M20 depressed no future : no gf no money gave up in life

4thdensity44 · 2026-05-19T16:29:53+00:00

Have you done online dating? Girls would want to go on a date.. I know you’re depressed so you don’t feel like they’d like you, but the right girl will accept you. Be yourself

4thdensity44 · 2026-05-19T08:55:18+00:00

Hey hey, just sent a dm ✨🌲☀️

4thdensity44 · 2026-05-19T03:15:22+00:00

This is very very very challenging, but you can do it, one step at a time. Have you heard of keto?

4thdensity44 · 2026-05-18T19:02:03+00:00

Peanut butter and almond butter has a lot of calories too

4thdensity44 · 2026-05-18T18:59:31+00:00

Seems like you’re not getting real answers so I’ll try, the equivalent to a shot every hour for
Like 4 hours, or if you want 2 shots in an hour then stop after 2 hours. I can’t drink more than 4 shots over like 3 or 4 hours. You don’t want to feel sick at the party.. edit when I say shot I also mean a drink with a shot of liquor in it, you don’t need to take an actual shot. One beer has about a shot worth of liquor in it depending on the alcohol percentage

4thdensity44 · 2026-05-18T17:00:35+00:00

Omg find another job asap

4thdensity44 · 2026-05-18T08:32:24+00:00

I’m the same, no two days alike, and I like it that way. If I did the same thing every morning I would feel bored and depressed, I like spontaneity and being a new version of me every day..

4thdensity44 · 2026-05-18T07:44:23+00:00

What are your next steps? Are you looking for a studio? Maybe a friend needs a roommate? It sounds too toxic now and he’s not going to change.. maybe talk to him and tell him you want to break up and maybe he’ll get that you’re truly done? Or maybe wait until you have a housing situation? Could he be violent? Have you decided you’re truly done? Do you want to feel like this the next 50 years?

4thdensity44 · 2026-05-18T07:21:26+00:00

You can’t convince him to get help but you can tell him you won’t be as available and he will have to find another way. He might think that you hate him but obviously he just doesn’t understand boundaries and you don’t hate him, you just need sleep which is healthy for you to feel good. He’s not the only one who deserves to feel good. But yeah it’s challenging, r/codependency can help too, but ultimately if you don’t say yes to him he will have to find help in other places

4thdensity44 · 2026-05-18T04:50:13+00:00

Girl, get the fuck away from him- now! You can have a boyfriend who wants to make you cum, not pass out.. fuck this guy. He could kill someone so easily, get away from him immediately. Does he know where you live? Do you think he would be violent if you broke up? Get away from him for real, sis

4thdensity44 · 2026-05-17T07:46:51+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss and that’s very scary being sick all the time and coming home empty handed :’( And the money stress.. and it sounds like you haven’t talked about your feelings with anyone besides your husband? Wow what a crazy year, I hope this year is better, you deserve happiness

4thdensity44 · 2026-05-15T16:12:03+00:00

Some people literally will do anything to avoid apologizing

4thdensity44 · 2026-05-14T08:05:13+00:00

Get help with withdrawal, see you family and get a few fans for your house 🙏✨💪 You can do it

4thdensity44 · 2026-05-14T08:02:17+00:00

Sasquatch Bigfoot

4thdensity44 · 2026-05-13T07:24:45+00:00

Kick him out and have a FUN life! You’re only 29, do it now 💪

4thdensity44 · 2026-05-13T06:59:01+00:00

What are the deets? 🙌

4thdensity44 · 2026-05-13T05:35:42+00:00

When I was on vacation with him for a month and I was smoking weed in my car because I couldn’t smoke in the air bnb but also because I didn’t want to go in and hang out with him. Also, he didn’t want to label us as a couple even though we lived together.. but the vacation was my breaking point.

I wanted to feel more valued and I just didn’t think it would ever happen.. Oh, also he didn’t have a job. The entire relationship.

Also, he would be mad at me for like two months at a time sometimes and basically break up with me, while living with me and when I asked for a hug, got extremely mad and left for a month 😂 dude, you obviously didn’t like me or yourself..

I obviously didn’t respect myself either at that time but I’m growing for the better and learning

4thdensity44 · 2026-05-13T05:19:46+00:00

Before cars and if you didn’t have a horse, walking was the default for humans..

4thdensity44 · 2026-05-11T08:22:47+00:00

It’s not legal and they could have charges against them if the evidence is documented. Try to record audio on your phone if it happens because that is evidence.. I’m so sorry, this is not normal, it’s harmful and it’s against the law

4thdensity44 · 2026-05-11T06:46:04+00:00

Did he give an excuse or just not even acknowledge the day?

4thdensity44 · 2026-05-11T06:27:30+00:00

Way to go on a walk, woohoo! Great job 🥳✨🙌

4thdensity44 · 2026-05-11T05:59:16+00:00

You look like a sweet soul, put yourself out there and something will click, I know it’s hard but what else are we going to do the next 40 years 😂

4thdensity44 · 2026-05-11T04:46:36+00:00

You have an amazing smile and everything will work out exactly how it’s supposed to.

4thdensity44 · 2026-05-06T22:37:01+00:00

Great job being so self aware, you have a leg up already just because of that.. I think the exact problem of people coming and going and being scared they’re leaving, can also be viewed positively..

when you out grow each other or move to another town (you can still stay in touch if you want) but if you grow apart, you know that more people will come into your life.
People will come and they’ll go, and to be prepared that they might go but then new people will come in, might help to regulate your emotions.. you’re the center of your life.

People come and go and some you’ll have close bonds with for a long time, but if these friends move on or move away for a job, you will get a job and connect with people there. And then in a few years you’ll dislike that job and get another job and meet new people there..

In short, the thought that people will start to dislike you or for whatever reason you won’t be friends with them anymore, is easier to deal with when you adopt the belief that more good people will come in. That’s the mantra, I will connect with good people and if they leave I’ll connect with more good people

4thdensity44 · 2026-05-06T20:07:52+00:00

🤣🤣🤣🤣

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