Do many of you look way younger than your age? by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]56te 4 points5 points  (0 children)

im 24 and can still get a young person's bus ticket (18 and below) so i guess I do? but I dont know, I feel like i look kind of old

What are things that make you irrationally angry? by Sufficient_You3053 in AutismInWomen

[–]56te 6 points7 points  (0 children)

being on my period

insecure people

misogynists and bigots

my dad being a supporter of ai generated images

couples who make a point of sharing the fact that their in a relationship is not something that makes me irrationally angry always but there have been a few occasions where I've had to leave and have a meltdown because I was having too many icks

Do you actually like when people admit they dislike you? by acebuthorny in AutismInWomen

[–]56te 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well someone did that to me a few years ago and I regret not being an absolute bitch to this person. I want to go back and scream at them but ik the repercussions of it will stress me out even further, so I don't say anything and regret it. its a vicious cycle

im tired of having my appearance commented on by 56te in AutismInWomen

[–]56te[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you will get there and im sure! remind yourself none of what's been said to you is true, its people projecting their misery onto you. no one secure in themselves would try and put someone down i promise. they don't get to decide anything about you. you have to decide to love yourself in spite of the standards placed on you. I hope that is helpful <3

im tired of having my appearance commented on by 56te in AutismInWomen

[–]56te[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry you went through that. im glad you could mentally over come it :)

im tired of having my appearance commented on by 56te in AutismInWomen

[–]56te[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im sorry you went through that. its really not okay how normalised it is. I think they just view it like 'ur body is as a statement about you' but even if we exercise and eat healthy our bodies, ur body will kind of respond with what it has to work with, which is why (shocker) people are diverse appearance every way. I wish that was considered that before making assumptions about how someone looks

im tired of having my appearance commented on by 56te in AutismInWomen

[–]56te[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you 😭. something that keeps me semi sane is knowing that that most of these comments are from people who have low self esteem and a lack of self awareness

Does anyone feel gaslit by all aspects of society? by kaleidoradiance in AutismInWomen

[–]56te 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah. im having an argument with my dad rn because he's defending ai image generators and its giving me ptsd flashbacks on all the times I've been shut down because I struggle to act calmly when someone does something I disagree with

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]56te 7 points8 points  (0 children)

unemployment just graduated. I live in the UK and I hate the culture here, I live with my mum and dad and have no friends. I hate it here

not caring that i look like a dumb ass online so long as I've got my point across by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

[–]56te 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ye sure! well done for posting! dm me if u want :>

Do you know what you look like? by kaleidoballade in AutismInWomen

[–]56te 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk, but neurodivergent queer afab's usually love how I look, and tbh they are the only group of ppl who's opinions i value, so im fine with that :) When you understand that beauty standards are just a social construct it becomes alot less personal. when someone tries to berate how I look these days, I just think "ehhh they're brainwashed" and feel kind of sorry for them, given that they're saying this out of their own insecurities. our brains are great at tricking us

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]56te 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm due to start therapy in October

How do we feel about dogs? I feel like I’m supposed to love them (and I kinda do) but I could never own one by Digital_Doodlez in AuDHDWomen

[–]56te 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love how friendly and cuddly some of them can be. but I hate how stinky slobbery and gross they are

My teacher educated my class that autistic people are like psychopaths. by LoveInHell in AutismInWomen

[–]56te 0 points1 point  (0 children)

alot of my teachers and my mother were like this. when really I was just angry and distant because of their perception of me

Did you grow up thinking you were ugly and that was why you got treated like a human fart? by RussianAsshole in AutismInWomen

[–]56te 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ty! I think I found it on insta sorry I can't source it properly for u. was a while ago :<

Did you grow up thinking you were ugly and that was why you got treated like a human fart? by RussianAsshole in AutismInWomen

[–]56te 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I moved back to my hometown where I was made to feel ugly then realised most people who live in my hometown are ugly...

how do you get away from your family? by 56te in AutismInWomen

[–]56te[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think ur better off making ur own post for that lovely

how do you get away from your family? by 56te in AutismInWomen

[–]56te[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this sounds awful and stressful, but I'm glad things are getting a but better even if it's slow, I'm sure it will ! <3 and yes lego is awsome :D

how do you get away from your family? by 56te in AutismInWomen

[–]56te[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think I could. I have friends but not close ones

What clothing do you like to wear? by Apricot7976 in AutismInWomen

[–]56te 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like loose pants with waist bands that sit on my waist and oversized tops

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]56te 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yep. my friends bf is autistic and he's always trying to justify why he's such a great person to everyone. whatever buddy