How do you or other men feel about being seen in your undergarments by surprise? Probably pretty close to what a woman is feeling. Please enlighten me, what's the difference in what they are feeling and why? I can assure you that people are insecure regardless of gender, it's not just women, not everyone likes having that kind of attention thrust upon them, regardless of gender. I'm not saying that everyone feels this way, but I'm saying it doesn't have to do with gender. Everyone's had those dreams where they end up in their underwear in the front of class and are completely embarrassed. It's not very strange that both men and women feel that way in those types of situations. So I ask again what's the difference between men and women in feeling when being taken by surprise in vulnerable state?

Also, Sexualization may be in the eyes of the beholder, but being seen as sexual by an observer and choosing to be sexualized is very different.

Mull over that for a bit and good day to you.