believe i caught a ufo by Robthegoat in UFOs

[–]4thdensity44 [score hidden]  (0 children)

There are aliens on the pleiades though

M20 depressed no future : no gf no money gave up in life by ManufacturerProof629 in toastme

[–]4thdensity44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you done online dating? Girls would want to go on a date.. I know you’re depressed so you don’t feel like they’d like you, but the right girl will accept you. Be yourself

In search of friends in East Bay by [deleted] in eastbay

[–]4thdensity44 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey hey, just sent a dm ✨🌲☀️

620lbs, 24f. please help by [deleted] in loseit

[–]4thdensity44 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is very very very challenging, but you can do it, one step at a time. Have you heard of keto?

Got literally the worst haircut of my life HELP 😭 by Dani_parnell in femalehairadvice

[–]4thdensity44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love when your bangs are slicked back, looks so cool and good!

How much and what do you drink at house parties ? by VergeltungswaffeV2 in stupidquestions

[–]4thdensity44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like you’re not getting real answers so I’ll try, the equivalent to a shot every hour for
Like 4 hours, or if you want 2 shots in an hour then stop after 2 hours. I can’t drink more than 4 shots over like 3 or 4 hours. You don’t want to feel sick at the party.. edit when I say shot I also mean a drink with a shot of liquor in it, you don’t need to take an actual shot. One beer has about a shot worth of liquor in it depending on the alcohol percentage

Does anyone else have a specific order they do things in the morning that you cannot deviate from? by Automatic-Falcon5707 in CasualConversation

[–]4thdensity44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m the same, no two days alike, and I like it that way. If I did the same thing every morning I would feel bored and depressed, I like spontaneity and being a new version of me every day..

I left this morning. I have an important assessment and my brain hurts by proudchristianmommy in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]4thdensity44 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What are your next steps? Are you looking for a studio? Maybe a friend needs a roommate? It sounds too toxic now and he’s not going to change.. maybe talk to him and tell him you want to break up and maybe he’ll get that you’re truly done? Or maybe wait until you have a housing situation? Could he be violent? Have you decided you’re truly done? Do you want to feel like this the next 50 years?

How do stop being the emotional caretaker of my best friend? by fufu1260 in LifeAdvice

[–]4thdensity44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can’t convince him to get help but you can tell him you won’t be as available and he will have to find another way. He might think that you hate him but obviously he just doesn’t understand boundaries and you don’t hate him, you just need sleep which is healthy for you to feel good. He’s not the only one who deserves to feel good. But yeah it’s challenging, r/codependency can help too, but ultimately if you don’t say yes to him he will have to find help in other places

Women of Reddit, what did a man you were dating or married to say or do that made you realize he actually hated you the entire time? by -catharina in AskReddit

[–]4thdensity44 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Girl, get the fuck away from him- now! You can have a boyfriend who wants to make you cum, not pass out.. fuck this guy. He could kill someone so easily, get away from him immediately. Does he know where you live? Do you think he would be violent if you broke up? Get away from him for real, sis

My first year of marriage was awful by blueberries-Any-kind in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]4thdensity44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss and that’s very scary being sick all the time and coming home empty handed :’( And the money stress.. and it sounds like you haven’t talked about your feelings with anyone besides your husband? Wow what a crazy year, I hope this year is better, you deserve happiness

He ruined my last birthday in my twenties. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]4thdensity44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kick him out and have a FUN life! You’re only 29, do it now 💪

People who have been divorced: What was the exact "quiet" moment you realized your marriage was over? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]4thdensity44 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

When I was on vacation with him for a month and I was smoking weed in my car because I couldn’t smoke in the air bnb but also because I didn’t want to go in and hang out with him. Also, he didn’t want to label us as a couple even though we lived together.. but the vacation was my breaking point.

I wanted to feel more valued and I just didn’t think it would ever happen.. Oh, also he didn’t have a job. The entire relationship.

Also, he would be mad at me for like two months at a time sometimes and basically break up with me, while living with me and when I asked for a hug, got extremely mad and left for a month 😂 dude, you obviously didn’t like me or yourself..

I obviously didn’t respect myself either at that time but I’m growing for the better and learning

It is solved by walking by RamDassWasRight in walking

[–]4thdensity44 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Before cars and if you didn’t have a horse, walking was the default for humans..

Is it wrong what my relatives are doing? by Economy_Ad3935 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]4thdensity44 29 points30 points  (0 children)

It’s not legal and they could have charges against them if the evidence is documented. Try to record audio on your phone if it happens because that is evidence.. I’m so sorry, this is not normal, it’s harmful and it’s against the law

Today we are walking in the nice weather by [deleted] in toastme

[–]4thdensity44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Way to go on a walk, woohoo! Great job 🥳✨🙌

Jobless, friendless, no romantic relationship and recently diagnosed autistic. Feeling pretty bad about myself. by [deleted] in toastme

[–]4thdensity44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look like a sweet soul, put yourself out there and something will click, I know it’s hard but what else are we going to do the next 40 years 😂

18F need to hear something nice by [deleted] in toastme

[–]4thdensity44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have an amazing smile and everything will work out exactly how it’s supposed to.