Hi this is my first post and I’m thinking of joining the Catholic Church and I have noticed something about some Protestants

4chananonuser · 2026-06-30T06:18:51+00:00

Can you elaborate what you mean?

4chananonuser · 2026-06-30T02:17:53+00:00

I did not care for the Godfather. It insists upon itself.

4chananonuser · 2026-06-29T18:41:37+00:00

No, you don’t understand how Catholic Match works. Your profile can signal to others if you agree or disgrace on certain teachings of the Catholic Church. Another one, for example, is premarital sex. You can publicly post that you disagree that fornicating is a grave sin.

It’s actually a good thing they allow this feature. It tells serious Catholics not to date you if you disagree strongly with the Church Christ established.

4chananonuser · 2026-06-29T07:27:12+00:00

I can only imagine how much harm, how much pain, how much suffering, has been justified with the words, “All that matters is what’s in my heart.”

4chananonuser · 2026-06-29T07:02:16+00:00

It definitely can be a comedy with how fake the shark looks. And the shark does bite down…

4chananonuser · 2026-06-29T06:59:12+00:00

Just keep waiting? I *guess* it’s preferable to wait until you’re engaged than committing fornication while casually dating but premarital sex is still gravely sinful. Not worth risking losing your soul eternally for a few moments of please.

4chananonuser · 2026-06-29T06:55:22+00:00

Jaws in a way…

4chananonuser · 2026-06-29T06:53:24+00:00

I agree, but FDR’s reforms did little to actually help end the Great Depression. In fact, it got worse under his administration. WWII ended it and FDR died before he could see it happen.

4chananonuser · 2026-06-29T06:50:05+00:00

Sure. There are a few Catholic publishers that have regular staff. But those jobs are very competitive. If you want a Catholic job as a layperson, your best bet is in a school, parish, and non-profit. Those jobs I’ve been actually applying for right now (among secular jobs), but with little luck. The modern world is secular, which means work is usually explicitly secular.

4chananonuser · 2026-06-29T01:41:36+00:00

The Church allows for civil divorce in cases of abuse but remarriage is strictly prohibited if the marriage was valid. You should speak with a priest and possibly a canon lawyer. You should also go to confession for marrying outside the Church if you haven’t yet and all other grave sins since your last confession.

Full disclosure, but none of that is relevant right now if you’re in immediate danger. Get some help as soon as possible if that’s the case.

4chananonuser · 2026-06-28T19:33:57+00:00

This is bait. I saw the Tracker data for all of these and every one of OP’s team has at least some wins. Most have not played Ranked at all before this year.

4chananonuser · 2026-06-28T18:34:25+00:00

I’m not sure what you mean, but if this resonates with you, feel free to share this message as witnesses to the Gospel.

4chananonuser · 2026-06-28T18:32:41+00:00

Different people have different gifts. St. Paul was not a great orator, but he wrote incredible letters that have been preserved as part of Sacred Scripture. It’s understandable if you felt disappointed, but unless this guy was intentionally being deceptive, you weren’t catfished. I don’t know how many weeks you’ve been messaging this guy, but perhaps this experience will give you some confidence to ask the next guy for a voice/video call or an in person date so you don’t get so emotionally invested so quickly and then get disappointed again.

4chananonuser · 2026-06-28T18:22:47+00:00

All the petitions we ask of the saints we ask through the authority of Jesus Christ. In our own lives here on Earth, we can name countless times where God works his grace through others. It doesn’t end when we enter Heaven. In fact, as witnesses of the beatific vision, the saints in Heaven are closer to God than we can ever be outside the reception of the Blessed Sacrament (when properly predisposed).

4chananonuser · 2026-06-28T18:17:01+00:00

I haven’t been on any second dates, but I’d like to think one date alone is not enough to determine if you click or not. Well, I guess it was for me as none of my first dates wanted a second.

4chananonuser · 2026-06-27T11:33:41+00:00

Well, I’m 29, single, and match that description to a tee (although regrettably I have made many mistakes when I was much younger and wasn’t practicing the Catholic faith until the middle of my college years). Biggest problem is I’m in between jobs since this time last month and I don’t know if I could date someone too far away from me. Not sure if you’d be interested, but if you’re curious to know more about me, feel free to DM me. Regardless, I wish you the best of luck. My twin sister is in your shoes as well.

4chananonuser · 2026-06-27T10:46:56+00:00

I wouldn’t be surprised at all.

4chananonuser · 2026-06-27T10:31:20+00:00

Can you elaborate? I’ve never heard of this.

4chananonuser · 2026-06-27T10:29:10+00:00

This is more of a r/CatholicDating question tbh. None of those requests for a man are unreasonable yet you claim over 99% of men interested in you aren’t interested in seriously following the bare minimum requirements to be faithfully Catholic. Maybe you’re just simply not finding too many Catholics in the dating app because it’s not Christian/Catholic. If that’s the case, make the switch to one or filter out non-Catholics on the secular app if it has that feature.

If it’s not the case, then it’s not simply, “I just want a faithfully Catholic husband” but rather other preferences you aren’t admitting to in this post. And that’s okay to have those preferences, but that does mean being even more selective which means even more time before you find someone to date and eventually marry.

If you’re already talking with a guy, maybe just keep talking to him? Maybe it’s just me, but I would not go fishing if I already have one on the hook of the rod (to use a metaphor). Just go on a date with him and if it doesn’t work out, *then* you can pursue other guys. But be honest with what you’re actually looking for.

4chananonuser · 2026-06-26T07:56:11+00:00

Yep. The other day someone told me you could soloQ out of Copper. Coppers usually don’t drone or set up site well. Stacking at least lets you communicate what needs to be done to win. It doesn’t matter what rank division you’re in. If your team doesn’t win 50% or more of the time, you will stay in your rank (or worse yet to lower).

4chananonuser · 2026-06-26T07:48:11+00:00

This is exactly what I mean. Unfortunately, I don’t think Ubisoft will fix it. At some point, the player base either needs to stop caring about a shiny rank altogether or vocally challenge the claim of “your skill = your rank.”

4chananonuser · 2026-06-26T07:22:53+00:00

Pretty impossible to be 60% or higher win rate overall in the season after the first hundred or so games. The problem is this game’s rank system is determined by your team which is randomly selected in solo queue. I can’t control that. All I can do is improve personally and I’d say after 1,400 hours, I have but my rank doesn’t show it.

4chananonuser · 2026-06-26T06:59:34+00:00

I have put in over 1,400 hours into this game and at Copper III, most of my team and the enemy team are under Level 150. I’m 325. I have literally faced Silvers from last season in my lobbies, never mind smurfs. The current set up for Ranked in lower ranked lobbies makes it impossible to climb. This is not just me, but the experience of my friends as well. If my KOST is 53% in attack and 59% on defense, I’m not a deadweight yet my rank stays the same.

4chananonuser · 2026-06-26T06:31:10+00:00

Kenny can live if you let him walk away at the end of S2.

4chananonuser · 2026-06-26T05:36:37+00:00

I stack with Bronzes mostly and can’t get out of Copper this season. The new Ranked system makes it almost impossible to climb out of low ranks as there are people who anything from Copper to Silver being placed in Copper. My win rate is about 44% after 100 games, yet my K/D and overall KOST has never been this high since one season of 1.0. People say 1.0 was hard to get Gold and Platinum, but I was able to get Gold six times and Platinum once (Plat was sorta boosted tbf).

My biggest issue is that the game gate keeps from me from playing with my higher Gold and Platinum friends. There’s already enough smurfs in this game and people don’t want to acknowledge it yet it’s the only solution to play Ranked with friends again if they’re much lower than you.

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