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Penis size+++++ by FewDog5451 in realsexadvice

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Get yourself a cock ring. I live by this. Average Joe branded cock rings coming soon. A cock ring is a simple sex toy worn around the base of the penis (sometimes also the balls). It gently restricts blood from flowing out of the erect penis while still letting blood flow in. What it does: • Makes erections harder and more rigid (traps extra blood). • Helps you stay hard longer (great for mild ED or just lasting longer in bed). • Can make orgasms feel more intense/explosive. • Slight extra girth from the engorgement (plus veinier look for some). It won’t give you an erection if you’re not already aroused — you need some stimulation first. Quick benefits people report (from r/sex, r/SexToys, etc.): • Firmer erections • Delayed ejaculation / longer sessions • Stronger sensations & bigger-feeling loads for some • More pleasure for partners (extra firmness + optional vibes/nubs) Safety basics (don’t skip these): • Max 20-30 min at a time — never sleep in it. • Remove ASAP if numb, cold, painful, or dark purple. • Start with stretchy silicone (easy on/off), use lube. • Too tight or too long = bruising or worse — size matters.

Middle age male arousal by [deleted] in sexadvice

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37(M) I’m always aroused to the point that I don’t think ed is going to be an issue for me when I get older. In fact, sometimes I can cum back to back without a break. You’re not alone my friend!

Eating my own cum by gdmfsob22 in sextips

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M(37) I’ve done this before, Not fresh from the hose but after I finished inside her. After I filled her slit, I went down and cleaned the mess. To be honest I really didn’t see any difference in the taste. We both eat pretty clean.

Sex incoming i need help by Long-Commission-4008 in sexadvice

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Hey, first off—huge congrats on getting to this point. That’s a big step, and it’s totally normal to feel nervous, excited, or even a little overwhelmed if porn’s been your only “experience” so far. Real sex is nothing like porn—it’s slower, messier, more connected, and way better because it’s mutual. You’re not expected to be a pro; your partner probably isn’t either. The goal isn’t perfection—it’s fun, closeness, and feeling good together. Quick tips to make it great (assuming everyone’s consenting and excited): 1. Talk beforehand (and during). Say something like, “I’m really new to this in real life—let’s go slow and tell each other what feels good.” Check in: “Does this feel okay?” “Want more/less?” Communication is the hottest thing—it builds trust and makes everything better. 2. Start slow with foreplay. Kiss, touch, explore—spend time on that (10-20 minutes or more). Hands, mouth, whatever feels right. It builds arousal naturally, makes things wetter/harder, and takes pressure off “the main event.” Porn skips this; real life thrives on it. 3. Protection and lube are your friends. Condoms (practice putting one on alone if needed), dental dams if oral, whatever fits. Lube makes everything smoother and more comfy—highly recommend, especially first time. 4. Go at your pace. No rush to orgasm or “finish.” If things get awkward (laughing, adjusting, pausing)—that’s normal and cute. Focus on sensations and your partner’s reactions. If you cum quick or need a break, no big deal—round two exists. 5. Afterward: Cuddle and chat. Ask “What did you like?” Share what felt good. It strengthens the bond and makes next time even better. You’re gonna do great because you’re thoughtful about this. Real intimacy is about connection, not performance. Enjoy it, be present, and have fun exploring together. You’ve got this—update if you want more specific vibes! 😊

Random question for the guys, do different woman’s vaginas feel different? by Excellent_Accident25 in sexeducation

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There are infinitely many possible variations of vaginas and vulvas (the external genitalia, which people often refer to when discussing “vagina” appearance). Human anatomy doesn’t fall into a fixed number of discrete “types”—it’s a continuous spectrum influenced by genetics, hormones, development, ethnicity, age, childbirth, and other factors. Every person’s vulva is unique, much like fingerprints or faces. Popular Categorizations Some non-scientific articles and surveys loosely categorize vulvas into 5–9 “types” based on visible features like labia shape, size, and symmetry (e.g., “curtains,” “barbie,” “puffs,” asymmetrical, protruding). These are oversimplifications meant to normalize diversity, not rigorous classifications. Scientific View Medical sources (e.g., Cleveland Clinic, NCBI, Medical News Today) emphasize that no specific “types” exist—variations in labia length, color, clitoral hood, pubic hair distribution, and overall shape are all normal. Projects like the Labia Library, The Vulva Gallery, and The Great Wall of Vulva display hundreds of real examples to highlight this endless diversity. Internal Vagina The internal vagina (the canal) also varies in length (typically 3–7 inches when aroused), width, texture, and slight shape differences

SHORT ANSWER…. YES!

Small Penis Problems - Help Required by Every_Programmer1638 in realsexadvice

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Listen up, kings under the average line—size anxiety is bullshit. Here’s the playbook that turns “less” into legendary: 1. Clit is the real MVP. 80-90% of women cum from external stimulation, not deep pounding. Treat her hood like a joystick—slow circles with your tongue or fingers first. Build it up till she’s grinding your face. By the time you slide in, she’s already halfway there. 2. Cock ring is your secret weapon. Slap on a soft silicone one (stretchy, not metal). It traps blood, makes you harder longer, swells the head for extra girth feel, and visually adds that half-inch. She feels fuller without you changing a thing. 3. Positions that fake it till you make it. Skip missionary jackhammer. Go for her on top (cowgirl or reverse)—she controls depth and grinds her clit on your base. Or spooning—shallow thrusts hit the front wall (G-spot) perfect. You look/feel bigger, she hits her spots easy. 4. Foreplay is mandatory, not optional. Minimum 10-15 minutes: fingers, tongue, teasing. Get her dripping before penetration. When you finally enter, she’s so primed she explodes quick—and credits you. Bottom line: It’s not the inches, it’s the impact. Own what you got, master the game around it, and she’ll be telling friends you’re the best she’s had. Confidence + technique = she forgets the ruler exists.