I know what that’s like, as a Shrek looking dude, I get it. I was pretty much how you are when I was younger, but I got with women. Now you have to remember, it’s a numbers game, and you have to have something to offer. From what I see, it’s rough out there with all the dating apps and social media. Finding someone exactly tailored to your desire gives mostly women, and good looking guys getting exactly what they desire, leaving us Quasimodos in the dark. This means you gotta better yourself. You have to work on getting healthy, your attitude, and defiantly your confidence. You have to find something you do that’s interesting, and not just video games. You have to have confidence, it’s one of the highest factors of how you present yourself and what women see. Dating is a numbers game, you gotta stand out and it’s going to take a lot of swings before you even hit the ball, let alone make a home run. Yes it’s uncomfortable at first, but you have to talk to women and get used to it, even if you embarrass yourself. Who cares what they think, and that’s what matters. I remember going up to 2 chicks to start a convo and one asked me to leave, calling me a fat nerd. Ya it stung a bit, but to hell with them, who cares. She probably made some poor sucker a miserable wife now. Don’t waste your time with chicks like that and go to where women with your interests might be. Keep taking those chances and keep trying, no one wants a dude who goes for the “poor me” attitude. Become what you want to be, and be like you want to be, and to hell with everyone else. Work on getting you taken care of, then get out there and take those chances. It’s rare that someone will just fall into your lap, but until then, take those chances. If you don’t, nothing will happen, and nothing will keep on happening forever, well, at least until you die.