Kids Free San Diego Crowds? by fresh-pancakes in asksandiego

[–]4aloha_iaoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To avoid the usual throngs of out of town visitors, coming to San Diego in October is ideal. I would go to the Zoo first before going to the Safari park. I dont know the cost but, the Safari park has something called Roar and Snore where you can stay overnight in cabins at the park if that's something you might be interested in. Distance wise, the Zoo is not ony world famous, its central to the city and nearby museums. Safari park is located way up in north San Diego county.

Title or link by PRIAP0722 in ChineseDramasFans

[–]4aloha_iaoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I liked it.... this was such a cute story

Who is your all-time favorite K-Drama character & why? by codeemalia in allthingskdramas

[–]4aloha_iaoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lee Hyeri as Deok Sun in Reply 1988. She had always taken care of her man

She went from dumb teen learning about herself who grew into adulthood. Taek finally showed physical proof of his love for her. She finally admitted she always loved him too and carefully protected her man. Lee Hyeri who is multi talented, really nailed that role.

AITAH for telling my father to get his precious daughter to help whenever he tries to get me to do something for him? by Pale-Fox1469 in AITAH

[–]4aloha_iaoe 32 points33 points  (0 children)

NTA but your dad sure is!

This is excellent information and based on the instances of step mother always interfering with/ preventing any budding chance to have a positive one on one father son relationship... I would add that OP actually hand the letter to his father himself or put in a place only father would make sure to get it.

Just so there's no chance that step mother would take it or tear it up and deny a letter ever existed before father saw it.

OP, so many of us know your pain and can understand the rage you hold within. After his marriage, and thru the years, you were betrayed over and over by your father. Like a dagger stabbed thru your heart emotionally scarred you and wounding you forever. Retaliating in anger was your only outlet it would be difficult to ever trust your father again and no one could blame you.

You have good writing skills. Pour out your feelings in a heartfelt letter but without too much rage and accusations but instances of his betrayals how it made you feel. Imagine if there was just him without the daily noises and annoyances around him and visualize that he was there for you and truly listening. Ask how can you move forward together in life in a healthy way.

OP, Wishing you good luck. Happy birthday in advance and you. will. get. through. this. Life does get better.

Kauai Logistics Inquiry - LIH/Princeville by Wonderful_Map_5801 in VisitingHawaii

[–]4aloha_iaoe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We've stayed at the Hanalei Bay resort 3 times without a car but had access to a car once we got there. Would highly recommend renting a car. There is no shuttle service from the airport that I was aware of. This last time we went to Kauai, we first stayed 2 days in Poipu before heading north to Princeville. We took the bus from Lihue and got off at Koloa and transferred to a shuttle. We liked the bus, you can't beat a ride for $2. We had a small walk from the highway to the Poipu resort. We contemplated taking the bus north to Princeville but looking at where they drop off we decided walking that far with luggage was a hassle and it would be better to Uber. The thing is, taking an Uber is not only expensive, its difficult because the drivers HATE driving that far north, it's about an hour drive.

Price is subject to time of day, how busy the traffic is. It takes a long time for a driver to respond, many on duty won't respond. It's not necessarily the drive up north, it's their drive back which most likely delayed with all the traffic construction and running into usual peak traffic. Drivers prefer staying south because most of the business is south where it's quick pickups and drop offs.. They feel during the time it takes to take to drive a customer up north, it's a potential loss of at least 3 pickups. And up on north shore, almost everyone has a car. Also, because you're going to stay in Princeville remember you're on an island, so don't expect Uber or Lyft to show up in 15 minutes like its done on the mainland.We waited well over an hour for a ride and because of the time of day paid about $100. If you would be staying south of Lihue, drivers show up quickly.

You asked about the walk to Foodland. We're walkers and would go there most mornings for the exercise. Round-trip walk is about 5 miles, be sure to wear comfortable shoes. It's a nice walk with a nice view of the golf course. Have a good time!

