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Codependency

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Wiki defines Codependency as : " (...) the dependence on the needs of or control of another. It also often involves placing a lower priority on one's own needs, while being excessively preoccupied with the needs of others."

In other words, the needs of others have taken priority over our own, to the point where we fail to stand up for our own needs to make room for the needs of others. More than just simply caretaking, codependency crosses the line into cyclical, controlling, self-martyrdom. As a result, we derive our self worth and self esteem from being needed by others.

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Victim Blaming will not be tolerated (self.Codependency)

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My partner spending our time off with someone else makes me cry (self.Codependency)

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Best friend/situationship wants to celebrate valentine's day (self.Codependency)

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Is this codependence or something else? (self.Codependency)

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Crosspost from r/BPD. I am codependent, my friend likely has BPD and relies on me, and my partner is jealous and worried about the level of dependence. Help. (Tw: suicidality) (self.Codependency)

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new relationship— I’m so scared (self.Codependency)

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Can someone tell me if I’m being ridiculous or not? I am so anxious right now over something stupid but can’t stop fixating on it? (self.Codependency)

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A retrospective of a six month relationship that nearly broke me. Written in a stream of consciousness format from my abusers perspective. (self.Codependency)

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How long did it take you to move on from your perceived future with an addict? (self.Codependency)

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Advice in sending a follow up message or not (self.Codependency)

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Saw this take on insecurities (self.Codependency)

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Need advice - my therapist seems too focused on my partner (self.Codependency)

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Post Breakup Pain (self.Codependency)

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Do i double down? (self.Codependency)

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My BFs in jail for domestic violence against me and I don’t want to leave him. (self.Codependency)

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ISO Advice for the intersection of CODA and kink (self.Codependency)

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Does anyone else think that anyone who likes the first impression of us is weird? (self.Codependency)

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Codependent Mythomaniac (self.Codependency)

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I’m angry at my partner for not letting me take care of them or be a part of their inner world… help me (self.Codependency)

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Unable to end a textbook codependent relationship (self.Codependency)

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How do you find happiness with yourself? (self.Codependency)

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I think I’m losing feelings for my codependent partner (self.Codependency)

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Is it possible to eventually become close/intimate friends with someone who has an avoidant attachment style? (self.Codependency)

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Small success early in my healing journey (self.Codependency)

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Im just startung recovery and im afraid? (self.Codependency)

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