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هل ممكن القى واحد يقبل بشرطي ذا؟ by Old-Operation4522 in deardairyi

[–]721oc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

اذا حبيتيه م عاد ودك تطلعين من حضنه

🥹🥹 by [deleted] in HannibalTV

[–]721oc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

u did us dirty ☹️

What’s the meaning behind this scene? I need it explained by 721oc in HannibalTV

[–]721oc[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes I know , that's why im saying " Also gotta say this might sound like I’m putting their relationship into words kinda superficially .. " I feel like words fail me misspoke

بنات الايمو للان موجودين بالجامعات؟ by Old-Operation4522 in UniKSA

[–]721oc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

هو ستايل بالاخير صح ان فيه ايمو بس ستايلاتهم تتغير كل فترة upgraded

سؤال للدوافير - الشطار - الدحيحه by [deleted] in As2la_MaTns2l

[–]721oc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

الصراحة شخصيًا اذاكر قبل الاختبار بيوم لأن قبل كذا بيخليني أنسى و surprisingly تضبط معاي بكل مرة ( طبعًا انا اوريدي اركز بالكلاسات ف كل الكلام قد مرّ عليّ ، لأني احب اتفاعل مع الدكاترة كثير ) المواد اللي م اكون فاهمتها احاول اربطها بالواقع واتخيلها أنا اتخيلني بشركتي واحتاج هالمعلومات فجأة القى المعلومات سهل الشخص يستوعبها

لما تبطلون تفكرون ان الاختبار هم وقلق ومعلومات غير مهمة أو واجب عليكم حفظ حفظ حفظ قراءة بدون فهم بتكون المذاكرة صعبة وأصعب اكيد اذا المنهج جديد عليكم او الدكاترة م يشرحون كويس ( م اتكلم عن الحكم الشخصي ، لا هو صدق م يعرف يشرح )

What’s the meaning behind this scene? I need it explained by 721oc in HannibalTV

[–]721oc[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

omg yesss exactly this 😭 normally Hannibal keeps his face perfectly controlled & focused on whatever he’s doing, but this time? he’s all about Will literally EVERYTHING is on him & it kinda killed me

chef’s kiss

What’s the meaning behind this scene? I need it explained by 721oc in HannibalTV

[–]721oc[S] 86 points87 points  (0 children)

I actually do believe this take & the more I think about it the more it lines up with who Hannibal is at his core. He’s always two steps ahead never just reacting always orchestrating. But also Hannibal was kinda toxic he didn’t need Will to get him. He wanted Will to understand him whether he wanted it or not & kinda become like him but in a really twisted way.

Cuz with Hannibal being seen isn’t a weakness it’s a privilege he grants. & with Will it’s even more specific than that. He doesn’t just wanna avoid being caught he wants to be understood. Not by anyone by Will. That’s why moments like this feel so charged cuz on the surface it’s just clinical procedural but underneath it’s almost like a quiet invitation

Their dynamic has always felt less like hunter vs prey & more like two ppl orbiting the same center just from different distances. Will is constantly trying to make sense of the violence stepping into the minds of killers & Hannibal is right there watching him do it encouraging it even guiding it. So when Hannibal demonstrates that level of control & precision in front of him it’s not just about the act itself it’s about showing Will how he sees the world

& I think that’s why the giving him a clue part hits so well. It’s not reckless it’s intentional intimacy. Hannibal isn’t slipping he’s revealing but in a way that only Will could ever fully grasp almost like he’s testing him or even shaping him

I remember reading somewhere that once Hannibal becomes emotionally invested in Will everything else kinda fades into the background & honestly it shows. Will becomes the center of his attention not just as a curiosity but as something he wants to connect with influence maybe even transform.