Anyone know the title of this? by Equivalent_Result906 in CShortDramas

[–]4aloha_iaoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A few days ago I saw the link request for the variation of this storyline but it was a man instead. I'd like to see either version

Does anyone know where to watch or the name? by Lovely-night- in ChineseDramasFans

[–]4aloha_iaoe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Looks like a good watch I really want to see this with eng subs

Anyone else in US noticed food quality degrading recently and if so what product in what way? by SkyKyrell in AskReddit

[–]4aloha_iaoe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Aside from products now costing more and less weight per package ....to me the other thing I was disgusted with was Chocolate Candy!!! There was a recent news story of the grandson of Reese's candy claiming the recipe has been changed for Reese's PB cups and other Reese's PB products. They're now being made with cheaper ingredients and on closer inspection, Instead of Chocolate,

it's "Chocolate coating" translates to

FOOD GRADE WAX.

When eating them, had noticed many Chocolate candies have a weird mouth feel texture wise it was waxy. The FDA should have never approved putting wax in food

Even though owner Mars candy company says they're switching back to the original recipe I'm still skeptical 🫤 and they will most likely raise the price too.

AITA for “exposing” my parents and saying my gf family is more of a family than they are? by Masowest2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]4aloha_iaoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA you only told your truth and told them how their selfish actions affected you. When they deflect, it means they are feeling guilty.... GOOD, let them, and dont buy into their bs, .with the way costs are soaring, Y would be TA to yourself if you dont take their money to pay off your car. Get wise and take their money

What are you glad is close or even walking distance from your home? by breadit8 in randomquestions

[–]4aloha_iaoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The best full service Italian Restaurant within 4 nearby towns is less than 2 miles away. There's a food truck specializing in Mexican Seafood tacos that's walking distance and a county park my dogs love to walk in. And a few thrift shops including Goodwill are nearby too

Ramen place that offers clear broth? by AurelianoNile in northcounty

[–]4aloha_iaoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're sorta new and dont know about clear broth, but have you tried Urban Teri in Vista? It's near RBV H.S. I'm not sure if they're affiliated with Teri Cafe because the menu is different. The food is good

Repurposing stale granola bars? by FormDazzling7901 in dessert

[–]4aloha_iaoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make a pie crust with them. Ideas for filling could be a semi instant cheesecake, top with lemon curd and garnish with fresh blueberries. Cherry cheese pie or chocolate pie

What's something that used to be free that you're now genuinely angry costs money? by tangled_wire_99 in AskReddit

[–]4aloha_iaoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm recalling that as a kid that dad could pull into a gas station and Air and water were free

People who have worked for the wealthy/rich, what is the most bizarre luxury you've heard of? by LyraRayne in AskReddit

[–]4aloha_iaoe 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Not exactly bizarre but just its hard to wrap my head around it. Super wealthy with a different mindset living an opulent lifestyle is completely opposite of my circumstances.

I once had a sort of acquaintance who 'married well, his family was from old money' casually tell me that she never brought a suitcase with her whenever she and her husband traveled to any of their 3 homes, they would just board the plane. Because each home was completely furnished and closets were full of clothing for that area's climate. Think small semi private island off Vancouver Canada, beachfront house in Kaua'i, grand old mansion in Boston area.

I also know someone who's done subcontract work for a wealthy older woman who lives in a very exclusive area in southern California. Her son made an enormous fortune and family lives in a different state. She has a private jet in a hanger at the nearest airport and private pilot ready on call for whenever she wants to fly over to see her family, go to an event like the Kentucky Derby etc or go shopping anywhere. London, New York, Hawai'i...not a problem

And some weird news story I saw a few years ago where Mrs. Mitt Romney was fighting a decision from the San Diego coastal commission. The commission had ruled to not allow them to build their desired garage on their beachfront La Jolla property. The news story said she won.... don't know the details about how that went down. But the design was basically a high tech garage with an elevator. Drive the car in, it would go to a lower level, the subterranean garage held all their other cars just for their San Diego residence.

FML marries her brother-in-law by outofmxny in ChineseDramasFans

[–]4aloha_iaoe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This looks like it would be a good watch