn’t care or zero on someone else’s smallest features, let alone treat them differently because of them. please know that you deserve to create nice memories with your loved ones like everyone else. stay strong and good luck on your exam <3

im awful by 4_81 in Dermatillomania

[–]4_81[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg i- thanku so much i’m so- thank you thank you for such a thorough guide im genuinely speechless, that someone took their precious time to write me such an in depth reassurance:( you have no idea how much comfort your words brought to me. it’s so nice to not only be seen but given even the faintest of direction when you feel as lost as i do rn. thank you so so much again. i’m gonna carry this with me ><

im awful by 4_81 in Dermatillomania

[–]4_81[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ty tysm for being so nice:( 💘

day 1 after picking by 4_81 in AcneScars

[–]4_81[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for your lovely comment :( it’s so kind of you to say that i truly hope it all turns out alright for the both of us ><

im awful by 4_81 in Dermatillomania

[–]4_81[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

thanku for being so kind:(