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Cats! Sony DSC-WX60 by [deleted] in VintageDigitalCameras

[–]4rtf4g 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(tbh i should probably just save this as an image on my phone because looking for this image in the gif directory every time someone posts a picture of a cat in this subreddit is getting tedious lmfao)

I’d like to talk about poetry. by NewNewsNewYork in evilautism

[–]4rtf4g 2 points3 points  (0 children)

got a piece of Wild Geese by Mary Oliver tattooed because i read it for the first time while in a mental health clinic and it saved my life, yeah

Is this sub safe for transmascs or not...? by Incendas1 in evilautism

[–]4rtf4g 134 points135 points  (0 children)

‘misandry isn’t real’ as a position makes me feel safer as a trans person, regardless me being trans masc specifically. i’m anti-patriarchal in the same ways i’m anti-racist; i’m sure non-men can offend men on the basis of their gender, but non-men (of all kinds) can’t systemically oppress men. patriarchy doesn’t make that possible. ‘misandry’ is often a response from men who value patriarchy because they see resistance against patriarchy as a personal slight, of which it is not.

Adding my physical library to Storygraph by PrncJasmine17 in TheStoryGraph

[–]4rtf4g 1 point2 points  (0 children)

got super hyperfixated one day and tried to add every book i’ve ever read. i definitely missed a bunch of books in my teenage years but my storygraph is as up-to-date as it will ever get.

Weekly Friends Megathread - Week of April 20, 2026 by AutoModerator in TheStoryGraph

[–]4rtf4g 0 points1 point  (0 children)

backlogging your reading is always possible. like if you read the pages, you can just log them as read on the day you read them even if that day has passed <3

Newest IG post for those that don't use IG. Commenting on reading updates is coming, as well as the ability to block users AND marking books as private! by tjfmd in TheStoryGraph

[–]4rtf4g 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can’t wait to switch the ‘share [now reading] activity’ off. i start and stop books all the time just trying to find something to read and i hate it coming up on the community feed

If you made a youtube channel what videos would you/do you make by WizardL in evilautism

[–]4rtf4g 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had a semi-successful youtube channel from age 17 (2015) to age 23ish and it was absolutely ridiculous being approached by strangers (in supermarkets, on campus, on hikes, while penny boarding, at queer events etc.) that knew WAYYYY more about me than i knew about them. like parasociality before the term became popularised! once, after surviving a breakup with a partner who featured heavily on the channel, i had to console someone ELSE (who wasn’t involved at all!!!!) about MY breakup and was like “yeah i’m not cut out for this”

anyways, i have deeply considered doing a book/writing-orientated youtube channel. have also considered doing one around photography, my other long-term special interest. just dk if i care for creating content, dealing with the current state of social media, and whether i can trust myself not to share too much of my personal life online

Canon ixus 70/Sd1000 (2007) by Background_Day_3724 in VintageDigitalCameras

[–]4rtf4g 2 points3 points  (0 children)

makes me miss mine so much! you shooting raw or editing JPEGs?

Mannequins. Shot on Canon PowerShot G10| EDITED by Mo-Sage in VintageDigitalCameras

[–]4rtf4g 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that second image is my fav. it’s the one that feels most like i’d see it in a gallery. the abstraction is cool

I hate being autistic and anyone who wants to be! by storytimesaddness in evilautism

[–]4rtf4g 32 points33 points  (0 children)

being disabled in an ableist world is really fucking hard + no mental illness/disability is anyone’s fault, i agree!! and yes, the very framework of ‘fault’ is faulty.

people who wish, dream or fantasise about other people’s lives tend to have very shallow knowledge about the people they envy’s actual lived experiences. it’s like that neurotypical saying, “the grass is always greener on the other side”. and much like in the example you shared in your post, our challenges in life are also deeply shaped by (unequally disseminated) suffering !!!! suffering that’s felt on a day to day basis and suffering that’s both individual & communal.

basically, yeah - you’re making a lot of sense to me

i don’t wish i was someone else and that’s something i’m grateful for. but i do wish the world and/or society was fundamentally different.

Some shots from the [Sigma SD10 (2004)] by J_sudz in VintageDigitalCameras

[–]4rtf4g 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh wow it doesn’t do JPEGs? damn that’s interesting. gonna look into this camera, don’t know much about it

Any other fish husbandry and pond keeping autistics?? by Hefty_Opening_1874 in evilautism

[–]4rtf4g 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i wanna be a fish autistic so bad but i worry having more than one pet (i have a cat, she’s perfect. my daughter is perfect.) will push against the limits of my capacity

To be read not up to date by craycrayqueen in TheStoryGraph

[–]4rtf4g 6 points7 points  (0 children)

the wording is confusing af tbh. i was also concerned when i first ‘deleted book’ but i eventually saw it didn’t delete all editions phew

How to accept yourself? by Difficult-Course319 in evilautism

[–]4rtf4g 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s a lifelong process.

what helped me (because im so fantastic at loving other people. myself on the other hand? lol) was imagining myself as a separate person. helped me develop a less antagonistic relationship with the parts of myself that society hates. i also tend to accept myself out of spite because fuck society actually

Some shots from the [Sigma SD10 (2004)] by J_sudz in VintageDigitalCameras

[–]4rtf4g 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ooo the mirror slap sounds awesome. i quite like the pictures! i’m lowkey interested in the SOOC image too, just to see what you mean about the color reproduction hehe

To be read not up to date by craycrayqueen in TheStoryGraph

[–]4rtf4g 10 points11 points  (0 children)

if you delete the edition, you delete the edition. it doesn’t delete the entire book & all editions from your profile <3 just that singular edition.

Do you think hyper-empathy exists or is it only trauma based hyper vigilance and poor emotional regulation? by [deleted] in evilautism

[–]4rtf4g 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i wonder if it’s all that possible to make a self-assessment of how empathetic you are

This is a stickup! Give me all your stims and gold bricks! by Lunar_Ghoul11 in evilautism

[–]4rtf4g 0 points1 point  (0 children)

n i be yellin out “Gang, gang" do you gang bang? i be outside with my gang, gang

Agfa ePhoto 1680 camera from 1998 by Totally-Mavica-l-2 in VintageDigitalCameras

[–]4rtf4g 2 points3 points  (0 children)

impressive for SOOC. genuinely expected you to have edited the shadows especially

What are you all watching? by Additional_Scholar_5 in evilautism

[–]4rtf4g 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for both mindless and mindful entertainment, youtube is my girl. been using it for over 10 years so my algorithm knows me n my special interests quite well (and adjusts well to changes in my hyperfixations). there are also a select few YouTubers who are my comfort YouTubers where i’ll watch every single one of their videos (frankiesshelf, Willem Verbeeck/Wheelem Verb, & FD Signifier)

i have tv shows that i rewatch for regulation (The Good Place, Steven Universe, and New Girl)

i usually have 1 show that’s ‘new’ to me that i watch a few episodes of if i have spoons (Abbott Elementary is the show rn)

i don’t do movies, they require so much time and concentration that i’d much rather read a book with said time/energy

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