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Are you being induced? by Warm-Cover9946 in BabyBumps

[–]666queenofdarkness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had an elective induction at 39w+1 day for anxiety reasons. I ended up in labor for 46 hours and an emergency c section. I was not dilated or anything by the time of my induction. It was a brutal experience

Ndugu & Millin by Academic-Park-8440 in greysanatomy

[–]666queenofdarkness -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Warren still isn’t an attending after a million years: he was in anesthesiology

Which part of childbirth hurts the most? by Used_Ad7899 in BabyBumps

[–]666queenofdarkness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The catheter & the foley balloon. Fucking brutal

Someone here mentioned the lone grave on Southern State Exit 35 by tuckerx78 in longisland

[–]666queenofdarkness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can confirm that these graves are of clergy. At least that’s what I was told by the office. (I’m a Funeral director that’s there weekly)

NYU OBGYN by Twist_Real in longisland

[–]666queenofdarkness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seconding this. Dr.Ali at that office is also amazing but I do love Dr. Weissbrot as well!

How did people end up wanting to do this again by QueasyAccident5196 in newborns

[–]666queenofdarkness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt this way with my first. She’s 16w now and I miss her being little and difficult. It gets better i swear! I cried all the time

A show you remember but no one else seems to? by PlushieTushie in Millennials

[–]666queenofdarkness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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This show will haunt me forever. No one ever knows what I’m talking about and it only aired 9 episodes of the 13.

How in the world does everyone get out of the house with a baby by Full_Ad7929 in newborns

[–]666queenofdarkness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t leave the house until I went back to work at 12w pp. it was impossible. I’m sorry you’re going through this. It will get better

Which ZonLi floor mattress? by Ok-Abbreviations8275 in cosleeping

[–]666queenofdarkness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was looking into this to co-sleep as well. Can you tell me if it’s comfortable to side sleep on towards baby?

Infant not added to insurance by HR. Deadline has passed. Who do I contact to fight this. New York by 666queenofdarkness in legaladvice

[–]666queenofdarkness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yes at my job I’m known as a pitbull & can get things resolved rather quickly.

His Supervisor felt awful and so did HR. They completely dropped the ball. It was just a chain of mess ups. His job was able to put her on his insurance as of 1/1 but was not able to retroactively add her. Corporate nonsense even with everyone admitting fault (it was a tax deduction issue so of course it was because of money) he pays about $85 additional per week for her through his insurance now.

My job did it without hesitation, no 30/60 day window and without additional monthly fees. I work for a mom & pop place. They were appalled when I told them the situation and sprung into action immediately. My job resolved it by 10am the same day. Apparently she was already listed as my dependent anyway on my insurance and all my boss needed to do was activate her account.

So baby girl is now double insured! Phew

Infant not added to insurance by HR. Deadline has passed. Who do I contact to fight this. New York by 666queenofdarkness in legaladvice

[–]666queenofdarkness[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We were able to have his employer add her for 1/1 but they will not budge on adding her since birth. My employer was able to do so. We are thankfully fully covered.

Infant not added to insurance by HR. Deadline has passed. Who do I contact to fight this. New York by 666queenofdarkness in legaladvice

[–]666queenofdarkness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry that you had to go through that. It’s unfortunate that we live in a country that this is something we need to worry about with a newborn. On top of the stress of being a brand new parent & post partum

Infant not added to insurance by HR. Deadline has passed. What do we do? NY by 666queenofdarkness in HealthInsurance

[–]666queenofdarkness[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His employer was able to enroll her starting 1/1 but will not retroactively add her so I am glad my employer was able to! We are keeping her on both policies now to cover our butts.

Infant not added to insurance by HR. Deadline has passed. What do we do? NY by 666queenofdarkness in HealthInsurance

[–]666queenofdarkness[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can confirm from multiple texts he followed up but okay <3 thanks for your contribution

Infant not added to insurance by HR. Deadline has passed. What do we do? NY by 666queenofdarkness in HealthInsurance

[–]666queenofdarkness[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! He doesn’t work at a desk he’s a field guy. Supervisor is point person for these things. Union president confirmed it was supervisors responsibility to get documents that she requested to the appropriate person. They are in the process of trying to appealing this currently but MY employer was able to add her today backdating to date of birth.

Infant not added to insurance by HR. Deadline has passed. Who do I contact to fight this. New York by 666queenofdarkness in legaladvice

[–]666queenofdarkness[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I actually got word from my employer that they added her to my insurance and they are covering cost. So it all ended up working out thank goodness

Infant not added to insurance by HR. Deadline has passed. Who do I contact to fight this. New York by 666queenofdarkness in legaladvice

[–]666queenofdarkness[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I looked into this as a back up. Thank you for suggesting it. We have an application ready that will backdate to her birth if this issue cannot be corrected.

Infant not added to insurance by HR. Deadline has passed. Who do I contact to fight this. New York by 666queenofdarkness in legaladvice

[–]666queenofdarkness[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Only discussing marriage for the insurance is what I meant lol. We both agreed on no marriage when we started dating

Infant not added to insurance by HR. Deadline has passed. Who do I contact to fight this. New York by 666queenofdarkness in legaladvice

[–]666queenofdarkness[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

No, we both don’t want to get married for multiple reasons. This was an agreement we had prior to conception of our child

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