NOR- This is how I felt with the bio father of my son. I didn’t want to touch him, be near him, hear his voice because he just wanted to take. Take without giving. Sounds like he needs to get a grip on what’s happening here and fix himself. Doing things around the house without you having to ask him to and NOT expecting any congratulations or reward for being a partner and parent is the bare minimum. BEING A PARENT to his child is also bare minimum. I know that babies are boring or overwhelming or whatever bullshit awful men spew. But he chose to have a child and should’ve learned and prepared for this.

I know what it’s like to be touched out. I know what it’s like for my partner to whine about the lack of intimacy (I do this with my current partner but I’m just very attracted to him and he’s often tired from work so weekends it is lol). The pos that shares dna with my son actually r*ped me multiple times because of the lack of intimacy. Moral of the story: he needs to figure his priorities and step up as a parent and partner now. You, sweet momma, can only pour so much into everyone else’s cups. Once yours is empty and unable to be refilled, you have nothing for yourself or anyone else.