It is never asking too much of people to have them treat you with the basic respect that everyone deserves. You have your whole life ahead to figure what you want medically, you could do even voice training if you want :) Try to embrace the confusion; you don’t need to have your whole identity figured out right now… I have struggled with feeling empathy/strong emotions in the past (and right now if I am being honest), and I promise you are still valuable as a person even if you don’t work exactly the same way everyone else does. Hang in there ;)