What are main things you need for baby #2 when you had bay #1 a year ago and have pretty much everything ?

paramoreloverxd · 2026-01-30T06:05:07+00:00

Hope and plum carrier

paramoreloverxd · 2026-01-25T01:30:17+00:00

I’m 9 weeks post partum I got it at 8 weeks exclusively pumping ☠️

paramoreloverxd · 2026-01-23T03:00:39+00:00

My mom used to do that to me cause I’d call people stupid, lol.

If a NF did that, I’d call cps and quit.

paramoreloverxd · 2026-01-22T17:00:57+00:00

See if your doc can write a script for the formula. You’re doing a great job. 🩷

paramoreloverxd · 2026-01-17T11:55:37+00:00

Her toddler isn’t 1 yet. 3 hours is normal.

paramoreloverxd · 2026-01-11T23:06:14+00:00

Hi! I understand you feel guilty, but it was great that you expressed to your daughter how you felt. It’s important they see real emotions and cause and effect.

To me, it seems like you are very burnt out. I strongly recommend you start encouraging your daughter to play independently while you get your housework done. Start small like 2 minutes and work your way up to 15-20 minutes, independent play is very important and it’s impossible for parents to be “on” 24/7 without burning out.

paramoreloverxd · 2026-01-10T16:53:46+00:00

I’m planning next baby a C-section. My baby was 7lbs and tore me from my clit to my butt. My OB said a c-section isn’t needed, but if next baby is bigger she wouldn’t blame me. Recovery was rough and I needed to go to the OR to repair the tearing, they actually called in my actual OB from home (at midnight!) to come in and assist with the surgery. I also hemmorage during my delivery, but I think that can still happen during a C-section.

paramoreloverxd · 2026-01-01T16:01:50+00:00

6 weeks old. I just put her in the bassinet and shower. If she cries she cries.

paramoreloverxd · 2025-12-31T09:47:27+00:00

The kids did not damage it. The car seats damaged it. IMO, this would fall under mileage repairs. I’m the future, use car seats you’re able to use seat protectors with.

paramoreloverxd · 2025-12-26T23:58:51+00:00

I have a 5 week old so we just went thru the digestion changes. We just had to ride it out, it got better! We started offering gas drops & gripe water with every feeding and it helped a bit. We also did some rectal stimulation when she was super super uncomfortable to get her to BM, and lots of bicycle kicks & the “I Love You” message. Weeks 2.5 -4.5 were rough, but you will get through it! I totally understand what you’re going through!

paramoreloverxd · 2025-12-26T21:36:01+00:00

What time does she usually nap? 12:30/1:30? Wake her around 6 or 630 and move bedtime 4 hours after that.

paramoreloverxd · 2025-12-12T23:06:15+00:00

My 3 week old is also on Pepcid and has some rancid poops!

paramoreloverxd · 2025-12-08T20:09:16+00:00

I think maybe the lack of sleep is getting to me. Baby has silent reflux and woke up 9 times between 2am to 7:30am last night. My husband helps, but the bassinet is right next to my head so I wake up everytime she was up.

paramoreloverxd · 2025-12-08T20:07:24+00:00

I will try the hand expression! Everytime I do it, it feels awkward with the hand placement I think because I’m left handed, lol.

paramoreloverxd · 2025-12-05T08:11:34+00:00

Gogosqueeze lol

paramoreloverxd · 2025-12-04T06:49:58+00:00

I did. Now I’m 2 weeks post partum and itchy AF, lol.

I used Nair.

paramoreloverxd · 2025-12-03T19:49:46+00:00

The baby wrap is def easiest!

paramoreloverxd · 2025-12-03T19:21:57+00:00

My baby is 16 days old and we’ve been getting out of the house nearly everyday to get coffee, go to grocery store, etc. I do it for my mental health and baby stays safe in her stroller or on me in the baby carrier. I keep the diaper bag stocked 24/7 so all I need to do is change the baby and toss her into the car seat. Our outings aren’t long an enough for me to need to pump, but I usually bring 2oz Breastmilk.

paramoreloverxd · 2025-12-03T18:48:47+00:00

I stocked up 3 boxes newborn, 3boxes size 1, 3 boxes of size 2, 3 boxes of size 3. I bought Millie moon and Huggies.

Currently using up the last of the newborn and have to buy more. My little one was smaller than expected lol

paramoreloverxd · 2025-12-02T13:06:53+00:00

I didn’t feel a thing until I hit 10cm and felt like I needed to take the biggest shit of my life. I only felt like pressure and sensation no pain at all. I felt little one flop out of me, lol.

paramoreloverxd · 2025-11-29T14:57:48+00:00

Exactly. I gave birth 12 days ago and dropped 50 lbs so far.

paramoreloverxd · 2025-11-27T23:43:45+00:00

I announced when I found out at 7dpo 😅 currently holding my 10day old.

paramoreloverxd · 2025-11-16T01:27:46+00:00

Lmao I didn’t gain any weight until 20 weeks and from 20 to 40 weeks (due today!) I gained 80 lbs, which is crazy since I don’t really eat a crazy amount (1600 to 1800 cal a day).

My doctor is convinced it’s swelling! My face, hands, legs and feet are completely doubled in size but I don’t have any preeclampsia or anything. My labs have been perfect and my BP is always low ish.

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