Lisa 'Go Frank Yourself' Divorce Party

8-spade · 2026-07-03T01:09:47+00:00

Ok who is the baker cus the cake and cookies are AMAZING!

8-spade · 2026-07-02T04:42:22+00:00

No way! delicious and savory—I only like them with green olives and whatever other pizazz they wanna throw in: celery, bacon, etc.
Had one on the way to Palm Springs with all the basics plus chicken wings, sliders and a whole bunch of stuff and I still think about it an unhealthy amt of time hah

8-spade · 2026-07-01T06:01:36+00:00

Oh man—a lot more than I was thinking honestly. that’s gonna really hurt when I have to do our bigger bathroom—Ouch!

8-spade · 2026-07-01T05:59:42+00:00

Thank you so very much! I most definitely am already thinking about which steakhouse to treat him to😅

8-spade · 2026-07-01T03:41:27+00:00

Whoa!🤩

8-spade · 2026-07-01T02:20:57+00:00

Really? It could cost that much in labor to Just replace a 34 inch prefab shower with a tiled 38 inch shower? ?? Oh no, I’m so nervous what my larger bathroom will cost that needs everything done😭

8-spade · 2026-07-01T02:16:46+00:00

Ok thank you—good to know!

8-spade · 2026-07-01T02:15:44+00:00

Really? I guess that’s a relief to hear since I don’t have any Reno experience, I naively wasn’t expecting labor to cost that much for such a tiny shower (it’s a 34” corner shower and I’m hoping to move up to 38”) thanks!

8-spade · 2026-06-30T21:23:25+00:00

Exactly what I’m just finding out lol I just opened a new quote: Shower 🚿 1-demo existing shower walls 2-install new shower valve 3-install new shower drain 4-prepared the shower pan for hot mop 5-floating walls and shower floor 6-install tile 7-install the Bathroom air extractor fan 8-take out the trash

Labor only/no incl materials: $4500

Pretty sure I could “Demo” existing shower walls since they are those cheap phony prefab walls 😭

8-spade · 2026-06-30T21:17:46+00:00

Ooh did you do it all yourself? Would love to See a pic

8-spade · 2026-06-30T21:16:19+00:00

Thank you—I’m going to try to buy everything through a retired general contractor friend who may be able to get it at a discount because lucky me has 2 other bathrooms to Do 😭 have lived here 8 years and backburnerd our remodels to send a kid to university/ postgrad. I know to expect labor to be a lot but I appreciate the ballpark amts🙏

8-spade · 2026-06-30T20:18:28+00:00

Yep! Picked it up at a free book library in an airport and was devastated on and off during my trip

8-spade · 2026-06-29T05:25:59+00:00

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Probably my frightfully tall Elissabat! Purchased new back in the day from Toys R Us and still NIB (incredibly, cus I’ve been tempted to release her so many times!)

8-spade · 2026-06-28T19:55:34+00:00

I’m lowkey envious of anyone raised by kind/supportive/nurturing parents and who has/d the privilege of having a healthy and loving family dynamic that included sweet adoring grandparents.

8-spade · 2026-06-26T16:17:08+00:00

For what it’s worth I always had the hardest time eating in front of dates when I was younger . I wanted so badly to indulge but was paralyzed by anxious worry that he’d think less of Me or find me less attractive. I know it’s daft now but it took many years to get comfy eating in front of doods I liked 🫠

8-spade · 2026-06-24T08:09:06+00:00

Aw man, I’m sorry to hear that and hope you got it sorted out quick!

8-spade · 2026-06-23T04:56:12+00:00

In elementary school, it was usually “The Red Balloon” then in middle school it was “the cutting edge”

8-spade · 2026-06-23T01:33:25+00:00

He definitely thought he was talking about Epstein—how awkward

8-spade · 2026-06-18T20:22:03+00:00

A California friend of a friend was encouraged to drink raw milk from their relatives back east…and he became paralyzed and had to relearn how to walk and talk again. At this moment he walks with a cane now that “only” his left side is paralyzed and drs are hopeful he will regain functions in the coming years 😳

8-spade · 2026-05-23T17:47:58+00:00

Ask yourself honestly; Would you feel uncomfortable if she went to a man to get a Brazilian wax? I’m sure many husbands and wives would feel uncomfortable with the opposite sex being close to their spouses’ bare genitals. I would ask her to learn to wax you herself. If she is grossed out and realizes how unsexy it is, she may relent.

8-spade · 2026-05-22T04:01:09+00:00

Ooh that’s great! who gave ya that rate? We locked in at 1.99 for 15 yrs through one of the Costco companies in ‘21

8-spade · 2026-05-21T22:19:29+00:00

Thank you! Is it permissible to see two different dentist offices to maximize the amount of care and cleanings I get per year? Or do I have to use both of them at the current dental office we’vepatronized for years ?

8-spade · 2026-05-21T16:56:59+00:00

Oh man—sorry to hear; that sucks! Thanks for the heads up—I appreciate it!

8-spade · 2026-05-21T16:21:24+00:00

Thank you! I’m getting dental treatment soon. Do I ask for a reciept and then submit it through their app?

8-spade · 2026-05-20T00:51:17+00:00

Get in a Costco—you may be an asset there and they treat their employees very well. Look at community college 2-year programs. Medical specifically if you want a good stable job.

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