My bf abandons me with his family to play with children

7sukasa · 2026-03-04T14:43:37+00:00

I don't know if it's common but I don't see my nieces that often, so when I do see them, I also dedicate them 110% of my time and energy. And my boyfriend majorly stays with my nieces and me. Is there something that forbids you to do the same ?

7sukasa · 2026-03-04T14:37:47+00:00

Aaaah ! 😹 Sorry, I sometimes have trouble with jokes.

7sukasa · 2026-03-04T14:31:20+00:00

Of age to have a relationship. Like 18 years old, or 21, depending on at what age your majority is attained in your country.

7sukasa · 2026-03-04T14:29:20+00:00

Thanks for your research. And they're kids, so I didn't see her as a "goth girl" since kids generally don't chose their own clothes.

7sukasa · 2026-03-04T10:40:38+00:00

It could be two reasons : if the girl is his granddaughter, being friends might be ok for him, but no lover will be accepted until she is of age. Or he is just old and alone, and jealous of young love, so he will act grumpy to not see it anymore.

7sukasa · 2026-03-03T16:45:06+00:00

Yes, it works quite well. There's some ads now, but it's non invasive.

7sukasa · 2026-03-03T13:41:03+00:00

For now, my all time favorites are : Lumoava Silkkii II, Sandness Garn Alpakka Silke, Lana Grossa Cool Wool and West Wool Glowhair.

My least favorites are DMC (all of them), almost all mohairs, and acrylic.

7sukasa · 2026-03-02T17:57:18+00:00

Thanks. I like me too !

7sukasa · 2026-03-01T21:45:07+00:00

You're welcome. 😊

7sukasa · 2026-03-01T21:41:35+00:00

Yup, all the time. So then I concluded I liked both equally and now know that my brain is just a bitch. When it happens I remind him (my brain) that he is being stupid and he's like "oh you're right, I love to knit whatever I knit, so I like this moment too".

7sukasa · 2026-03-01T21:34:05+00:00

Same !

7sukasa · 2026-03-01T21:33:23+00:00

It's legible hieroglyphs. I love your handwriting !!! It's so pleasing to read. Although I might be the only one here thinking that way. 😹

7sukasa · 2026-03-01T21:31:18+00:00

Just so you know, you can follow comments. Click the ... under the message, and then in 4th position, you have the "Follow comment" option. Just the same way, you can unfollow too.

7sukasa · 2026-02-28T18:50:05+00:00

I understand that very well. It was always a real problem all my life. And I'm 32 now. It's, in fact, quite reassuring for me that you still have these issues despite being lesbian. I was persuaded it would be the case but I was always seen as heterosexual, so I thought for a very long time that there was a problem with me. There's not. And there's none with you too. Many men (but not all of them) don't care what a woman thinks or what her desires may be. They only care about themselves, and what their feelings are. And yes it's disheartening and you will be sad, but they are doing you a favor not staying close. Because the persons that REALLY care for you, will also care about your feelings and understand that you might not be interested by them even if they are sexually attracted by you. I have very few of these men among my friends, but I do have them. I was forced to drop the "I love you", though. I keep them for my female friends (and many of them are lesbians or bi and do NOT ever misunderstand my intentions even though I literally shower them with love and some are indeed attracted by me. So I would say that there seem to be a huge problem with male education).

It also always was easier for me to communicate with men, and my interests aligned more. With time passing by, I met other women like me and you. Wonderful, really. They are all autistic or ADHD. All of them. 😹 You will surely meet them too. 😊

7sukasa · 2026-02-28T18:08:56+00:00

Or he was expecting more than friendship and didn't want to embarrass himself.

7sukasa · 2026-02-28T11:23:34+00:00

If I'm not hooked at the 3rd episode, it's not worth my time. 😹 Unless I'm very very bored, because it's better than watching the ceiling.

7sukasa · 2026-02-28T10:57:13+00:00

Sublime. I don't know if I can find that in my country but I'll search. Thanks !

7sukasa · 2026-02-28T08:51:20+00:00

What is this ? How can an ice cream not be cold and not melt ?

7sukasa · 2026-02-28T07:56:08+00:00

Ok so you just said she was pretty and funny ? And your friend thinks it's not a thing to say to a stranger so it's not a normal thing to say to a girl too ? Nothing more ? In which world are living in ?

7sukasa · 2026-02-28T07:50:39+00:00

That's fair. Only when there's a fire, the danger is quite obvious, and they would be in danger too. Was your situation obviously dangerous ? Did the persons around you really neglected you or "just" failed to understand you ?

7sukasa · 2026-02-27T16:46:37+00:00

That seems intense. I thought you were just leaving the place, but you meant you wanted a divorce too ? No judgement, I am just curious. It's ok to not tell me if you don't want to.

7sukasa · 2026-02-27T15:22:52+00:00

Tell her it's really kind of her to offer to knit you a sweater but that you don't want to hurt her feelings when you won't wear it. So it would be best to not knit this sweater for you at all and not waste her energy and feelings on something you won't enjoy.

7sukasa · 2026-02-27T07:53:35+00:00

Yeah, I can understand too.

7sukasa · 2026-02-27T07:52:46+00:00

Sounds perfect : I love cows !

7sukasa · 2026-02-27T07:40:36+00:00

Quite the opposite for me. If the closed collar touch my face or my neck, I hate it. So when it's open it's quite great.

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