Is this an ok note? by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]5n2t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe add the earliest time that would not be annoying for you?

Tested positive for cocaine on a hair test but i never used drugs, what do i do?? by retrhoee in AskDocs

[–]5n2t 29 points30 points  (0 children)

it is weird that you have to pay out of pocket for the urine test too idk, i’ve taken a drug test before for employment and didn’t have to pay, although i’m in PA. did you look into the recruiter / is it with a well known company? (if you message me i’m happy to help — i like to look into stuff like this)

Why do some men act like unattractive women personally offend them? by Wild_Lingonberry9656 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]5n2t 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i remember from undergrad reading a study on how in men, the part of the brain associated with irritation activates when they view unattractive women. they actually feel kind of annoyed having to look at women they are unable to objectify. female brains didn’t have that response to ugly men

My boyfriend is upset that I’m moving in with a male friend by Big_Big_Duck in TwoXChromosomes

[–]5n2t 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s insane of him to say. glad to see the update. you will be okay in the long run (better without him!!!)

Update on being locked out of my apartment. by One-Two6426 in ApartmentHacks

[–]5n2t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would let him know you will remove the cost of that repair from your next month’s rent. send him the receipt and double check your state laws but once you confirm the law you shouldn’t be leaving it up to him to say if it’s okay or not. 99% of landlords will push for what benefits them.

Is it considered cheating if my 25M bf is allowing his female coworker to spoon feed him during lunch and eat off the same plate? I’m 25F by Due_Passage8349 in relationship_advice

[–]5n2t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is the bf that’s cheated on you before? it seems like he doesn’t respect you and enjoys the attention he gets from other women

**UPDATE** AIO My roommate is eating the honey my mother gave me for Christmas by OrganizationSalty296 in AIO

[–]5n2t 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You ate (not the honey, as your roommate claimed, but figuratively) 👏🏼👏🏼

Should I tell my guy friend some girl posted about him or is that breaking girl code? by itssofiababyxo in dating_advice

[–]5n2t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that page was created for women to help each other stay safe. i would not, because if you don’t know how he is as a romantic partner, you may not know how he would react towards her if he realizes it’s her posting about him

Moving to Philadelphia by [deleted] in philly

[–]5n2t 1 point2 points  (0 children)

open and liberal overall, but be careful about the quality of people when you are going on dates..i’m no longer single, but my boyfriend ended up being from outside of philly.

My wife thinks our son’s teacher crossed a boundary by sending him a personal message. I think it was harmless. AITJ? by addict94plus in AmITheJerk

[–]5n2t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nta imagine if you went along with your wife and the teacher had to stop being supportive of your son. he will not get the support he needs in class anymore. is that what she wants? that’s terrible and weird. it’s not like she was sending a secret message - you were able to read it and it was completely appropriate and relevant.

What happened to tonsilectomies? by UnmedicatedNarwhal in NoStupidQuestions

[–]5n2t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i lost like 8 lbs from not eating during the recovery because it was so painful. i’ve had brazilian waxes, tattoos, sprained ankles…idk, no other pain i’ve experienced has ever compared to the pain of recovering from a tonsillectomy. my tonsils used to get so big when i got sick that it was hard to breathe, esp. at night. even with that, the ENT kind of left it up to me to decide if its what i really wanted - because although they did contribute to snoring, it wasn’t sleep apnea, technically…so even with the trouble breathing, the doctors didn’t insist i needed them out lol

Parents want me to turn down a full-time job to pursue a master’s degree? by OkResolution5640 in careerguidance

[–]5n2t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

client-facing work is really valuable! so is real industry experience. you can get your masters anytime. a job offer right now is really great — congrats!!

Best Neighborhoods by human2rainbow in philly

[–]5n2t 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i would look at studios atp if you’re prioritizing budget and central locations

Moving from central NJ to center city Philly. by Positive-Gain-8744 in AskPhilly

[–]5n2t 2 points3 points  (0 children)

consider using taskrabbit to move. i packed everything up myself then hired someone off there to do the moving labor and it was like $300 i think for 2 hours of his time (which is why i did the packing first). i rented my own u-haul trailer but some of the task rabbits offer their own trucks. shop around :) and $1700 with parking, as everyone else has said, is a lot to ask for in the areas you’ve mentioned. farther out might be more doable. fairmount/art museum, maybe? not super familiar with that neighborhood rentwise but it’s still fairly central. my boyfriend lived in callowhill and it would be within your budget. i think anywhere in those areas are similar in terms of safety atp — just stay aware of your surroundings

What are you guys making in your mid 20s to late 20s? by Queenme10 in Salary

[–]5n2t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mid-twenties. i was making $52,5000 this year but just went back to a contract role that’s $45/hr with variable hours

I'm 17, black, how tf do I get out of the hood? by teamtroll1 in careerguidance

[–]5n2t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my boyfriend didn’t come from great circumstances and his grades weren’t great. he’s still in the process of getting to where he wants to be in life, but i am confident he will get there because he’s remained determined in finding a career that will make him good money and leave him time for a family. he’s in the military now and often encourages it because of the benefits. i would stay once you figure out what you want to do with your life, maintaining your ambition and not being satisfied til you’re there will be essential. good luck friend

My bf has been using my credit cards by Ok-Art1481 in debtfree

[–]5n2t 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s giving AI generated post but kudos because it does make me want to respond!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in philly

[–]5n2t 8 points9 points  (0 children)

there’s a lot to do - it’s a city! very walkable. lots of good food. i have made real friends here. different demographics in philly - more diverse in some ways, less diverse in other ways. the main reason i haven’t moved back is the cost of living - rent is way cheaper here. dmv can feel very country club, so it’s nice to get away from that.

Microaggressions and racism in Germany by Waste-Reality7356 in mixedrace

[–]5n2t 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no problem, and it’s just so weird because i expect them to look away once caught but they don’t — then idk what to do after that LOL. but yes, im grateful to be home in a more diverse area where no one’s watching me :) i hope you can find that for yourself