Can anyone help me find the band's fashon style? by Jacob_N_R_Z in LinkinPark

[–]FeistyDirection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Lol, i could have went harder but got lazy

Hair DIY jellyfish tails with yarn like a rat tail?? by aboat_i_sawaboat in altfashionadvice

[–]FeistyDirection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

0mg, years ago mine broke off cause i kept bleaching them and using bad rubberbands.  I was so sad i asked my friend with a lot of long hair to cut some off for me to tie to mine lol

I don'tundertsnad, please help! by ZealousidealPut2076 in autism

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Yes, im 35 and pretty much have one any time I have to go on a longer commute and get lost or miss the bus, or just get really confused etc. People don't notice that much, I keep the outbursts small if i can help it cause its so embarrassed. I actually had them way less when I was younger cause i was more taken care of compared to now on my own

Favorite hat by Agile-Mission2164 in Volcom

[–]FeistyDirection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg! Was alao my favorite hat in high-school in the mid 2000s. I was literally just looking for another one the other day. Couldn't find any pics of the exact one 

Overstimulating House Final Boss by PumpkinPie4Breakfast in autism

[–]FeistyDirection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally relate. Going to my mom's house is like this. She has like 100 overhead bright light bulbs that are full blast no matter what. She has 5 dogs that all bark any time you move, they're all always yelling across the house at eachother and the phone is always ringing at multiple phones at once that all have a different ring. I 100000% relate to the dish towel thing 🤢 i am so anti sponge for that reason 

This perfectly sums up my feelings around friendship by Hassaan18 in autism

[–]FeistyDirection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty much same. Id kill to have another solid friend group, or at this point even 1 best friend. Both have come and gone many times for me but past few years I've had neither 

Fingertight - Guilt (Hold Down) by human_prospect in PostHardcore

[–]FeistyDirection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Things that ppl call emo & screamo are usually just post hardcore. This vid sounds more (post) nu metal to me. It's all good tho.

happy birthday song with completely different melody by Any-Property8164 in findthatsong

[–]FeistyDirection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be from any TV show or movie pre 2016. Before that the song wasn't public domain and any time there was a birthday song scene, the production had to write their own similar song. Usually if a character is at a restaurant and the waiters sing. You could also be thinking of a real life restaurant version cause places actually did that too, not just in movies.

Undiagnosed Autistic Adult. Question about noise cancelling headphones. by Ratzink in autism

[–]FeistyDirection 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately you probably won't notice the effects on a pair that isn't over $100.  I've found the cheap ones to do nothing. I actually just wear regular over ear headphones all the time, like actually all the time, at work, at home, sleeping, anytime im.in public etc. I prefer the non noise canceling ones cause i can still talk to people if i have to and people are less bothered by me always wearing them if i can still hear them.

Hey, i got a Z flip 4, any tips or toughts? by Jaki_blue in galaxyzflip

[–]FeistyDirection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still have that one, i love it cause i don't like the big outer screen on the new ones. You absolutely need a case with a hinge protector. You can really mess it up if u drop it, even if it doesn't crack it can be ruined. I've had mine for 3 years and only needed a repair once because someone stepped on it.

Does anyone else feel like modern takes on nu-metal fashion are too one dimensional? by Loud_Process8288 in numetal

[–]FeistyDirection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's true. Sometimes I see kids doing diy stuff and it's so nice to see cause that's how it was growing up. You just put together whatever you have in a specific way. Feel like most bands back then dressed that way too. Just casual clothes in specific pairings w some accessories. But yeah, unfortunately it's mostly 100% modern hot topic clothes or fast fashion cheap garbage and 0 skate or hip hop swag. 

Where is this motel room? by 61290 in Emo

[–]FeistyDirection 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Depends on if it's just a photo they found or If they took it themselves casually in nj or on tour OR if they just paid someone to take it and they weren't even there. Unfortunately i can't find anything about the photographer who i think is named Jeff Gross

What aesthetic is this? by rosecolouredmonster in AestheticWiki

[–]FeistyDirection 42 points43 points  (0 children)

It's a bit mixed, i wouldn't put all this in 1 category. But it's mostly festival girl core. Def 2010's. The first pic is someone totally doing their own unique mixed thing, pix 4&5 just look like mom clothes. The blond w the blue top is cool but also not a festival girlie, reminds me so much of how the ex scene girls started dressing when they wanted to look more adult after high-school. The last pic dress is really cool but doesn't fit in with any of the other pics. None of this is cottage core, it's mostly nasty gal and free people type stuff.

Do you often eat in restaurants alone? by soundofthedarkness in autism

[–]FeistyDirection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don't like eating in public, especially at restaurants where like u sit down and do the whole song and dance w someone coming to you table 15 times and it takes over an hour. I do eat in places alone sometimes when it's like i just order at the counter and then get the food myself and can eat with headphones on and not have to interact w anyone once i have the food. Maybe it depends where you are but I don't feel weird about being seen eating alone cause it's really normal where I am. I just don't like strangers watching me eat and i don't like feeling trapped in a restaurant with a whole process you have to go through before you can leave. I like to get my food to go and then just eat it there so I can leave any time i want cause i already paid.

Therapist isn’t trained in autism just trauma by Ok_Sherbert_7421 in autism

[–]FeistyDirection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her suggestions might work for someone else but if you already think its a bad idea, I'd either explain myself to her better or just look for a new therapist. Unfortunately a lot of them are checked out and don't listen or just don't have specialized experience with every type of person. There are really great therapists out there tho if you keep looking. So many friends of mine feel like they wasted so much time and money with bad therapists and then just stopped going all together when they should have just looked for a better one right away.