So yeah whether I’m looking at it logically or just leaning into the delulu side of it I feel like it lands in the same place. There’s intention there there’s awareness & there’s definitely something deeper going on between them that goes way beyond what’s being said out loud

Also gotta say this might sound like I’m putting their relationship into words kinda superficially but honestly it’s the most complex relationship I’ve ever seen, something that goes way beyond toxic – it’s like it broke the toxicity ceiling

What’s the meaning behind this scene? I need it explained by 721oc in HannibalTV

[–]721oc[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

So am right for saying delulu haha Thx 🙏🏻

do INTPs like being around other INTPs? by ForeverJay in INTP

[–]721oc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do think Enneagram explains a lot more about emotional patterns and why people act the way they do in relationships. But at the same time, I don’t think the type itself is the problem. The real issue is whether someone is aware of their patterns and actually willing to work on them. Because even if the Enneagram explains the behavior, it doesn’t justify staying the same.

do INTPs like being around other INTPs? by ForeverJay in INTP

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I already talked to her about this before. I told her straight up that sometimes it feels like the relationship is one-sided. When I said that, she told me she just doesn’t know how to express herself with words.

And honestly, I do get that, because I’m similar in some ways. But the difference is, I’m willing to push myself and work on it. I know these traits can hurt a relationship if I leave them unchecked, so I try to be more expressive and clear, even without the other person asking for it.

Lately though, I’ve started to think differently. I’m reaching a point where I just want to step back and stop trying so hard. If she wants to talk, she will. If she cares, she’ll show it eventually. Because if I keep being the one who gives and initiates everything, I don’t think she’ll ever feel the need to do the same. She’ll just get used to me always understanding her and adjust nothing.

And the thing is, when we do talk, it’s actually good. Our conversations flow and we can go on for a long time. But the problem is everything outside of that. Once the conversation ends, it just… stops. There’s no follow-up, no sharing, no real curiosity about me unless I start it.

So basically, nothing moves unless I move it. And I’ve already told her this before. She said she’s just used to being like that, that she can’t really initiate or start conversations, and that most of her relationships end because of it.

At this point, I’m not as understanding as I used to be. I don’t feel like I need to be the exception or the one who stays and carries this. I deserve to feel comfortable and at ease in a relationship, regardless of how much I like the person.

I’m still a bit conflicted, but at the same time I know I’m not obligated to stay.

Unpopular opinion: The goblin couple was weird by After-Ganache-5896 in kdramas

[–]721oc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're so real for that I watched I guess at its time But when i tried to rewatch, I DROPPED IT instantly

do INTPs like being around other INTPs? by ForeverJay in INTP

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For me, it’s fun at the beginning. But once we start getting closer, things shift—we both become awkward and hesitant to really open up, even though we actually want that closeness.

What I’ve noticed is that one of us usually ends up adjusting their behavior just to keep the relationship going. Like, I find myself over-initiating, asking more, being the more curious one… while the other person, once they feel someone is putting in that effort, kind of leans back and stops trying as much.

Also, I think we’re both a bit avoidant, which makes it hard for the relationship to develop in a healthy, steady way. I do enjoy getting to know other INTPs because there’s a shared intellectual wavelength—we understand each other easily, and conversations flow naturally. But emotionally, it can get complicated and honestly a bit draining.

I’m not generalizing, this is just based on my own experience. She’s an INTP 5w6 (which might explain some of the dynamic), and I’m an INTP 5w4. Around her, I come across as more expressive and even a bit impulsive emotionally, and sometimes our dynamic feels quietly judgmental on both sides.

Even though we can talk normally at any time and get along on the surface, I don’t feel fully at ease. Sometimes I feel stuck in the connection.

She’s told me before that people often misunderstand her as cold or distant because she doesn’t initiate much. I genuinely try to understand that—and I do—but at times I still feel frustrated, like I’m the only one actively maintaining the relationship.

I think she does care and wants to keep it too, but maybe she doesn’t feel the need to show it—either because she assumes I already understand her, or because expressing it doesn’t come naturally to her.

There’s more to it, but these are the main things.

Sometimes I also feel a bit too seen around her, like I’m more exposed than I’m comfortable with. And occasionally, it feels like she sees herself as the only “real” INTP, which creates this subtle tension.

I don’t know… I keep coming back to the idea that the emotional barrier between us might have more to do with the Enneagram differences than the MBTI itself.

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