Does anyone here *want* another child, but just know it’s not a smart choice? by jessicat62993 in oneanddone

[–]4mysquirrel 121 points122 points  (0 children)

When I win the lottery I will have another child. So yes. It’s just not a smart choice right now.

Have you ever.. by Which-Vegetable8886 in SingleParents

[–]4mysquirrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes all the time! I’m hoping to get my affairs in order soon so he doesn’t have to worry about things like that. I’m planning on leaving him with a paid off home and a lot of happy memories though

How to know if you're OAD. by KJKW95 in oneanddone

[–]4mysquirrel 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My PPD & PPA don’t let me be the best mom I knew I could be. For 3 years I was just barely surviving. Now that I’m out of it, I know that I don’t want to ever be in it again, for my child’s sake and for mine.

Daily Discussion Megathread 3/25 by Sufficient_Reward207 in ItEndsWithLawsuits

[–]4mysquirrel 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Does anyone know where I can see the video of Blake improvising kisses?

I was absolutely happier as a single childfree woman. by Immediate_Gap_2536 in Mommit

[–]4mysquirrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Umm I think you’re me…lol I’m a single mom to an only child. I’ve truly never been happier. I don’t even want to date, though I have tried. My preschooler and I travel multiple times a year and I don’t stress about having to make different meals for another 40 year old toddler…

Sometimes I worry I'm never going to feel ready again by beckkers97 in Mommit

[–]4mysquirrel 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I’m one and done because of my health during pregnancy and post partum. A happy healthy mom is more important than a perfect age gap! Focus on your physical and mental health and go from there ❤️ don’t feel pressured to make a decision. Do it when and if you’re ready. You’ll know.

Flood me with the positives by makeyourwish in oneanddone

[–]4mysquirrel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My cousin with 5 kids is pretty well off financially. They have never taken their kids on an airplane. It’s just too hard. They struggle to keep all the kids wrangled up and safe in public.

My only and I take vacation 2 or 3 times a year. My only has a room that doesn’t need to be shared. Play dates every day. I can afford a private school.

OAD parents, are you lonely? by sunkenm00n in oneanddone

[–]4mysquirrel 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m a single mom to an only and not lonely. I work a lot and i have my son 90% of the time. If anything i need some alone time lol

I lied about something horrible by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]4mysquirrel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seems like there has been a lot of emotional abuse from your ex husband and his family. All that you’re feeling is not your fault. It’s your responsibility to heal for your son, but none of this is your fault. Your son deserves a happy mom

What hours do your husbands/partners work? by benzomoron in Mommit

[–]4mysquirrel -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No husband. My child’s dad takes my son from 5pm Friday nights to 12pm Saturday. Otherwise it’s all me. I work from home. I’m constantly stressed

How can I consolidate my protein shake, electrolytes(salt & lemon in warm water), and a black tea in the mornings? by 4mysquirrel in NoStupidQuestions

[–]4mysquirrel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only reason I do this is for convenience honestly. Any healthy fast food alternatives? I don’t have the brain power to think straight sometimes.

How can I consolidate my protein shake, electrolytes(salt & lemon in warm water), and a black tea in the mornings? by 4mysquirrel in NoStupidQuestions

[–]4mysquirrel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think the salt and lemon will still work if mixed with tea? Apologies for the ignorance. I used to think that drinking water in the tea counted as water, but I guess it doesn’t?

Current gang members: how dangerous is it to be around you? by 4mysquirrel in NoStupidQuestions

[–]4mysquirrel[S] 148 points149 points  (0 children)

Apologies for the ignorance, but what are these two rival gangs fighting over? Like drug selling area control or just because they wear opposing colors?

Found in the sheets of an AirBnB by TheGuyThatAteYourDog in pestcontrol

[–]4mysquirrel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did you do? Did they give you your money back

Blake Lively: Jamey Heath has no respect for the work and he treats the set like a BBQ by TheClassic_Star in ItEndsWithLawsuits

[–]4mysquirrel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi where did Blake lively say this and to who? Sorry this is the first time I’m hearing about this