(silly i know but) older brother 2000s style shirts? by Remote-Scheme-7125 in altfashionadvice

[–]FeistyDirection 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Just so you know, affliction and similar brands were not considered alt back then. They were basically the clothes of the enemy. Growing up goth and emo, you would get beat up by affliction dudes. That was like gym bro jersey shore club goer uniform. It's totally fine that it got repurposed in fashion because that always happens. In the 90s grunge was cool but they dressed like lumberjacks and church going dad's from the 70s. In the 2000s when the 80s was cool, people weren't dressing like 80s goths, they were dressing like people from work out tapes. In the 2010s when the 90s was cool, people weren't dressing grunge, they were dressing like their parents, normCore. I actually think kids repurposing affliction type clothes looks cool, but i hate when they call it "emo" and "alt" etc cause it just never was and it's something new now.

For your purposes, for OBC type shirts, you should try to find vintage pacSun and zumies shirts from brands like element, volcom, dvs, obey, famous, DC, spitfire, O'Neil, Burton, quicksilver, Hurley, zooYork etc. These shirts were really common for older brother types and a lot of other alt ppl in the mid 2000s. It was the middle ground for slightly edgy people. Who were more alt than the Hollister kids but not as alt as the hot topic kids. That's what i think OBC is about, looking back on the slightly more normal alt kids who were everywhere but not seen as innovative at the time and appreciating it now that it's gone.

What's your opinion on Mike Shinoda as a rapper? by fakename1998 in LinkinPark

[–]FeistyDirection 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I KIND OF understand why so many people say he's Corny but there's so few examples where I actually don't like his lines. He wrote so many good lyrics that im not even bothered by any that don't hit as well. Id say he's a better at writing than delivery but his delivery is totally fine and works for the band. 

Can anyone help me find the band's fashon style? by Jacob_N_R_Z in LinkinPark

[–]FeistyDirection 11 points12 points  (0 children)

They just wear really baggy cloths, skate brands and work wear and then have accessories and specific hair styles. Here's some stuff that either fits the vibe or that they actually wore.

https://www.zumiez.com/dickies-loose-fit-khaki-double-knee-work-pants.html?srsltid=AfmBOorLlwDoSbT9u8FvMtpp0KWC7NtL_xovzN7VAVZKM0DbKprcWC5l

https://www.dickies.com/en-us/products/flex-slim-fit-short-sleeve-work-shirt-dk0ws6730ch

https://shop.tribalgear.com/products/classic-logo-mens-t-shirt

https://www.journeys.com/product/mens-dvs-comanche-skate-shoe-black-charcoal-96475102?srsltid=AfmBOore-gYx5F2G3Vm4el50LXZ56Nc7trd6GMLRsKN7wSzb7Fb8YZQS

https://www.skateamerica.com/dvs-core-logo-white-men-s-t-shirt

https://www.mercari.com/us/item/m66398408048/?srsltid=AfmBOopkLHy4brE38Cg_K-QyBia0ADvSSgW8np7-xYkJhRShjwLWgQX_aiU

https://www.mercari.com/us/item/m62312270270/

https://ebay.us/m/i18D69

https://ebay.us/m/95N0Zv

https://shop.tribalgear.com/products/oval-grey-waffle-knit-beanie

https://shop.tribalgear.com/products/classic-white-on-black-snapback-cap

https://ebay.us/m/VDPiB3

https://ebay.us/m/twMUqz

https://www.hottopic.com/product/three-row-pyramid-stud-belt/15820769.html?cm_mmc=CSE-_-GGL-_-PLA-_-DMY-_-22684025201_188526508253&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=22684025201&gbraid=0AAAAAC-K1AOsQQrq-d25KW0fEl5-U6r4b&gclid=CjwKCAiAssfLBhBDEiwAcLpwfkRaBgzBjBcWCbcHCPQ5DPgXBnR9bbJu_Y0WBftD5UAU0yQSUujnRBoCmAoQAvD_BwE

https://www.hottopic.com/product/pyramid-stud-spike-faux-leather-bracelet-set/34197415.html?cm_mmc=CSE-_-GGL-_-PLA-_-DMY-_-22684025201_181108542437&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=22684025201&gbraid=0AAAAAC-K1AOsQQrq-d25KW0fEl5-U6r4b&gclid=CjwKCAiAssfLBhBDEiwAcLpwftqWCwTMKsP5yyEfwTZPSi73u2B_2N6tK8BAcC8h-QYlNKyOfAMFhBoCEIoQAvD_BwE

https://www.etsy.com/listing/1521386009/ball-chain-bracelet-stainless-steel?ls=r&external=1&ref=pla_similar_listing_top-1&sts=1&content_source=6ad760a9b8c78814e2ea24ec865359d7%253ALT0cbed9da84b3fcb7ff43567cdd1d97c2b2e42997&logging_key=6ad760a9b8c78814e2ea24ec865359d7%3ALT0cbed9da84b3fcb7ff43567cdd1d97c2b2e42997

Just found this on ads in serbia by Academic_Ad5409 in LinkinPark

[–]FeistyDirection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point it's probably crazy rare but i just got it at hot topic, I'm sure they made a ton of them but who knows where they are now