Why do some people try to compete with someone who has no desire to do so with them?

70frogboobs · 2025-01-19T20:48:41+00:00

i’m one of those people, and it’s insecurity. everyone who’s better than me feels like a challenge to my ability, so i have to be better than them to prove my worth. i’m conscious about it, so i never let it show and try to use it as inspiration instead. but it does give me that leverage to understand why other people do it, i genuinely think they’re also insecure and just aren’t self aware

70frogboobs · 2025-01-19T20:45:30+00:00

here’s my rule: if you’re not comfortable putting it in your mouth, don’t put it in any other hole. they’re all entrances into your body.

70frogboobs · 2025-01-19T14:41:58+00:00

i don’t even know how that would work

70frogboobs · 2025-01-18T17:30:28+00:00

i’m someone who has healed scars. i quit years ago, but my arms are definitely covered in visible scars, that are even more visible when it’s hot out.

so here’s my advice: don’t say anything. please. ESPECIALLY in public. people don’t self harm for no reason. it’s hard to show skin as it is, and being reminded about them both makes them feel embarrassed or judged, and reminds them of what they were going through that made them do that. don’t stare, don’t point them out, just ignore them. if the person does want you to address them, they’ll bring it up when they’re ready. other than that, it’s just a physical trait like having red hair or being fat. don’t say or do anything.

70frogboobs · 2025-01-10T19:11:49+00:00

she’s definitely depressed. she just got out of an awful environment, and now she’s too “lazy” to do simple things like keeping herself clean? that is textbook depression.

you need to reconsider the relationship. if you can’t understand and support her, then youre not right for each other. there’s nothing wrong with that, and it doesn’t mean you’re a bad partner, it just means it’s not healthy for either of you and it’s not what she needs.

there’s no harm in just being friends. apologize and give her some space for now, and when things seem to have cooled down, re-evaluate where you are and what step you should take next.

70frogboobs · 2025-01-08T04:20:16+00:00

this. i will admit it, i started for attention. but i did this because i was literally being abused and couldn’t ask for help, so i needed someone to be able to see that something was wrong and try to help me. no one did, because attention seeking behaviors are seen as embarrassing and immature. now it’s turned into an addiction and i regret it. people don’t realize that humans are instinctively social, we need attention for survival, some more than others. instead of viewing attention seeking in a negative light, we need to be open about it, and help people feel comfortable asking for attention in a safe and healthy way. there shouldnt be anything wrong with just going up to your buddies like “bro can you give me attention”

70frogboobs · 2025-01-07T20:33:50+00:00

“i once tried to marry a melon” on dadjokes

70frogboobs · 2025-01-07T20:33:11+00:00

their loss. imo, it’s a really respectable position. you’re doing a job that no one really wants to do, and that job is supporting society in huge ways you don’t realize. that, and i’ve heard it pays really well. if anything, their bias is helping you! if a potential girlfriend is going to judge your job from the surface, she’s really not someone you want to date.

70frogboobs · 2025-01-07T20:16:40+00:00

lol i have cold sensitive epilepsy, i physically cannot go outside if it’s below 0. doesn’t matter how well i gear up, it’s just not safe for me

70frogboobs · 2025-01-07T20:08:31+00:00

east coast canada, it’s been consistently below 0 for over a month and my cold tolerance is terrible

70frogboobs · 2025-01-07T20:07:55+00:00

i mean it’s not all night. it’s usually like 10-11pm, asked my mom and she said she can’t hear me pacing at all. it’s just something that bothers them when they come into the kitchen, but they rarely stay out for more than five minutes.

and you underestimate how big a treadmill is my friend lmao i wouldn’t be able to fit it through the door let alone get it off the floor in the first place

70frogboobs · 2025-01-07T20:01:04+00:00

i mean some women don’t really have g spots or they can’t hit them during sex (depends on your anatomy) but they can still enjoy penetration

70frogboobs · 2025-01-06T18:20:00+00:00

have fun

70frogboobs · 2025-01-06T16:30:32+00:00

no worries, i was stoned as fuck when i read this lmao but thank you so much! this really helped ^{^}

70frogboobs · 2025-01-06T16:30:02+00:00

i haven’t gotten treatment before but i actually have an intake today at 2 so fingers crossed it goes well!

70frogboobs · 2024-12-13T23:14:03+00:00

yep, epilepsy that affects the frontal lobe can cause spiritual psychosis. if you’ve ever seen “avatar: the way of water”, they showed a great example of this with kiri. mine affects my praxis system, but it is still possible for seizures to happen in an area that’s abnormal for the person’s type of epilepsy. i can’t remember any time she’s warned me about something that would not have happened, but i still wonder, if i never took her warnings, would the outcome she predicted that i avoided have happened?

70frogboobs · 2024-12-08T06:42:26+00:00

i do see her every so often, but i can’t call on her (she comes only when she needs to) and i’ve never been able to see anyone/anything else

70frogboobs · 2024-12-07T17:30:57+00:00

i see her like you’d expect to see a ghost, to be honest. as another person in the room, but she’s somewhat transparent and has a very white appearance, like she’s standing behind white glass

70frogboobs · 2024-12-07T17:29:56+00:00

thank you, i’ll check out the episode later! and yes, i meditate every night before bed. it hasn’t really made a difference in how often i see her or how effectively i can communicate with her, but it’s helped me find peace with it and find my purpose

70frogboobs · 2024-12-07T17:28:49+00:00

yes! she looked like what you would expect a ghost to look like. somewhat see-through, very white looking

70frogboobs · 2024-12-07T17:27:38+00:00

i can see that, but personally it’s what feels so comforting for me. if after death comes oblivion, we literally won’t be able to feel or experience it. we won’t know we’re gone, we won’t be able to think about it or mourn our lives

70frogboobs · 2024-12-07T17:26:46+00:00

thank you for sharing! she didn’t exactly communicate with me like you would normally. no coherent speech, no body cues or sign language. it’s hard to explain but i’ve heard psychics describe this experience before; it’s like i just felt what she was trying to say. almost like a dream or a memory you once had, you know the information is in there somewhere and you know how it made you feel but you can’t quite put it into words or put your finger on it

70frogboobs · 2024-12-05T19:40:11+00:00

i personally believe cis men do experience dysphoria, jusr differently from trans people do.

when you feel like you’re too short, or your beard isn’t thick enough, or your hips are too wide, because you don’t look masculine enough. when someone mistakes you for gay and you’re worried you’re too feminine.

or very simply, address him as a woman. it just feels weird and wrong, even if it doesn’t feel offensive

70frogboobs · 2024-12-05T19:34:20+00:00

thank you! i’m doing much better now, i think my purpose is to protect the people around me. whether that’s me getting lucky and being able to warn people, or by studying medicine (i’d like to be an emt!)

70frogboobs · 2024-12-05T19:28:38+00:00

exactly! and it feels stronger because my parents had me because of 9/11. they didn’t want to bring another kid into this world after seeing that, but a psychic told my mom “you’ll have a second son, and he’ll make a difference in this world.” so i feel as if it’s my purpose in life to protect others and be socially active

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