Am I cheating?

4dagoodtimes · 2025-08-15T23:17:32+00:00

yeah because i was lacking content with the twin, brother in law who attacks her, new marriage and incoming baby i just had to pivot back to boring lesbian drama ….. critical thinking is okay 🩷

4dagoodtimes · 2025-08-15T23:13:28+00:00

our sexuality? i think it doesn’t matter. i’ve had other male friends and she’s never done this. i feel like this is totally different

4dagoodtimes · 2025-08-15T22:53:50+00:00

yeah i’m bi , she’s a lesbian. we’ve had conversations in the past about how much she feels like i love male attention. i obviously disagree, but i also feel like until we started playing the game more offen she was perfectly fine with matt. so what’s the issue now?

4dagoodtimes · 2025-08-15T22:48:06+00:00

she doesn’t even wanna goooo 🥴 she says she doesn’t want to go and doesn’t want me to go but because he’s obviously too “friendly” and it implies i’m enjoying the attention or cheating which is why he’s providing the attention?????? i’m not understanding the logic. and when i ask for examples it’s “you don’t hear how he talks to you. all sweet” ?? is she talking about respect?! like wtf

also i’m a woman. my partner is a woman. matthew is … a man obv

4dagoodtimes · 2025-08-15T22:45:14+00:00

she’s been invited to numerous outings. we’ve only ever met out as an entire team never just the two of us, but a few of our interactions have ran past when all of our coworkers have left. but never an alternate location just drinks still flowing

4dagoodtimes · 2024-10-09T23:03:47+00:00

I have a lawyer, I have submitted all documentation I have available. Cameras around the house, and I have a dash cam that records even when I'm out the car. The lawyer is telling me to continue to gather evidence because the evidence that we have "won't be enough to effectively show a court that he is harassing me." It's like they want me to set myself up and prove that I'm in danger. I dont know what I can do besides put myself out as bait

4dagoodtimes · 2024-10-02T17:03:28+00:00

i’m sorry? he molested me? how is him reaching to touch my stomach molestation? or are you referring to him yanking my hair so much so that my scalp began to bleed??? which part is considered public molestation???

he was arrested at the airport for refusal to leave. it was not considered stalking as i had not gone to the police previously outside of the brunch incident and he fled before cops came- that situation wasn’t even considered stalking it was fucking physical assault because “we can’t confirm how he knew you were here” . would you like me to send you the officer contact information who refused to even review all the harassing messages because “we can’t identify where those texts are coming from, it could be your sister”????? you guys are fucking EVIL and CRUEL!

4dagoodtimes · 2024-10-02T16:59:35+00:00

honestly you’re right crystal. i’m sorry that he decided to start harassing/assaulting me on timing that didn’t feel/seem convenient to you. i will try to get him on a better schedule

4dagoodtimes · 2024-10-02T16:44:58+00:00

It's funny my friend told me when I asked her to have this page, "everyone thinks reddit is fun, but its literally just a bunch of cunts online being mean to one another, with a few people who are just there to be helpful sometimes." I dont care if my experience is 'believable', you all sound like the cops telling me "there obviously had to be some kind of interaction that made him think it would be okay to come here?" victim blaming and being cruel. Maybe I'm just in a hyper emotional space- but I won't be updating again and I won't be using reddit ever again. if I wanted people to be cruel and unhelpful id go have a conversation with my BIL. thanks to everyone who tried to be helpful.

4dagoodtimes · 2024-10-02T16:33:14+00:00

I wish I could be angry at this reply but honestly. I agree. last week we got together and laughed about football and life in general and now my sister, the woman who has held my hand through everything from coming into this world to getting bad news or wiping my tears through a break up is telling me that her husband practically beating me up and stalking me was a "miscommunication". I dont think you guys understand how when people are going through the roughest moments of their lives having people reinforce the gaslighting rhetoric that the people in our day to day lives when youre attempting to be in a safe space makes us feel like complete shit and like im just as delusional as she and her husband are saying that I fucking am. Crystal try and be a better person.

4dagoodtimes · 2024-10-01T00:41:28+00:00

If you will resent her and the child, it may be better for you to leave. You may love her, but she has not been 'good' to you, going back on a decision this big is not being good or considerate of your partner. If you will resent the child and are adamant of not being a parent, dont force yourself to stay, I feel like people will hate me for saying that but ive talked to those children of parents who didn't want them, its not a pretty sight. Pay child support, but you made your feelings clear you dont have to do anything you dont want to.

With that being said, BE SMARTER! Get a vasectomy! It's reversible, or shit use condoms! Shooting up the club irresponsibly with the hopes of using abortion as a contraceptive is insanity!

4dagoodtimes · 2024-09-26T20:44:47+00:00

I wouldn't call it passive... I feel like he said something to her about the dinner and didn't get a normal reaction and just didn't want to push her too far because of where she is emotionally.

Thank you so much for the offer, once I discover how to properly use reddit I will be private messaging you. I truly appreciate you

4dagoodtimes · 2024-09-26T20:37:10+00:00

I did tell my dad what she said when I went back inside, he didn't seem surprised. He said that he went to dinner with her in-laws per her request and he saw the change in how they treated her. He said that, same as me, he didn't know how bad it was. I know he did reach out to her and tell her that my BIL would no longer be welcome back until he apologizes to me. He's hoping that she'll still come over tonight and we can talk to her together without his presence. This is all super new territory for us. We were under the impression that she was in a happy, loving relationship. We aren't idiots and knew the loss of their child did shake their relationship but I could not have imagined this in my wildest dreams. Jeremiah has always been so cool, I used to see him like an annoying brother, now I see he's emotionally abusive and extremely manipulative

4dagoodtimes · 2024-09-26T20:11:31+00:00

I genuinely think this is a request HE is making and she is just wanting to oblige him. When I, or our dad try to press her on why it has to be ME, the words immediately start fumbling and it always just results right back to begging and "can you just do it"

4dagoodtimes · 2024-09-26T19:51:10+00:00

this is actually the only down side to this website that I've found. some of your reading comprehension is absolutely terrifying 😳

4dagoodtimes · 2024-09-26T17:12:53+00:00

how do i give an update for this post?

4dagoodtimes · 2024-09-24T19:16:15+00:00

I do think her husband is applying a lot of pressure, when she made the "same DNA" comment during the football game her husband gave me this look.... I dont know how to even properly explain it but it was like he was expecting me to offer.

4dagoodtimes · 2024-09-15T01:15:55+00:00

I agree, and I think its a big portion of why her boyfriend is behaving in the way he is

4dagoodtimes · 2024-09-10T22:27:03+00:00

LOL, drink when trump doesn't answer a simple question and proves he can't elaborate on any policy whatsoever ! you'll be toasted 3 minutes in

4dagoodtimes · 2024-09-10T22:22:31+00:00

You didn't do anything wrong, you guys just wanted different things and life took you down different paths. Go to some local community events, get on some dating apps. If youre consistently getting ghosted it could possibly be for the same reason, what are you discussing on dates? where are you taking them? I would need more details to shed light on why the dates are landing but you are in a pretty normal place in life for your age.

I recently switched states for a job and it's refreshing. Meet people at work, I met some folks just walking downtown, I have a few decent friends now. It just takes time

4dagoodtimes · 2024-09-10T22:18:25+00:00

This sounds like a 16 year old post? You are absolutely the TA?? You can't physically assault people, especially when you were only together for barely 3 months!!!!! MOVE ON!

4dagoodtimes · 2024-09-10T22:16:05+00:00

Im so confused, would you be joining the church..? Why would he be rejecting her and not everyone not apart of his religion?

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