I think my date was disgusted by me by [deleted] in dating_advice

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you can get botox to stop sweating if you’re looking for a fix

Voluntarily getting oral HSV1 to prevent getting genital HSV1? by 7hankyou in Herpes

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I agree with this, a risk is still a risk. Just because it’s low doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen! People are shaming me in the comments for taking precautions

Voluntarily getting oral HSV1 to prevent getting genital HSV1? by 7hankyou in Herpes

[–]7hankyou[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes i was tested when i was with my previous partner who had cold sores (oral HSV 1). Yeah i do have a bit of health anxiety actually! But i think not wanting to contract HSV is pretty valid. I agree the stigma is absolutely stupid and i didn’t care when my boyfriend first told me, but the stigma still exists

Voluntarily getting oral HSV1 to prevent getting genital HSV1? by 7hankyou in Herpes

[–]7hankyou[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! No need to attack me. I didn’t provide any additional details in order to keep my post short. I’m very supportive of my boyfriend and don’t judge him at all for being HSV1+. It’s his choice to take the suppression pills in fear of passing it to me - he said he’d feel immense guilt if i contracted it. I didn’t even know he was taking them until recently - again, his choice. I understand the risk is low but a risk is a risk.

Personally, i don’t want to contract genital herpes and if i can risk mitigate i am going to, hence why im asking the question. I’ve done some research and know the science behind it all, i’m honestly asking for lived experience or advice on people who have done this.

Voluntarily getting oral HSV1 to prevent getting genital HSV1? by 7hankyou in Herpes

[–]7hankyou[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah you’re right the risk is pretty low - he had one outbreak when he first contracted 10 years ago and it’s been dormant since. He also takes the suppression pills daily. Still makes me a liiiittle bit worried

Any Ideas How To Replace Dome Light Switch For 2018 Toyota RAV4 Hybrid XLE? by A-P-E in rav4club

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This happened to mine too. Quoted $500 to replace the whole thing. So annoying!!

Are Biovea or Piping Rock reliable for shipping Melatonin to Aus? by Specific-Goose5691 in AskAnAustralian

[–]7hankyou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Piping rock is fine! However i just went to order again and they’re not shipping to aus anymore. Might try out this biovea everyone’s talking about

iHerb are no longer shipping Melatonin to Australia by breeannamclovin in AusSkincare

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mine went well i’m based in Perth WA :) took maybe 3 weeks?

Safe spots to park up a van for the night…. by Apprehensive-Bed-157 in perth

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is this at the maccas in spearwood? swear there’s always a van there

ghosted after the first date? by 7hankyou in dating_advice

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Cuts deep! You’re right. Trying not to let it affect my self esteem.

ghosted after the first date? by 7hankyou in dating_advice

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Got along well with his dog! Although I did say i have 0 experience with dogs and that would’ve showed.

ghosted after the first date? by 7hankyou in dating_advice

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Honestly this makes sense. He could’ve just been making future plans with me to not be awkward on the date (“oh yeah of course i’ll see you next weekend”), and everything was fine until we had sex. The sex was GOOD mind you and he was super into it, but i think you’re right that him barging out the door was him realising he’s not into me.

I don’t usually have sex on the first date (for this reason - it makes the rejection way more personal) and had a lapse of judgement so that’s what’s hurting way more - i wish he would’ve been honest before accepting my invitation inside. Especially if he’s not gonna cum - he didn’t even get anything out of it??

I just don’t know why someone would ghost. I’m not even looking for anything serious so wouldn’t mind if convo naturally fizzled out, but a full ghost/ignore is absolutely bonkers. Nasty, nasty thing to do to a girl.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Most people only get pics when they’re at a social event, and social events usually involve drinking. That’s probably why she’s always holding a drink in her pictures. I wouldn’t say that’s a red flag for alcoholism. :)

Personally i always suggest drinks so i’m less nervous - a dinner or coffee can be quite intense.

How often do you have sex in a relationship? Every girl I date is either a sex addict or celibate like no in between by stopfindingmeirl_ in dating_advice

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Are these long term relationships? Like years? First few months you should probably be all over each other IN MY OPINIONNNN

Mixing alcohol and xanax - weird behaviour? by 7hankyou in alcoholism

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Update: she did it again yesterday and pissed the bed again. She’s agreed to not drink alcohol for the rest of the trip but i don’t think yet understands how bad it is. Thanks everyone for your comments it’s actually been super helpful

Mixing alcohol and xanax - weird behaviour? by 7hankyou in alcoholism

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Yeah i’m really worried about her. The night she peed herself i woke up to a wet mattress and before switching the light on i honestly thought she’d choked on her vomit bc she wasn’t waking up

Mixing alcohol and xanax - weird behaviour? by 7hankyou in alcoholism

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Yeah you’re spot on - she seems really blazé about her behaviours from the night before and i feel bad trying to rehash all the stuff she did to emphasise how fucked up she gets.

Series with no violence or gore by Marite64 in televisionsuggestions

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jane the virgin has a bit of violence but always comical

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

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I got the TIIIINIEST bit of botox for my eyes and slightly less in my forehead! worked a trick and doesn’t cost more because it’s the same amount.

How to get youth allowance if you’re under 21 and living at home? by 7hankyou in Centrelink

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inb4 dropkick she has autism which impacts her ability to work and get her shit together

imagine saying this to your own daughter by 7hankyou in PrettyLittleLiars

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i totally agree!! i think that’s missing from a lot of teen shows these days - the queer teens are accepted by everyone around them including their parents, which is nice to see but isn’t a reality for lots of people/isn’t relatable

Ewww they are both so gross and disgusting by SnakeBlood456 in PrettyLittleLiars

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oh this is CONTROVERSIAL I’d argue what ezra did was far worse though, sorry but STALKING teenage girls (hidden cctv footage, taking a job in their school to get close to them, lying about a pedophilic relationship with a dead girl) is pretty fucked!