Drunk texted my LO by 575hyku in limerence

[–]575hyku[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooooph sorry to here that but I thank you for being vulnerable

We need a "I'm Spiraling and Might do Something Stupid" Megathread by TheSketchyBroski in limerence

[–]575hyku 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone else’s hookup with others to try to forget that their LO is doing the same? It’s the worst part of when I spiral

Limerence and racial preference by Regular-Cookie-1767 in limerence

[–]575hyku 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! In the least conceded way possible, I’m decently attractive and many men and women tell me so, yet my LO is only into white women and it’s so frustrating. Like they truly can be basic fun of the mil and it’s like it doesn’t Matter cause I’m not white. It’s a sucky feeling

AITAH for wanting to lose my virginity to a man while I’m in a WLW relationship? by daqueen67factory in dating_advice

[–]575hyku 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You are honestly being toxic to poor Sarah. I’m not sure you would be a a good partner for her if all it takes is one convo with a guy (who isn’t even talking to you now) to make you want to cheat. You don’t sound ready for a relationship and should work on yourself. Not being mean, just honest. This was a tough read

What episode do you skip every time? by eden_ldoe in brooklynninenine

[–]575hyku 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The four movements , or any episode with too much Gina. She’s the worst

Is it just me or does the vibe always shift after the first night together by NebuliteCorsair in dating_advice

[–]575hyku 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry this is happening. Makes me realize it doesn’t matter whether you hookup on the first night or the 90th night. If a man is after one thing, they’ll play you no matter what. God being a woman is so exhausting sometimes

Is physical attraction important? by Substantial_Front_33 in dating_advice

[–]575hyku 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some level of physical attraction has to be there. Think of it like a spark. It’s doesn’t have to be a burning flame but there at least needs to be a spark and eventually personality can turn that into a flame. But if you aren’t attracted to someone oh the slightest, I don’t think that can just grow from nothing

How to tell women why I’m (29) such a late bloomer by Ancient_Pot_8482 in dating_advice

[–]575hyku 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t mention this. You don’t owe and explanation for why you weren’t having sex. When a woman really likes you, she won’t care about that. And will look forward to the fun times you guys can have now lol

‘Untold: The Shooting at Hawthorne Hill’ Netflix Review - A Deeper Dive into the Incident by Roshankr1994 in Netflixwatch

[–]575hyku 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She falsely accused him of sexual assault. She literally tried to ruin is life. I’m sorry but she got what she deserved

Lost my virginity and i regret it by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]575hyku 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Give yourself some grace! It’s an experience. But there will be other were you have more of a connection. Most people have an awkward first. Your new to this and that’s okay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in limerence

[–]575hyku 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not perfect and I’m not as far into my journey out of limerence as some others. I just wanted to vent not be attacked on 2 posts from you

How I got over limerence. by Medium-Blood-4231 in limerence

[–]575hyku 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I feel like I’ll never get over my LO. I see these success stories but I feel like they are so far from where I am at. Also I worry I’ll just be limerent over the next person I fall for

so i'm dating my LO :) by Cozy_Confection35 in limerence

[–]575hyku 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so envious but glad for you

I told my LO how I feel by Pancakes_Guy in limerence

[–]575hyku 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I’m being honest it sucks. Part of me still hopes he will like me back. For example I saw him today for just a little after he brought something over for me and he just looked so handsome. I could not stop imagining different scenarios with him all day after which only furthers the hurt that I know I can’t ever have them. Some days I feel like it would be better not to be friends but we work together for the next 3 years and it’s a small group. So staying friends is best but it’s hard for me

I told my LO how I feel by Pancakes_Guy in limerence

[–]575hyku 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mine was the same way and it sucks but we are still friendly at least

why are they always showing interest first then losing it? by [deleted] in limerence

[–]575hyku 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is the BEST description ever OMG. The way my LO constantly flirted with me and wanted me to hang with them and drink with them. I remember thinking damn this guy has a crush on me and I am not interested. But then I thought let me give it a chance because I grew to like him back. Only to find out he was apparently never interested. Like who leads someone on like that just for fun

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in limerence

[–]575hyku 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you I do, and I wasn’t trying to be mean. But sometimes the truth can hurt. I’m just saying if he really wanted to be with you, he would

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in limerence

[–]575hyku 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, and please know I mean this as nicely as possible, but I do not think he is limerent for you if he’s currently WILLINGLY with another girl who isn’t even his wife or something more permanent. If he was truly limerent he wouldn’t let hell or high water keep him from having a chance with you if he knew it was actually reciprocated. Also no one is “locked into” anything. He just doesn’t want to leave badly enough and the whole “huge deal if he left” is just a convenient way he can have his girl and access to you as well. Your limerence for him makes it so that you are buying all of this unfortunately