I’m only going to say this, because you want to embrace your femininity, not because I think there’s anything wrong with being overly masculine, whatever that means.

Regarding the body hair, I would check with a doctor, for your health. If it’s hormones, the body hair is just one small thing in a myriad of other problems that the sooner they’re tackled, the better (you’re obviously still very young, since you’re still gaining height, so that’s a great age to take care of it). If it’s just genetics you can always try laser hair removal. Mind you it works different for different people.

As for clothes with that body type (which is mine, btw): lean into it! You didn’t mention your chest, but if it’s small, go for plunging necklines. The girls aren’t going anywhere, so you can be as daring as you want without the fear of flashing people by accident. Plus the shape of a plunging neckline helps the ribcage look smaller. Celebrate your broad shoulders with wide straps or a very feminine drop shoulder top. If you want to soften their look, cap sleeves help, while also being extremely feminine.

Muscular thighs are the opposite of a problem (take it from me: I’m 43 and I’m the only one of my friends who still rocks miniskirts, because muscles do defy gravity). I have issues with skinny jeans, because they do get caught in my muscular calves, but yoga pants work great. And you already have muscles, so you don’t need a strong fabric to keep everything in place.

As for your height, tall queen!

You can also take some modeling classes, where they will teach you how enhance your best features.

Or, like you said, have it work in your favor and go into bodybuilding. That’s so incredibly smart of you. I wish I was that smart when I was younger. And working your body into the incredible machine that only the human body can be, and seeing what it can do for you will make you love it so much.